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A place for mums with kids of all ages to discuss parent MoneySaving matters.
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Most recent: Money Moral Dilemma: Should I… by Pollycat
20 October at 9:58AM
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A place for dads with kids of all ages to discuss parent MoneySaving matters.
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Most recent: Money Moral Dilemma: Should w… by RUSure
29 September at 10:54PM
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Get MoneySaving help at the time of bereavement - discuss wills, inheritance tax, estate planning and more.
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For MoneySaving questions about taking care of your cat, dog, parrot or other animal companion, including vet fees and pet insurance.
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LPA
If you have an LPA, with your daughters as Attorneys, is your wife entitled to any money from the house sale -in your deed name only -by divorcing you? Also can your Attorneys prevent the sale?
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LPA reduced fee
My wife get £10.5k NHS pension as her only income apart from a small amount <£200 of interest from savings. However, she invests in a SIPP (£2880) and has some ISAs. Would she still be eligible for the reduced LPA of £42 as her income (before tax) is less than £12k Thanks in advance
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I need to leave
Hi, I'm not sure why I'm posting this, I think I need some moral support. I need to leave. There's too much to go into but I've got 2 children and I've put up with all this going on for about 14 years. Been together 15 years this year. I've asked my mum to sort a bed out and a cot, there isn't much room but we need to go…
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My mum is trying to control my life
I moved out and bought my own home last…
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Partner and I moving together
Hi My partner and I currently rent together. I have a house which I'm looking to sell and buy a 2 bedroom flat in London. I have about 250k equity which I will use for my deposit. My partner will move in with me but will not be on the deeds or anything as he is not contributing financially to the property. How do I ensure…
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Mum has shopping addiction, has taken out lifetime mortgage on her home
Hi everyone, Perhaps the title is an overly simplistic one for what is actually a rather complex situation; but I'll try and make this as succinct as possible... My mum always has had issues around her spending, to the point my dad (bless him) was working two jobs. Back when we were teens, it was Franklin Mint; jewellery,…
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Marriage Allowance
i have been claiming marriage allowance because i was earning 10,868 a year, now that minimum wage has gone up i earn 11,920 a year. I am paid monthly so my hours paid are different every month , this month i did 104.5 hours so i earned £1088.89 and i paid £28 in tax Will i get this back at the end of the year?
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Legally marry and not inform anyone - official or family
Can you legally get married in the UK and not tell anyone? By anyone - I mean ANYONE, family, friends, employers, the state, 'official' people. I know you're wondering why. The main reason being that we don't want anyone to know as it would cause a lot of family problems, arguments etc (we're not cousins by the way!) But I…
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Getting married in an independent church
Hi, Me and my partner are in the very early stages of planning our wedding. We’ve decided to get married at my partners mums church. We don’t attend very often ourselves, but my partners mum goes to the Sunday service every week, it’s the church my partner was taken to as a child and the minister is a close family friend,…
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Mesher order
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Loneliness
I don't have a partner or children. I live 250 miles from my nearest family, work from home so find it difficult to make friends with work colleagues who often live equally far away. Working from home I sometimes don't leave the house much, so I don't see people in general. I find it hard to make friends & don't have a…
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Direct debits after name change
Hello, I’ve recently changed my name at the bank to my married name and I’m completely confused on if my existing outgoing direct debits will remain fine? Do I need to frantically call around and try and update my details or will my maiden name be fine if all other details have remained the same - sort code and account…
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Sheriff court executor letter
Hi, my mum has passed away and I am her only surviving child. Having spoken to a clerk in the sheriff court office I believe I need to draft a letter to the court to be appointed as an executor of her estate. Does anyone have any advice on the wording as I fear it will need to be in legal speak which can be very specific…
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LPA health and welfare
If this has been discussed already I apologise and would appreciate a link. Basically, we need to update our will and doing LPA at the same time. Wondering if it’s worth doing ‘health and welfare’ as well as ‘property and finance’. We are only mid fifties and work in health and not sure if it’s worth the extra costs. All…
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Judge Wording on Enforcement Order, clarification needed. Thanks.
Hi, I have had an enforcement hearing, to enforce the price and sale process of the former matrimonial home which has already been ordered forsale. (Have been through full contested divorce and financial order has been made at final hearing). The judge eventually produced a 'General Form of Judgement or Order' which…
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What to do with the house owned as joint tenants
After the relationship breakdown, mother remained living in the house with the child. Property is jointly owned. The mortgage is paid by the housing benefit. However the child is shortly going to be 18 and something needs to be done with the house. What are the options? - Sell (prob there will be resistance from mother and…
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Purchases over £100 when you are a POA - consumer rights
Does anyone know how consumer rights work for POA when you purchase large ticket items such as stairlifts, converting a bathroom to a wet room and basically anything over £100 when the donor and POAs only have a debit card? POA can’t apply for loans, o/d or credit cards. Where does the donor and POA stand if they purchase…
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long term loan to friend
over a ten year period i loaned money to a friend and it is now a huge loan which he promising he will pay back but my patience has run out. a year ago i said please just pay me weekly or monthly something to knock off the debt, but he cant even manage to be reliable with that. he now has no job or assets! and he has an…
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