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Walking into another chapter ...
Welcome one and all ... to those of you who have managed to avoid my diaries until now as well as those loyal ones of you who have stuck around over the years, thank you :) So another year is about to begin and now seems as good a time as any to start a new diary. This will be my 11th (I think?), I've been around here…
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Will I ever get it?
Many moons ago I was a DFW and did really well for a while but then life drastically changed but I find myself here again but in very different circumstances. I am in my fifties, happily single with a variety of pets. My debt isn't huge (about £2300) but I am unable to work so finances are limited. I do get frustrated with…
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Should itsthelittlethings spend less on coffee?
Hopefully this works as an all new diary for me. Will add my debt into my signature and keep track of how I do going along.
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Take my life back
Hello everyone. After keeping my head burried in the sand i decided that i need to take back control of my finances before mental healt deteriorates even more. Everything was perfect…until divorce. A few things that i would like to clear out, I'm now renting with my partner £1250 but also pay my solo mortgage £1250 for the…
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Getting Started (Again)
So having cleared over £18k of debt around 15 years ago, I know find myself in the unenviable position of having accrued debt and trashed my credit file once again… Things are very different now to then, but for various reasons I have only recently managed to turn a corner and really faced up to the situation. I made use…
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Time for Change…..
I’m heading rapidly towards my half century and still don’t feel like a proper grown up in charge of my own destiny. It’s time that I pulled on my big girl pants and start facing facts and taking responsibility for my life. After all, I am the only one that can do it! I’m going to use this diary to keep up momentum and…
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Debt Free by 30!
Hello MSE Forum readers! If I was to look back on my 20's as a whole, it has been heavily dominated by my money troubles. Whilst other global issues have had their impact, my poor management of my money as well as a gambling problem I struggled with when I was younger stopped me from having a lot of experiences others…
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Here I am ...
Hi everyone, back again to start keeping track. I started to do my SoA but got so overwhelmed that I haven't finished it off. Husband has been made redundant so we need to really tighten our belts, and just as we started to do that our dog was very poorly. Luckily she's fine now, but even with insurance it's going to cost…
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Mentally exhausting
Hi all, this is my first post but a long term reader of this forum. I have been in debt my whole adult life and now in my early 40s. It all started when I started work at 18 in a high street bank and had access to easily accessible credit which I kept consolidating and taking out more. I was on top of my debts but my OH…
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Back in debt after clearing it in 2013
Here I am again, back in debt 😩 I cleared 17.5K back in 2013 using the suggestions on this forum, but life (and a complete inability to manage money) has led me back to being in debt. Granted it's not as bad as before, at least the LBM was quicker this time around 😆 but it needs sorting. I did start doing a payment a day,…
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The Little Cottage by the Sea
Hello my loves, I've wandered these threads for a few years and old versions of myself have had different user names and different diaries. I feel like this is a new chapter. One where I'm content and capable and I hope to bring you along for the story. The diary title is me manifesting the dream. I have come a long way,…
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The Debt-Free Journey Begins....
Good morning all, I've looked through these forums for some years and taken lots of good ideas and inspiration from other users. So thank you. But now it's time I actually hold myself accountable for my own messy finances and lock in to becoming debt free and on the right track to live a much easier life financially. I'm…
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One day at a time
Im starting this dairy to keep track and hold myself accountable. unsecured debts of £54k. Have clearly been living off CC more than i ever realised. All been low apr or 0% BT, now coming to an end this year, interest is killing me, monthly payments circa £1200. My OH knew nothing of any of it, they knew we had a loan and…
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Reining it in for retirement and sanity
Hi all No idea why I got booted out last time - don't think anything in my thread was inappropriate - but then lost my email password and couldn't get back in so back again(!). Background - Female, mid 40's with 2 young DC (6&4). One has additional needs. Live with them and DH. Work full time as does DH. Previously lots…
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2026: time to face facts and plan for the hard times ahead
Hello everyone, I've been a long time lurker under a different alias but have now created a new moniker to be a bit more vague about name and area of UK as starting this journey and will be posting for my own sanity and all your support I've seen so much across the years. I'm in a deep pile of debt that I've been servicing…
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Busting this debt before 40
Time for me to de-lurk on this thread and start my own dairy. Long story short ish. Away on work last year all my co-workers talked about pensions. Then realised that I wouldn't get my state pension till 67. Also my work pension doesn't kick in till 67 either...(There's like a mini pension for when I've done my contracted…
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Default me
Well, where do I start? I have been in debt for my whole adult life, since I was accepted for my first store card at 18. You would have thought I would have learnt by now how to manage but again, in the same month that all of my previous defaults have dropped off my credit file, I am about to default on all of my debts…
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Creating the life I want - and tackling my debt!
Hello all, Years ago I had a journal, but back then, I was at home with my parents, trying to keep a business afloat that paid me a pittance. Moving out felt like a pipe dream. But I did. After closing my business down in 2017, I took on an entry level government job and worked my way up a couple of grades [so far] and…
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The Journey to being debt free, hopefully
So I am bad at following through on things. And I have an impulsive nature. The impulsive nature is probably what has made me start this thread, and it is going to rely on me actually following through to keep it updated. I have just set a bi daily calendar reminder to update thhis post, we will see how it goes. I am…
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£32k in 23 months!
Here I go! I have been in some form of debt my entire adult life. I’m not in dire straights each month, but I am sick of taking payment holidays when I need some more room, managing interest rates and trying to be smart while all I’m actually doing is moving debt around for what feels like forever. I recently started a new…
