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About time, I stopped hiding
It seems it is finally time to stop hiding, and start doing something about my debt. It all started, as it did for many others, in lockdown. My husband had been the victim of a terrorist attack and both of us were (still are if I'm being honest!) suffering with PTSD, I was finishing my PhD (after my funding had ended) and…
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Oh look, another new start!
I really need to get serious about my debt. I'm an adult, time to be an adult. I'm 35, married, 1 child (with my ex so share 50/50 custody), 1 dog, 1 cat. I also have a partner in Ireland (polyamory is a thing, let's not make a big deal out of it) so I do have to encompass some travel in my plans. I don't have to, I…
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Weight loss and healthy eating for a debt free life
I've been thinking about this for a while and I've seen a few other people mention weight loss so I wondered if we should have a thread. There's a giving up alcohol one but obviously we can't give up food. I also realise that not everyone with a food buying problem is overweight. I overbuy and some of the overbuying was…
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Time to stop being frivolous!
I'm biting the bullet and starting a diary! If anything I'm hoping it'll help me think a bit more about avoiding frivolous spending and remind me to get better at keeping the cards in my pocket. To quickly introduce myself, I'm 31 and live in London with my boyfriend and our rescue cat. I'm fortunate that I work full time…
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Shuffling My Feet
Hello, Internet. You can call me Detty. I am starting this diary in the hope it will let me one day look back and see my progress. That, and I have found other peoples' DFDs to be so helpful to me, so perhaps some parts of my journey might help someone else. My debt journey starts in 2017. I am exceedingly frugal but on…
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The only way is up - but I need to keep going in the right direction!
Okay, time for a new debt-free diary. I first started one seven years ago when I realised how in debt I was after years of silly decisions, some tricky circumstances, slipping back into bad habits, and burying my head in the sand. Back then, at its worst, my debt was £39,220.58. I'm now on £6977.55, split across two credit…
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Managing Mat Leave
I've been meaning to start a diary thread on here for a little while. I'm due to start mat leave in 8 weeks which was not entirely planned, meaning from a financial point of view it's a little tight. Definitely manageable but we need to keep track of a few things as we have some debts we're paying off as well. I'm hoping…
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Seeing Sense.... at last
Hi all, long time lurker here who has followed other diaries in the hope of inspiration and motivation. I had my light bulb moment nearly a year ago in April 2024 when my debt levels reaching a ridiculous amount and I was running out of money with too much month left at the end of it. At the worst I owed over 70k and…
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Oops I did it again
I have been around on the diaries on and off over the last few years, I am never massively in debt but never actually out of debt so I want to kick my own butt and sort this out. I have got a loan- sat in a savings account at the moment, which I have taken out for bariatric surgery which I am planning to have in the summer…
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Long Road To Pay Off Debt
Wanted to make a thread to hold myself accountable. Also to see if there is any way we can make savings. Took out loans and credit cards due to a wedding and debt consolidation really. Not taking out anymore credit and working off paying all this down. Thanks for reading. SOA below. Income (Me & Wife) - 4696.08 Life…
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First timer seeking accountability
Hi all! 👋 Firstly I am a long time lurker 👀 first time poster. Little obligational background for context: 32 year old married mum of 3 aged almost 18, 8 and almost 3! Was in an abusive relationship from age 13 until I managed to flee with my son in 2010. Met my now husband late 2011 and the rest is history. We have two…
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Stop the Splurge
I'm starting this diary because I need to get on top on my spending and some small debts. Background: DH was in charge of finances for the first few years, only he was dreadful but I wasn't much better and together we built up debts over 50k. In 2007 he had 6 CCJs and we were on the brink of losing our home. So I joined…
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Go your own way
Hi team, I'm new to the MSE forums, having joined in March to help me clear up my credit report and improve my financial intelligence post-IVA. Thought I would get a diary going to tell my tale so far and share some insight on how I'm now 'going my own way' with my money having ditched the debt. So, here's my story so…
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misstara's debt diary 2024
I've decided it's time to start a new diary as the old one has been on the go for a number of years and I feel a fresh start would be good especially since I have less than £600 left to pay off the credit card. I'm hoping to stay debt free this time and hoping a new diary will keep me focused on this. My first diary was…
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When it's good, it's fun. When it's bad, it's funny.
Aaaand herein begins my new diary, where I hope to capture the ups and downs of the journey. In other areas, it's been fun to read things back several years later and experience those "oh, yeah!" moments, so hopefully that will be the case here. As of 01/11/24 I have cleared a 0% balance transfer card within the 3 month…
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Need to stop spending and chasing dopamine!
Hello! I’m creating this diary to hold me accountable, as I’ve been trying to pay this debt off for 3 years now and I just keep kicking the can down the road so to speak. The good news is it’s all on 0% interest. The bad news is I need to have the most boring year next year (aside from a holiday) to be able to pay it all…
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Cuddlymarms 2025 new start
Hi guys It’s that time of year again to make decisions for the future so here I am. 2025 is going to be my next step towards retirement, as it’s less than 4 years to when I get my state pension. I’d love to give up now but can’t afford it so baby steps, I currently work 4 days a week. So this years aims are, Moving home as…
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Three Steps Forward
Starting a fresh diary. I don't really have a plan - I mean I do, but every past plan has failed, so I'd like to style this one out better. That's the plan. Budget is good. Will save a bit of electricity if I turn lights off. Am considering cancelling the TV License. Is it worth getting lifetime subscription to Microsoft…
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This could be long......
I have been lurking here for far to long, a previous attempt at a diary fell by the wayside very quickly and now I need to sort myself out. It's not going to be quick, but I need to get debt free and it's starting to make me stress. Back soon with an SOA and a plan! Xxx
