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Debt, Diet and Decluttering - The Lifetime Diary
Does anyone else get the urge to sort every single issue in their life at the same time, get totally overwhelmed then bury their head in the sand or is that just me? I can't just focus on one thing at a time, my brain will not allow it so here I am again tackling the following; * Pay off £7,450.68 - Lloyds CC * Pay off…
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The Sea is Calling
Hello there fellow wannabes! Starting a brand new diary for my lofty ambitions. It's me, my husband, our cat (plus an extra one who eats his food and sneaks in to sleep in our house but won't let us go near her) and we live in a Victorian terrace of an East Mids town. We are bookish and musical, and very social peeps, and…
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Countdown to Part Time…
I’ve been inspired by your diaries so decided to start my own. Firstly, I am going to say I know I’m in a privileged position of having paid off my mortgage and that although I’m in debt, my financial position is really quite sound. BUT I am bad at living within my means and I allow credit card debt to rack up, then take a…
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Busting this debt before 40
Time for me to de-lurk on this thread and start my own dairy. Long story short ish. Away on work last year all my co-workers talked about pensions. Then realised that I wouldn't get my state pension till 67. Also my work pension doesn't kick in till 67 either...(There's like a mini pension for when I've done my contracted…
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My debt free diet
I am writing this while i am work so i have things clear and i know why i need to do this i work in a toxic atmosphere and toxic workplace with a director who is always on my back about the most mundane things. It is getting me down and the only way i can see out of this is to become debt free and then i will have more…
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Fresh Start At Fox Towers.
(shiny new diary and the title makes me feel like I am in an Enid Blyton book) For those of you who are new, and those who are not, quick life re-cap: Household consists of me, Mr Fox, and Mini Fox. Regular visitors are the 4 stepkids, 2 of which are now adults. I work full time and Mr Fox is currently SAHD'ing to Mini…
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In significant debt and figuring it out
I am in circa £74k debt from gambling and I need to come clean to my husband. I have finally reached out to my family who are all there to support me the only one who I haven’t yet spoken to is my husband. We have a house and he doesn’t agree gambling is an addiction so that is one hurdle to get over imminently. Having…
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2025 WILL be the year
Hi all I've started so many diaries over many years, and have managed to get myself out of debt and back in so many times that I am fed up with it now. So, 2025 WILL be the year I crack this - starting now! About me - homeowner (mortgage free, at least I cracked that one!), live with DH and DS. Work full time with an…
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Moved: Any one got a magic wand
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Paying off No 27 - Back again and £34K in the red!
Hello I am back again... :) It's been awhile since I have been here so for those of you who were around then, I have paid debt down and built back up and I am trying (again) to face the music. To those of you who are new I am a Single mum of 2 who works full time and lives miles beyond her means. :s I should have cared way…
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Spinning a New Story
I’ve been lurking for a little while, reading and learning. After far too long of burying my hand in the sand and telling myself that I’m just not very good with money, I’ve decided that I need a new story. I can learn to do things differently. I don’t have to hide away from my bank balance. I can save for the future (one…
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Deepest Darkest Devon Debt Decisions
Hi All, Well this months debt pay down is going to be a disaster , well instead of the 1000 I try to normally pay it will be 425. It is all my own fault. The weather has been nice, I have been busy with my allotment and my side hustle has come way down the list so the available money has also gone down considerably. I am…
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Stronger, Smarter and Saving
Time to face my debt head on and I thought this would be a nice little corner of the internet to document it. I have about £10k on a 0% card and just under £5k at 5.9%, so I'll start with that smaller card. OH has about £10k across 2 cards too - they're both on 0% deals so we've set them up to pay min payments only at the…
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“Debt is normal. Be weird.”
The last time I ventured onto this forum was nearly 17 months ago. I started a diary in 2019 of the same name (now defunct somewhere and gathering dust) which really helped me focus on reducing our debt, whilst simultaneously being held accountable for even the smallest financial decision - there was nowhere to hide!…
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Claiming back my life
I’m a mid 40s Mum to an amazing 9 year old and need to make some changes! I feel like I’ve been coasting / existing for most my adult life. Over the last few years I’ve become increasingly aware of my mortality, realising that I’ve probably got more of my life behind me than in front of me (morbid I know!) and it’s time to…
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Mortgage Free by 50???
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Time to get the monkey off my back!
Hello! My first time posting here, have been a lurker for a long time, but after reading the most amazing diary over the weekend by @EatingBeans, I'm ready to start my own. I have spent most of my adult lift in debt. When I had hardly any money, I managed it brilliantly, debt free, staying within my means, but as the money…
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Do it for your future self
Hey all, Here i am again, my third diary and each time i come back with more and more debt. I have been feeling so hopeless recently, this debt has been weighing on me so heavy - was it 100 percent my own fault by living beyond my means (yes) but its making me not want to exist i feel so trapped to be honest. I’m not…
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Debt-free by March 2026
Hello, I have got lots of excellent advice from people on this forum over the past couple of months and I now feel ready to start a diary. My budget might not be quite right yet and might need some ongoing tweaking, I am hoping this diary will allow me to hold myself accountable and reflect on actual spending each month so…
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There is always tomorrow
We live on a smallholding in rural Wales. We don't keep any other animals than horses that are oldies now and it is only me and DH at home. Compared with a few years ago there is a lot less to be paying for although the costs of previous years have caught up with us and we are paying loans and credit cards. The purpose of…
