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A Lifetime of Debt - F, 40s, autistic, parent, professional
Hi, I'm starting a diary, as I always have a lot of thoughts, but I'll try not to disclose myself, as I really am a librarian and I'll want to talk about being autistic, which narrows down who I am already, although I should be safe! Between me and my husband we are in about 9k of unsecured debt, I owe just under 7k to…
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Trying to stay out of debt! [35/AuDHD/Cats/Frugal Living]
I'm not in TOO bad a situation but I get the feeling it could really get out of hand. I have two more payments to make to pay off a loan/credit card thing with my Mum. Work is difficult for me to access. I'm autistic and have a lot of difficulty with other people. Trying each day to remind myself that I don't have money…
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Will I ever get it?
Many moons ago I was a DFW and did really well for a while but then life drastically changed but I find myself here again but in very different circumstances. I am in my fifties, happily single with a variety of pets. My debt isn't huge (about £2300) but I am unable to work so finances are limited. I do get frustrated with…
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Debt free and staying that way while I re-evaluate life and keep blood sugar levels down
Well dear debt-free aficionados, after reading and commenting on so many diaries on this board, I am launching myself into the abyss! Although debt-free now, you do all feel like my tribe because over 3-5 years several years ago, I did manage to.pay off £140k. Yup, that's right; no need to clean your specs though please…
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Kezzy's debt journey 2024
I've been a member here for a long time, but for the first time I am going to create my own debt free diary. A little about me:nhs nurse, married mother of 2, and 2 doggie children. I have a bit of a problem with gambling, but hopefully I'm addressing it now I have used gamstop to block myself from uk sites. Lightbulb…
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Sorting my life out (again)
Blimey, it's been about 5 years since I've used this forum and my life has completely changed. 2020 = married, 1 DS, full-time job, debt-free, £9k savings 2025 = divorced, 1 DS, 1 DD, full-time carer for my DD who is disabled, £7k debt, £0 savings Luckily my debts are relatively small and 0% interest... apart from the car…
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The Little Cottage by the Sea
Hello my loves, I've wandered these threads for a few years and old versions of myself have had different user names and different diaries. I feel like this is a new chapter. One where I'm content and capable and I hope to bring you along for the story. The diary title is me manifesting the dream. I have come a long way,…
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Silly Goose Indeed...
I am very nervous about posting online, but opening up to my family in the last few days has made me realise talking about it actually helps. I am notorious for bottling up my problems and not talking about them and it doesn't end well so here goes. I think I've made almost every bad mistake you could ever imagine, I also…
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*sigh* this is still taking a while, but moving forward (slowly!)
Hope everyone is enjoying their Christmas so far :) After 4 years writing (sporadically) on my previous diary, I thought it was time for a sparkly new one. A lot of things have changed over the 4 years - I just have 1 job these days, my children are all that bit older, our house renovations are complete and our debt is…
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Paying off £37065 unsecured debt by July 2027 while continuing to travel this amazing world
£37065, it’s a challenge, but I’m up for it. The debt is made up of three credit cards, Very, a car loan, and a boob job loan 😆 I’m planning on combining the avalanche and snowball methods. I know it makes sense to overpay the higher interest Very debt first, but I need the quick win of waving goodbye to my smallest credit…
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How thrifty can a thrifty forumite called ThriftyMissus be?
I’m starting a diary…I’m good at stating the obvious. In January 2024 my debt was £19,546 to HMRC after massively messing up amid repeated and intensive trauma, I may feel more comfortable sharing at some point. I also owed £4,000 to Amex. As of today, my total debt is at around £5,600. For the last little over 12 months,…
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About time, I stopped hiding
It seems it is finally time to stop hiding, and start doing something about my debt. It all started, as it did for many others, in lockdown. My husband had been the victim of a terrorist attack and both of us were (still are if I'm being honest!) suffering with PTSD, I was finishing my PhD (after my funding had ended) and…
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Oh look, another new start!
I really need to get serious about my debt. I'm an adult, time to be an adult. I'm 35, married, 1 child (with my ex so share 50/50 custody), 1 dog, 1 cat. I also have a partner in Ireland (polyamory is a thing, let's not make a big deal out of it) so I do have to encompass some travel in my plans. I don't have to, I…
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Weight loss and healthy eating for a debt free life
I've been thinking about this for a while and I've seen a few other people mention weight loss so I wondered if we should have a thread. There's a giving up alcohol one but obviously we can't give up food. I also realise that not everyone with a food buying problem is overweight. I overbuy and some of the overbuying was…
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Time to stop being frivolous!
I'm biting the bullet and starting a diary! If anything I'm hoping it'll help me think a bit more about avoiding frivolous spending and remind me to get better at keeping the cards in my pocket. To quickly introduce myself, I'm 31 and live in London with my boyfriend and our rescue cat. I'm fortunate that I work full time…
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Shuffling My Feet
Hello, Internet. You can call me Detty. I am starting this diary in the hope it will let me one day look back and see my progress. That, and I have found other peoples' DFDs to be so helpful to me, so perhaps some parts of my journey might help someone else. My debt journey starts in 2017. I am exceedingly frugal but on…
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Debt, Endo and Reno
Hi! I’ve been reading different diaries for a while and think I need to hold myself accountable! I have a slightly odd set up as I live with the boyf, but have a house that’s now a holiday let/buy-to-let that I need to finish and get let out. I know evil landlord and all, but don’t want to put all my eggs in one basket…
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The only way is up - but I need to keep going in the right direction!
Okay, time for a new debt-free diary. I first started one seven years ago when I realised how in debt I was after years of silly decisions, some tricky circumstances, slipping back into bad habits, and burying my head in the sand. Back then, at its worst, my debt was £39,220.58. I'm now on £6977.55, split across two credit…
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Managing Mat Leave
I've been meaning to start a diary thread on here for a little while. I'm due to start mat leave in 8 weeks which was not entirely planned, meaning from a financial point of view it's a little tight. Definitely manageable but we need to keep track of a few things as we have some debts we're paying off as well. I'm hoping…
