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Marriage, Relationships & Families sticky
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Invested my redundancy payout in a new kitchen, to be then told getting divorce and I need to leave
Hi bit of a tough one for me here however we were going up and down for a while, have 2 kids together and mortgage I am the primary owner and wife is part time and childcare mostly (which is absolutely fine), however I Got made redundant and we seemed to be going on right track, done therapy etc paid for new kitchen on…
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Am I being unreasonable? I think partner should do more household chores. Help!
Long term lurker :) I am looking for some help please. Thanks. TLDR : Am I being unreasonable in expecting my partner to do more in the house. He works from home part time. I'm not working due ill health, but do at least 80 per cent of the housework. He refuses to take on more responsibility but moans we don't spend…
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Power of Attorney in Scotland - Professional or organisation acting as Attorney
We are a couple in our seventies, with no children and no close living relatives. None of our friends have the degree of trust or familiarity that we would feel comfortable with for a Power of Attorney (PoA). In Scotland, there are three types of PoA: continuing (financial) PoA for money and property, welfare PoA for…
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Divorce settlement - chargeback on property
I am in the early stages of divorce with my partner and are working on the consent order. Things are mostly amicable, there's no fault, and we are using a fixed fee service for this rather than using individual solicitors. Of course, we've ran into a stumbling block regarding money. Our family home is worth an estimated…
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How to hide my match.com profile?
Hi, I have a 6 month match.com subscription. Ive cancelled the subscription. How can I stop my profile from showing on Match!? Ive emailed Match twice and they havnt replied. Theres no option to deactivate account, or hide me in search or anything like that. I dont want to delete my account, just hide it! Thanks
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Surving Spouse Pension
I am a sngle, divorced and retired teacher. Currently I cannot nominate anyone for my surviving spouse pension. I am thinking of having a Civil Partnership with my platonic friend who is also a retired teacher. We would then nominate each other as partners for the surviving spouse pension. Any advice or ideas? We both have…
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How do I get my daughter to start coming over more like the old days...
So basically I have a 14 year daughter, she lives with her mother and stepfather and has done for about 9 years. I work away and when I'm home she used to spend alternative weekends and occasional days during the week and usually parts of the schools holidays with me. I recently sold my house last year and moved in with my…
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Is it normal my parents LPAs are getting processed at different times
Hi all, Both my parents are in the process of doing health & welfare and financial legal power of attorney with me being the sole attorney on each one. When checking the status of each one yesterday all four LPA documents (2 each) said "Received" but today the status of the two LPA documents for mum had now changed to…
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Elderly Lady Moving from HA Accommodation to Nursing Home
I’m looking for some advice regarding an elderly lady who may soon need to move permanently into a nursing home. Over the past year she has been in and out of hospital and has recently been transferred to a temporary nursing home for assessment. We are close friends and effectively the nearest thing she has to family,…
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Clean break order
After 12 months of being separated from my wife I am wanting to get a divorce over and done with. We have no financial ties, a minimal amount of debt (any debt with false claims with HMRC have been split between us already) and no assets (says a lot for 18 years!). I know I can get divorced online now easily through the…
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Should car finances be split equally if you’re not named owner?
My partner and I recently moved in together, and we decided we only needed one car between us as I work from home and he commutes via train. He bought a car on finance before we got together, and has 2.5 years left of the agreement. I had an old banger of which the battery kept dying, so I scrapped mine and he added me to…
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Has anyone used Lawhive (online legal advice) and would you recommend them?
Looking for low cost legal divorce advice
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Partner not contributing to house expenses. Is it fair?
I've been with my partner for about 25 years and we have a grown up child between us who lives away. He moved into my house after our child was born and since then we've moved house twice. Before I fell pregnant I owned my own house and had a lodger to help with the mortgage. He owned his own flat that was mortgaged. After…
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Acrimonious Divorce - How to ensure suitable Financial Disclosure?
TL;DR: In a particularly messy divorce where there is a big financial disparity between ex-partners, how do you ensure that the other side have disclosed all financial records? How do you know/prove they have disclosed everything? Background: Close family member (who is not financially-savvy) is going through a nasty…
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Most efficient way for US based grandparents to give money to grandkids
My late husband’s parents live in USA and they would like to give their grandchildren some money for the future. Has anyone experienced this before and have any recommendations please? UK based financial advisors don’t seem to be able to help Many thanks
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Changing back to maiden name
has anyone had any issues with changing back to maiden name after divorce - I am currently selling my home (not the marital home) and wondering whether to wait until afterwards but just wondering if anyone came up with any negative issues
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Which? Power of Attorney Service - Scotland
I'm looking into Power of Attorney in Scotland where we don't have the same DIY form-filling options as England and Wales. Given solicitors charge around £400 for PoA, the Which? DIY service at around £69 (for both welfare and continuing powers of attorney) looks good value, complies with Scots Law and your completed…
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MSE News: Martin Lewis: 'Let's make it easier for people in Scotland to use their Power of Attorney'
People in Scotland are being "sub-served" when they come to use their Power of Attorney compared with other UK nations, Martin Lewis has said. In a letter sent to the Scottish Government today (Thursday 5 February 2026), the MoneySavingExpert.com founder has urged for change to prevent unnecessary stress at what is…
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Selling the family home for elderly parent's care, dilemma.
My brother moved into the house that our mother owns, a few years ago. He is unemployed and has paid no rent, and only made irregular contributions to bills. She now needs residential care and will be self-funding. She lacks mental capacity and I am her only LPA. As such I have responsibility to act in her best interests.…
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Divorce and property takeover and capital gains tax
Marital home was purchased for £249,000 - 2024 - two years ago there was a seperation and the wife remained in the marital home while the husband moved out - the house was valued at £200,000 due to repairs that needed doing. The outstanding amount of the mortgage is £110,000 and the wife has secured a mortgage in her own…
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