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Stopping the backsliding… a family of four no longer living beyond their means
Some of you may know me from my last diary, which was on Mortgage Free Wannabe. The truth is, I’ve not paid anything extra off my mortgage for years, I’ve not saved like I meant to, and I currently have £1,000 on my credit card 🤦♀️ 🤦♀️ 🤦♀️ I plan to have this paid off in under 3 months, so I could have stayed on my old…
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Paying off No 27 - Back again and £34K in the red!
Hello I am back again... :) It's been awhile since I have been here so for those of you who were around then, I have paid debt down and built back up and I am trying (again) to face the music. To those of you who are new I am a Single mum of 2 who works full time and lives miles beyond her means. :s I should have cared way…
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A whole new world, for now
So, here’s the new thread I’ve been promising myself for a few months. My old one, that served me so well, is https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/4855808 A potted history of me. I’m 49, live in NI with OH, DD and dog and DS is London based. Have been in debt for a lot of my life and came here post personal debt…
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Spinning a New Story
I’ve been lurking for a little while, reading and learning. After far too long of burying my hand in the sand and telling myself that I’m just not very good with money, I’ve decided that I need a new story. I can learn to do things differently. I don’t have to hide away from my bank balance. I can save for the future (one…
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Milann’s mutterings through retirement
I thought it was about time for a new diary. Ive been a member of MSE many years now and got my debt down from £20,000’s to a big fat ZERO. I kept the debts to myself as I was the one who built them up. Dh would have been ok and we’d have worked through them together…..but it was my mess that I wanted to clear myself and…
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Starting the journey...the road is currently bumpy.
My debt has always been there, nothing major - the odd holiday on 0% which is dutifully paid off then rinse and repeat. Then things changed, 5 years ago I lost my mum to Cancer - she loved life and was taken too young. From this my attitude changed, holidays booked, things bought, paying for friends - I wanted to live in…
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10 years later yikes
Hello all Here again for round 2… my first diary https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/4529627/can-i-do-it/p1 I’ve just looked back at this and as much as I really thought I knew what I was doing, it’s crazy to now see 10years later here I am. I was in my 20’s and ambitious and honestly looking back on it now how…
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Divorce debt be gone!
Newly divorced but with big debts to clear here - moving and divorce legal fees, furnishing and essential repairs on the new place for me and my 2 teenmonsters who live with me 50/50. I managed to secure a 0% 15 month purchases card a few months ago when I moved to pay for furniture and have just secured a 0% balance…
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Baby Steps to a brighter future
I'm one of those boomerang DFW. Was on here previously having cleared 10k of debt post marriage breakdown, divorce and moving on. Was debt free for a couple of years and due to some pretty rough set of circumstances find myself back here with an even bigger debt. This debt is not from being frivalous, far from it. Life has…
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My new debt free diary :)
Hi everyone! This isn’t my first debt free diary but I hope it’s my last :blush: I’m making this diary so that I am accountable to myself and I plan to update it as often as possible. I am 38 and have been in debt since I was 20 and bought my first car. Not massive amounts but enough to affect my monthly income. I have 7…
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My long overdue journey to becoming debt free!!
Hello, I've been lurking on here for a good few years now, and I have decided its time to finally, and for once and for all, to sort my sorry financial mess out! I wont bore you with all the gory details of how I got here, it would just be a list of excuses and justifications, when the hard reality is I spend more than I…
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7 years lack of control ... 18 months to regain it
I’m not going to go into too much detail but I’m £14k in debt after 7 years of no control , living for the moment. I’m getting married in 18 months and H2B has zero idea of my financial situation and I refuse to get married with this hanging over my head. In the last week I secured a new 0% BT card for 22 months and had an…
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A Lifetime of Debt - F, 40s, autistic, parent, professional
Hi, I'm starting a diary, as I always have a lot of thoughts, but I'll try not to disclose myself, as I really am a librarian and I'll want to talk about being autistic, which narrows down who I am already, although I should be safe! Between me and my husband we are in about 9k of unsecured debt, I owe just under 7k to…
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Moving on with things
I have debated posting this for a few days or so. One of the main reasons I wanted to post an update is because recently I said goodbye to my car for good having made the decision to lease another electric car through my business. A decision I simply think I wouldn’t have made without having been on here. My wife and I are…
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A space for my thoughts - tackling debt once and for all!
Good afternoon all, I've spent the last three weeks lurking and very much enjoying reading other people's diaries, seeing their journeys - the ups and the downs - really resonates with me. I like the idea of this being a safe place for me to write down my journey. A few things have led me here - our fixed rate mortgage is…
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Still Vegan, mis-diagnosed Bipolar (actually ADHD) and Debt-free since 2020
So many years since my last post on this forum. I have been through so many transformations and leveled up my financial knowledge several times but I hit a sort of wall in my progress and decided to compare how I'm doing now in my so-called "struggle" with how I was doing back when I was in hard-core get-out-of-debt mode.…
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Redemption - The journey of a recovering gambling addict.
Ok. Here goes. This is my journal on my journey to redemption. First post is to outline my current situation. Salary- £75k + Married Two Children Personal Debts Bank Loan 1 CAR - £20433 - £352 4.3% Debt Consolidation Loan £10,344 £153 5.2% MBMA - £4300 - 0% 14 months NatWest £3000 - 0% 12 months I have told my wife…
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Flying solo
I previously had a diary (well actually I've a few) but in June I had a big life shift which meant I disappeared for a while! I've had a few attempts at trying to pay off debt, made great progress and then progress stopped and the debt increased again. But this time I seriously mean business and I am determined to get this…
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I shouldn't feel skint ...
But I do. I am very
ashamed to post this, but despite having a decent income I find myself having
to really watch my spending for the last week or two before every payday. I
also have stubborn credit card debt, accrued when I was younger and skinter,
that I should have shifted but haven't. I've recently had to borrow money…
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Barclaycard statement date calculator
Barclaycard don't make it very easy for you to find when your next statement is due. The logic, is that it's always the {N'th} WORKING DAY of the month. Giving them 20 statement runs a month. It would be helpful if you could find this data on your previous statement. Some maths later!! Here's a useful table for everyone WD…
