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Hairdressers or Barbers for teen son’s haircut
My husband wants our son (13 years old) to go to his barbers for his haircuts from now on but I think he should keep going to my hairdressers because she knows how to do it properly. Who’s right here because we’ve had a argument about it? What do your teen son’s do? My sons hair is slightly longer than most boys hair so…
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Wedding Change
Hi all Getting married a week Saturday. Got a message from the venue today saying that room we were going to be using for reception is not available now as building work is running behind and we can use ceremony room for reception instead. We were told there would be building work going on over Xmas but was in no way told…
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Prenup conundrum
Me and my partner have been together for 9 years. We are both around 30 years of age. We have a child together. We are currently looking for a place of our own. And due.to.get married next year. My partner is set to be a single beneficiary of her parent's home and a one of four for her grandparent's house. She is often…
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Pre separation/divorce agreement???
After 29years of marriage my wife has decided she wants to leave me, she has applied to the local council for housing which I'm sure will take forever so we are currently staying in the same property. Just wondering if we can make a legally binding agreement before waiting on divorce agreement??? There are houses, which…
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What’s fair
Hi all. I’m interested in opinions on what is fair in our situation. My husband and I married after finding out his mother had terminal cancer. We had only been together 11 months when we wed 12/2020. I already owned my house and I believe I have £80K equity sat in it. My husband came with nothing. No savings. No property.…
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Ex debt
Are you ever responsible for ex debt, can you be forced to sell house due to ex debt (they are not on mortgage or land registry) however we are not yet divorced.
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Name change after divorce
This is such an odd question.... My parents got divorced around 35yrs ago-is (I'm in my mid-40s (cough cough)) but my mother, bless her, didn't want me to have to go through a name change while I was in school (I was bullied enough already) she also never spoke about my biological father so we (mother & I) kept her…
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Lasting Power of Attorney- land sale?
Hello there I wonder if someone has some advice to help me regarding gifting / selling land. My aunt was diagnosed with early onset dementia last year and shortly before this her husband died. A couple of months before this they agreed with neighbours to gift them a piece of land adjoining their properties and paperwork…
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Stopping Doing Pointless Traditional Things
Example: I only wear black socks. A few months back someone said they don't bother to pair their socks up - just shove them in the washing basket, wash/dry them and put them in the drawer as single socks not "linking" them as a pair at any time. Since this, it has made me wonder how many other somewhat pointless things we…
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Moved: 38 and going to Uni!
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Snoring - passing my findings on
I tried everything. Tape across my mouth, things for your
nose, moulded mouth pieces etc. Nothing worked until my wife saw ‘Snore wizard’
mouth piece whilst telly shopping. It looks just like a boxers gum shield and it’s
not cheap at £30/40 but does work. I looked into why I snore and this thing
works because it is able to…
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Redirection of post for someone who is unable to write signature?
My wife's Brother is suffering from Parkinson's and he has needed to go into a Nursing Home.He is very mentally aware but his speech is not very good and he is also unable to write or sign anything.He wishes to have his post redirected from his home to the Nursing Home, but according to the Post Office forms he needs to…
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divorce settlement
So I have spent 60% of my life being married. Going through divorce due to domestic abuse. I have long term illness with no prospects of returning to work anytime soon because of this, as it is degenerative.No mortgage on the house, but I will not be receiving enough to purchase another and have money to live on, however…
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Moving home during divorce - what form to send to court
Hi all. As the title says I'm in the process of divorcing. I've moved home and need to update my address with the court where I filed for divorce (Bury St Edmonds, UK). I know there is a specific form I have to send to them but Google is giving me nothing. Can anyone provide a link please? This is for the UK courts. Cheers.
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Borrowing money from sister advice please
Hello, I live in a shared ownership house and wish to purchase the rest of the 60% remaining. As a self-employed person my accounts are not allowing me to get a mortgage. My sister has the money sitting doing nothing in an account (due to selling property) and would like to lend me the money until we sell our deceased…
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Spousal maintenance/pension sharing
My marriage broke down 2016, we both remained good friends because of this a divorce was never mentioned! Im 48 & my husband (separated) is 2 years away from retirement probably 63 I would imagine. He has a well paid job & a very good company pension, I myself have an illness so relying on Disability benefits! My ex pays…
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Family holiday sister wants to come
My husband and I and our grown up children and their small kids are going on a family holiday skiing in a couple of weeks. We are renting a chalet that sleeps 8 ( but they are allowing an extra for our 2 year old grandchild ) but we are 9. Bit of confusion as we are going Feb half term and we booked for the Somerset half…
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Joint debt
I have been notified by my bank that bank account held jointly in my ex husband and my name, has now been transferred into my sole name at his request. The bank account has an overdraft on it. I’ve checked the terms and conditions on the account and it states that it needs both signatories or should be in credit for this…
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Money Moral Dilemma - Invested in NFTs with a friend
I invested in NFTs with a friend. (If you don't know what an NFT is think of this like a modern electronic version of pokemon cards) our objective was to make money from our investment. We purchased together instead of separately to save on transaction fees. We purchased 10 NFTs in total which was to be split 5 each. After…
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Ex partner refusing to let me buy their share of the house
Hello everyone, I'd appreciate any advice on the predicament I'm in currently, or if anyone has gone through a similar experience. I bought a house in March 2021 with my partner. A house that I have spent every but of my free time in the last 6 months devoting to decorating and getting the house to just how I wanted it. 6…
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