Marriage, relationships & families

My late husband’s parents live in USA and they would like to give their grandchildren some money for the future. Has anyone experienced this before and have any recommendations please? UK based financial advisors don’t seem to be able to help Many thanks

Roman catholic funeral service. It's a service not a mass. I am making an order of service and have multiple templates. All of them 'require' things Like 'Opening words', opening prayer, and more importantly the actual order of the service. The priest isn't in the country at the moment and legitimately seemed agitated and…

I have a parent who has been in a care home for the last couple of years(less than 3 years), moved with the assistance of LA who provided a list of care homes and then I chose the preferred option. Funding is a combination of pensions, attendance allowance (that was previously paid directly to parent and then I think at…

Long term lurker :) I am looking for some help please. Thanks. TLDR : Am I being unreasonable in expecting my partner to do more in the house. He works from home part time. I'm not working due ill health, but do at least 80 per cent of the housework. He refuses to take on more responsibility but moans we don't spend…

Hi im new so bear with me My husband left 5 years ago and we divorced in 2024 with not finance order as he didnt sign the absolute on time and the judge granted the divorce with nothing in place. Today i received a letter from a solicitors asking for me to agree to having the house valued and to pay him 50% of the equity…

Hello Just need some friendly advice please as my soon to be ex wife is bullying me and baiting me very clearly and threatening me with things, and with her mum saying she will constantly call the police certain things (essentially lying about it when I just talk normally and manipulate things) Anyway is it legal to me to…

Hi We would appreciate some advice please. We are selling dads house to fund his ongoing care home fees (We have lpa health and wealth and are also executors of his will) He has named a quantity of items in his will to be left to family members. We dont have anywhere to store these items ( some large items of furniture )…

Hi there, My father, recently deceased, was discharged from hospital into EMI residential care by a hospital social worker, despite us being told he needed EMI Nursing care. The social worker put the fear of God into us by telling us if we didn't find somewhere, he would just be kicked out of hospital and into a local…

Hi bit of a tough one for me here however we were going up and down for a while, have 2 kids together and mortgage I am the primary owner and wife is part time and childcare mostly (which is absolutely fine), however I Got made redundant and we seemed to be going on right track, done therapy etc paid for new kitchen on…

I usually have some sort of sewing related title to my threads. My diaries of how I cope, or don't cope with my unusual life. But I have lost my Sewing Mojo at the moment. Moving forward with a two year old, a four year old, a 12 year old, and four Adults who still take up my time I doubt this single Granny is going to…

Hello Our childminder, who looks after our child after school, has decided to leave the register because she only looks after children who are over the age of 8. We spend about £80 per month for the after-school care fees, and use childcare vouchers to pay. We are trying to work out whether we would save more money by…

I am in the early stages of divorce with my partner and are working on the consent order. Things are mostly amicable, there's no fault, and we are using a fixed fee service for this rather than using individual solicitors. Of course, we've ran into a stumbling block regarding money. Our family home is worth an estimated…

I’m looking for some advice regarding an elderly lady who may soon need to move permanently into a nursing home. Over the past year she has been in and out of hospital and has recently been transferred to a temporary nursing home for assessment. We are close friends and effectively the nearest thing she has to family,…

Hi all, I got divorced last year and the house has finally sold recently. I’m currently renting with my new partner, getting towards retirement age and need to buy something with my share of the equity ideally. My issue is that my matrimonial solicitors have charged me £11K for their services when their initial estimate…

About to buy a house with my partner. We are engaged and will marry (hopefully) within the next year. I have two children from a previous relationship, partner has none. Joint tenants or tenants in common? Or does this matter? Do we just draw up what we want to happen in a will? Thanks in advance.

This week's MoneySaver who wants advice asks... My in-laws have a mountain of debt in mortgages on three properties. My father-in-law quit his well-paid job after burning out, the bills piled up and now they’re skint. I've inherited some money, and my wife wants me to lend her parents £20,000 to see them through selling…

Hi all, Both my parents are in the process of doing health & welfare and financial legal power of attorney with me being the sole attorney on each one. When checking the status of each one yesterday all four LPA documents (2 each) said "Received" but today the status of the two LPA documents for mum had now changed to…

Hi everyone, I am currently completing my own Property and Financial Affairs LPA using the online service. I’ve come across the debate regarding "Standard Clause X" (the wording that allows attorneys to use Discretionary Investment Management services). I know the OPG updated their guidance in 2022 saying this clause is no…

Hi I will soon need to find a Care Home for my Dad who has Dementia. He will be self funding, however if requested my local Social Services will still find a home for him and negotiate the weekly rate with them, for a setup fee of £450. This initially sounds like a lot, but it isn't if they can negotiate a fee which is…

Hi, not sure if anyone would know the answer but since I’ve put my car finance claim in I’ve gotten married. Would this affect my claim and if I’m due any compensation would that also be affected?