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Let's face the music and dance...
Well this is 100% scary... I've got into a pickle with money, it all started when I left uni was unable to find a full time job and worked part time put the extra each month onto the credit cards. I was a mature student, graduate 2017, swore to myself I will never be in debt again, had about 5k of debt in my 20s, so I know…
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+6 Year Debt (actual 13 years) - started receiving demands from NEW COMPANY?
I had alot of debt, from various banks and credit cards around 2002, and I lost a job around 2006 and stopped paying the debts, 6 years quickly passed and I moved address After around 2012 I never got any debt letters But this last few weeks I got one from from a company called VERIFY, which is for just under 2000£ - its…
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5 Years Come To A Head
So after 5 years of debts accruing (over £21k on 5 CCs), what I had been hiding came to a head early this week. I revealed to my wife that I had messed up; I'd built this debt without saying anything, without asking for help, without shouting for support. It's one of the hardest things I've had to do, and I almost…
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Lurker's forum: what has been your most helpful tip?
Hi everyone, I get so much from reading these pages: both practical help and also reassurance that there are so many kind people in the world who are willing to offer help to strangers. I wondered if anyone would like to just celebrate some of the things they have learned on this forum - or to call out the people on who…
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Reining it in for retirement and sanity
Hi all No idea why I got booted out last time - don't think anything in my thread was inappropriate - but then lost my email password and couldn't get back in so back again(!). Background - Female, mid 40's with 2 young DC (6&4). One has additional needs. Live with them and DH. Work full time as does DH. Previously lots…
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You can’t pour from an empty cup, the road to self care
As 2024 is almost here I think a new diary is in order. I will be spending New Year’s Eve alone, not for the first time, the difference being this time I don’t have a significant other who would call me, and make sure they were the first to wish me a happy new year. I will not dwell on what has been lost, but focus on what…
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One Day More...
...another day to becoming debt free I want this diary to be my accountability mirror and to
inspire others who find themselves in the darkness and grip of debt, wandering
the abyss as they drowning in struggles to find hope and solace in the
knowledge that they're not alone and that there is a way to get their life…
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From rock bottom to debt free. My journey
I'm at the very beginning of my debt free journey. I've recently lost my job and a relationship has ended so I've gone from an almost £60k a year income household to Universal credit and staying on my mums sofa as a 44 year old. This really does feel like rock bottom but I'm determined to get out of this for my own mental…
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F&F settlement letter offer or CCA . Not sure where to start. Thanks
Hi everyone, Thanks for reading my post. I have been reading through the forums and not 100% sure where to start. I am looking for some advice as I don't know whether I should try and negotiate F& F settlements or first to ask for my CCA, all taken out around 2011-2014. I have been paying £5 a month to each creditor for…
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A Better Life.
I want a better life. I know with the crisis in the cost of living, the war in Ukraine, my mum's illness, the state of the government and the fact that it is winter it is probably the wrong time to start trying! but I am so tired of my life, I feel put upon and trapped but if we are being totally honest I do this to…
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Back to Square One
I thought I was making progress, but since I live in Jersey, the situation is so much worse because for example HSBC will only agree to a £500 monthly through DMP--this info I got from a different thread.
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Debt free in less than 2 years - Which card to pay down first?
Hi all, I've decided to start this debt-free diary as a way to keep myself accountable and on track with paying down my debts. I have a debt free date goal of December 2026. I'm just not sure where to start and what card to pay off first? Here are a list of my debts with the interest rate and balance. I do have 2…
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Struggling along as best I can
Hi everyone, I have just been catching up on my banking and budgets and I am really fed up of getting to the same point of having very little for the last 6-10 days before I get my pension. Don't get me wrong my bills are all paid and I have no debt and I only need to buy just a couple of bits of food (coffee!) But I'm…
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Debt management plan paid off in under 4 years
On the 1st of July we make our last payment on our debt management plan with Step Change! It has taken under 4 years to pay over £9000 in debt - this because of lock down and loss of income during that period. It has been tough, we started paying £88 a month, and we have been paying £400 over the last 6 months. Things can…
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Frugal, thrifty, make do, mend! Let this debt come to an end!
Hello all, So by my reckoning, that magic spell in the title should take about 4 years and 4 months to take effect at current debt repayment and spending rates. :rotfl:. However, there is no harm in trying to help things along a little, is there? I am recently divorced and live on my own in a rented house with my 2 cats.…
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Beginning of debt free journey...High income, high debts, expensive pets
Hello I posted a few days ago on the debt free wannabe board about my sorry state of affairs. I have received some good advice already and wake up calls. I thought I'd start a diary to share my journey, keep myself accountable and perhaps help, and seek help from, others in a similar situation to me. I'm in debt to the…
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Three Years of Tears to Yippee I'm Debt Free!
Hello All... This week I have finally faced my debt demons and I know I have to do something about it. I am 59 years old, married and financially, to the outer world I look like I am doing well, I have a good income, I go on nice holidays, drive a nice car and live in a nice house but I have been for the last few years…
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In a rush.
Morning. I've been here before, but deleted my account as I probably overshared and then panicked that somebody I knew would read it. Me in a nutshell..... 2010- left my children's dad. He was abusive. Walked away with all of the debt. 2016- Had to sell the family home as I could no longer afford to maintain it or pay the…
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I have a plan - so everything is fine
First of many posts….Currently I’m 49k in unsecured debt. I’ve posted SOA and had some support and so I’m going for a DMP. This was back towards the end of June/July so thought I would post what’s happened and where I am. So my SOA compared to today…..isn’t it strange that in my head I was thinking I was paying £1400…
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Small steps clearing debt with paws by my side
I’m writing this before I think about it too much and chicken out. It’s terrifying laying everything out and even more terrifying posting it. I’m just trying to remember that even though my situation feels completely awful, I’m sure other people on here will have been in similar situations and worse. Disclaimer: I am very…
