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A Ditherer's Diary (again)
I'm baaaack. When I started my original diary "A Ditherer's Diary" My kids were littlie's aged 5 and 15 months. Nothing except their age and the amount of debt has changed, it's all got higher! They are now 11 & 7. Having had a quick read through, a lot of it was me coming and going with a few months/years in between. I…
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MeandO's money-shuffling
Long time member here, sneaking back over from the MFW board... Previous diary here for those that want a back story: Money-shuffling towards mortgage freedom — MoneySavingExpert Forum Although my only debt is now my mortgage I've had to shift my focus from OP'ing to building up my savings instead, so don't really feel at…
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A whole new world, for now
So, here’s the new thread I’ve been promising myself for a few months. My old one, that served me so well, is http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showthread.php?t=4855808 A potted history of me. I’m 49, live in NI with OH, DD and dog and DS is London based. Have been in debt for a lot of my life and came here post personal…
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Time to Face The Music
We have decided as a couple that it is time to face the music and start paying down some of our debts. We are lucky that we are both in jobs that pay ok but we have at times been living beyond our means and now it is time to start reining in the spending and making a concerted effort to cut the debt. Moving house last year…
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One man band......
Evening. I've been here before and closed down my diary, but I missed having people to talk to about my financial woes. Not one person knows my situation and makes the burdon quite heavy. I have considerable debt. It was at £45,000 and now sits at £27,000. It's a mixture of leaving my first partner and taking on all our…
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Time for a new start
So it's time for a new start for my diary. Previous diaries can be found here. https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/5585379/drawing-a-line-under-the-debt https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/5754979/drawing-a-line-under-the-debt-take-two#latest 2023 is going to throw up some financial challenges, so I…
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Debt and Caring
An unprovoked attack on my ankle by a metal workout bench has me lying down with a foot up this evening. Which makes this the ideal time to start this diary. And possibly to declutter some exercise equipment... Yesterday I was £9993.61 in debt. Today I have made a £1500 payment to one of my credit cards taking me down to…
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Three years to get debt free
Morning, I have had a diary on here before but had to close it down. I am a single mum with an 8 year old DD. I have found myself in debt since the age of 18 when I went to university and have been in it ever since. I decided to change this in 2017 and then found myself a single parent in 2018 and having to attain more…
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First timer seeking accountability
Hi all! 👋 Firstly I am a long time lurker 👀 first time poster. Little obligational background for context: 32 year old married mum of 3 aged almost 18, 8 and almost 3! Was in an abusive relationship from age 13 until I managed to flee with my son in 2010. Met my now husband late 2011 and the rest is history. We have two…
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Keeping afloat till I can get round to the debts!
So here goes with a brand new diary. With the financial situation across the country as it is I'm going paycheck to paycheck and debts seem to be going up not down. It's time to take stock. Focus on the money actually lasting the month and forming a new plan. I've never been one for following the American debt fella but I…
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2020++ - smiling and waving and looking so fine
Hello welcome to my shiny new 5 years (I hope) diary. The title is based on my favourite lyric from the Bowie song 5 years - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4bcnO3VQ_fc - I commend you to go and have a listen - its the live Old Grey Whistle Test version and is hauntingly beautiful. Why a 5 year diary - well its is…
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Walking into another chapter ...
Welcome one and all ... to those of you who have managed to avoid my diaries until now as well as those loyal ones of you who have stuck around over the years, thank you :) So another year is about to begin and now seems as good a time as any to start a new diary. This will be my 11th (I think?), I've been around here…
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Becoming debt free within 18 months
Hello, Just an intro into me, i have tried many times but something happens as i give up. This time however i am not stopping. If i create a diary i will have to answer to myself. I am mid 30s with a partner who is studying and working part time and i work full time and study. We have a dd who is 10. I am going to try and…
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Countdown to Part Time…
I’ve been inspired by your diaries so decided to start my own. Firstly, I am going to say I know I’m in a privileged position of having paid off my mortgage and that although I’m in debt, my financial position is really quite sound. BUT I am bad at living within my means and I allow credit card debt to rack up, then take a…
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2023 - Positivity And Progress!
I've decided to begin a new diary for 2023 - last diary: https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6385340/changing-my-life-goals-and-finances/p1 So, 2023 is the year I am concentrating on positivity and progress! I am determined to achieve the following things: 1) Build my Debt Neutral Fund (DNF) 2) Fill my Bulk Buy…
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Onwards and the debt goes downwards!
Hi All Old diary is here http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showthread.php?t=1000559 I can't do the posh linky things. Things are all changing in the Lucielle household. DS1 arrived back from New Zealand and has moved out to start his new job. Spent most of last week building flat pack furniture from the well known store.…
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In the Meantime
The meantime is the time between two events. The two events that bookend my meantime are a death and moving into my long term home. In the meantime I will rest, practise self care and kindness. I will be planning and plotting for the next phase of my life. My beautiful relative died and was buried the week before…
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misstara's debt diary 2020
Decided it's time for a fresh start and a new diary :D I've been in debt pretty much continually since I got my first credit card at 18, I'm now 35 so have spent almost half my life in debt :eek: Currently I have £519.86 credit card debt and £5,139.70 car loan (£146.82 per month). This year has not been a great year…
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New To Budgeting And Clearing my 3 credit cards debt
Hi all, I've been reading on and off for a while and I finally took the courage to open my own Debt Free Diary, to help keeping myself accountable. It feels good, as I finally have a plan, but it's going to be a tough couple of years. I purchased a flat in 2021, so I'm repaying my mortgage every month, and at the time,…
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As one chapter ends another begins
So, my debt free chapter begins. On 1st November, I became debt free :) , which is something I have dreamed of for the longest time. I have spent all of my adult life in debt and the amount have varied considerably over the years, in January 2020 I owed £15,940.10. I did give myself until my 55th birthday to pay all the…
