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Moving home during divorce - what form to send to court
Hi all. As the title says I'm in the process of divorcing. I've moved home and need to update my address with the court where I filed for divorce (Bury St Edmonds, UK). I know there is a specific form I have to send to them but Google is giving me nothing. Can anyone provide a link please? This is for the UK courts. Cheers.
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Borrowing money from sister advice please
Hello, I live in a shared ownership house and wish to purchase the rest of the 60% remaining. As a self-employed person my accounts are not allowing me to get a mortgage. My sister has the money sitting doing nothing in an account (due to selling property) and would like to lend me the money until we sell our deceased…
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Spousal maintenance/pension sharing
My marriage broke down 2016, we both remained good friends because of this a divorce was never mentioned! Im 48 & my husband (separated) is 2 years away from retirement probably 63 I would imagine. He has a well paid job & a very good company pension, I myself have an illness so relying on Disability benefits! My ex pays…
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Family holiday sister wants to come
My husband and I and our grown up children and their small kids are going on a family holiday skiing in a couple of weeks. We are renting a chalet that sleeps 8 ( but they are allowing an extra for our 2 year old grandchild ) but we are 9. Bit of confusion as we are going Feb half term and we booked for the Somerset half…
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Joint debt
I have been notified by my bank that bank account held jointly in my ex husband and my name, has now been transferred into my sole name at his request. The bank account has an overdraft on it. I’ve checked the terms and conditions on the account and it states that it needs both signatories or should be in credit for this…
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Money Moral Dilemma - Invested in NFTs with a friend
I invested in NFTs with a friend. (If you don't know what an NFT is think of this like a modern electronic version of pokemon cards) our objective was to make money from our investment. We purchased together instead of separately to save on transaction fees. We purchased 10 NFTs in total which was to be split 5 each. After…
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Ex partner refusing to let me buy their share of the house
Hello everyone, I'd appreciate any advice on the predicament I'm in currently, or if anyone has gone through a similar experience. I bought a house in March 2021 with my partner. A house that I have spent every but of my free time in the last 6 months devoting to decorating and getting the house to just how I wanted it. 6…
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Seperation claiming share of property
Hi I’m looking for some advice, I recently split from my ex partner after 10 years, we have a 7 year old Daughter. I wasn’t put on the mortgage when we bought our house 9 years ago. I paid money into his bank account every month whilst we were together which is over 30k I left him as he was controlling and our relationship…
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Decree absolute fee after 10 years
Hello, I got decree nisi in 2010 but could not proceed to absolute due to financial matters. These have now been resolved. According to form D187: If you filed your original application for divorce, nullity or civil partnership dissolution before 1st July 2013 then you will have to pay a court fee. I then looked at EX50…
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Help with split regarding assets please
Hello all, first time on here..... Unfortunately my partner and I are splitting up after 6 years. We are unmarried and we don't have any kids between us. We do however have 2 kids each and I'm the sole care for my two and she shares her two with dad. She has moved out now and I'm living in the house we bought together.…
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Death of ex husband advice please
Hi, My ex husband has just died and I'm trying to find out what I can do to claim my share of his pension. He left me for another woman in 2017 after 28 years of marriage and we agreed to divorce on the grounds of 2 years separation but she persuaded him to divorce me sooner on the grounds of unreasonable behaviour. He…
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LPA do's and don'ts - any advice please
My partner & I are about to set up LPAs with a long standing friend (none of us has children\siblings to pass this task on to!) Has anyone come across things they wished they had\had not done\written into the LPA when eventually coming to use it?
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Money Moral Dilemma: Should my mates pay me back for Glastonbury tent booking?
This week's MoneySaver who wants advice asks... In 2019, me and my mates booked tickets for Glastonbury 2020, as well as a pre-erected tent on the site. With the festival being cancelled two years running, we could either roll our booking over to this year or get a full refund on the tickets, tent, or both. I've decided I…
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Overreacting to sexting
Am I over reacting? Me and hubby went away for the night. We had a lovely day finished off by watching a show in the evening. back at the hotel hubby fell asleep. I couldn’t sleep so took his phone to look at the photos he had taken that day And he had left telegram open. I found some dirty messages. Next morning tell him…
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LPA advice please.
My wife's Brother is suffering from Parkinson's and he has needed to go into a Nursing Home.He is very mentally aware but his speech is not very good and he is also unable to write or sign anything.Problem being he has not taken out an LPA and is now unable to sign one, what can we advice him to do to get around this…
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Help re partner & shared costs
Hi All, Looking for a little advice, I feel I need to start by saying my partner is lovely but also very likely on the spectrum which sometimes makes communication difficult. We moved in together at the start of the pandemic. Initially, he lived with me in my flat (mortgaged) I was furloughed so being handy I did a…
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Potential implications of having been in hospital under a section 3?
Does anyone know of any potential implications of having been in hospital under a section 3? Something I've read about is it can affect travel to the US and China but upon reading further, this isn't necessarily the case. I was wondering if it could have any effects on obtaining a mortgage? I understand also that it…
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Cheapest postage to Rep of Ireland
Hello I want to send a 4kg package (childrens clothes) to an address in Dublin. It is in a bag - rough dimensions 45 X 30 X 30 cm Cheapest the post office could do it was over £35 !! Any cheaper options available? Thanks
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Things NOT to do in 2022
New year's resolutions are all very well, but there's a lot to be said for inaction. What are some things you're NOT going to do this year? This post is inspired by thorsoak's post from last year: Things not to do in new Lockdown. It also lent itself to a very active MSE Facebook conversation. I'll go first. I will NOT be…
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DNACPR
Hi Is anyone able to shed some light on how long a DNACPR lasts. My nan who is 97 recently went into hospital after being confused and hallucination, at the time the paramedics asked about a DNR, I explained I did not know and would discuss with family. Whilst nan was in hospital my mum who is nan`s daughter got a call…
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