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From broke to better ..a journey
Hi everyone. Well today is, as they say, the first day of the rest of my life. The first real day of my journey to get rid of debt. I am alone in this. No partner and no family for support so I am finding myself tearful and scared. I know noone here can hold my hand, but I've seen so much support on other people's diaries…
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Plodding Along
I've been on here for a good few months now so it's about time I start my own diary. I have been in debt since I was 18 when I got my first credit card and I'm 41 and a half now. The debt has fluctuated over the years with the highest being around the £20k mark, but my head was firmly buried in the sand then. I started to…
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Here Goes
So, I have been lurking for a while now and seeing everyone else make progress has spurred me on. I'm 38, with a 7 year old daughter and a dog, her dad lives abroad and flits in and out. He doesn't contribute anything financially. I pay every bill, activity, Xmas amd bday, but when he does visit he helps with pick ups etc…
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Debt, Diet and Decluttering - The Lifetime Diary
Does anyone else get the urge to sort every single issue in their life at the same time, get totally overwhelmed then bury their head in the sand or is that just me? I can't just focus on one thing at a time, my brain will not allow it so here I am again tackling the following; * Pay off £7,450.68 - Lloyds CC * Pay off…
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Seasidegal's Scrimpy Retirement Diary!
Hi there!😀 Having finally retired from work last Friday as my State Pension kicked in, I have decided to start a new diary as I begin the next stage in my life. I began my first diary on these boards in 2014 when I was 58 and in £31,000's worth of debt!😱 I realised time was fast approaching to retirement and that I needed…
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The Sea is Calling
Hello there fellow wannabes! Starting a brand new diary for my lofty ambitions. It's me, my husband, our cat (plus an extra one who eats his food and sneaks in to sleep in our house but won't let us go near her) and we live in a Victorian terrace of an East Mids town. We are bookish and musical, and very social peeps, and…
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Countdown to Part Time…
I’ve been inspired by your diaries so decided to start my own. Firstly, I am going to say I know I’m in a privileged position of having paid off my mortgage and that although I’m in debt, my financial position is really quite sound. BUT I am bad at living within my means and I allow credit card debt to rack up, then take a…
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Busting this debt before 40
Time for me to de-lurk on this thread and start my own dairy. Long story short ish. Away on work last year all my co-workers talked about pensions. Then realised that I wouldn't get my state pension till 67. Also my work pension doesn't kick in till 67 either...(There's like a mini pension for when I've done my contracted…
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Sorting my life out (again)
Blimey, it's been about 5 years since I've used this forum and my life has completely changed. 2020 = married, 1 DS, full-time job, debt-free, £9k savings 2025 = divorced, 1 DS, 1 DD, full-time carer for my DD who is disabled, £7k debt, £0 savings Luckily my debts are relatively small and 0% interest... apart from the car…
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My debt free diet
I am writing this while i am work so i have things clear and i know why i need to do this i work in a toxic atmosphere and toxic workplace with a director who is always on my back about the most mundane things. It is getting me down and the only way i can see out of this is to become debt free and then i will have more…
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Fresh Start At Fox Towers.
(shiny new diary and the title makes me feel like I am in an Enid Blyton book) For those of you who are new, and those who are not, quick life re-cap: Household consists of me, Mr Fox, and Mini Fox. Regular visitors are the 4 stepkids, 2 of which are now adults. I work full time and Mr Fox is currently SAHD'ing to Mini…
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In significant debt and figuring it out
I am in circa £74k debt from gambling and I need to come clean to my husband. I have finally reached out to my family who are all there to support me the only one who I haven’t yet spoken to is my husband. We have a house and he doesn’t agree gambling is an addiction so that is one hurdle to get over imminently. Having…
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2025 WILL be the year
Hi all I've started so many diaries over many years, and have managed to get myself out of debt and back in so many times that I am fed up with it now. So, 2025 WILL be the year I crack this - starting now! About me - homeowner (mortgage free, at least I cracked that one!), live with DH and DS. Work full time with an…
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Time to Face The Music
We have decided as a couple that it is time to face the music and start paying down some of our debts. We are lucky that we are both in jobs that pay ok but we have at times been living beyond our means and now it is time to start reining in the spending and making a concerted effort to cut the debt. Moving house last year…
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Paying off No 27 - Back again and £34K in the red!
Hello I am back again... :) It's been awhile since I have been here so for those of you who were around then, I have paid debt down and built back up and I am trying (again) to face the music. To those of you who are new I am a Single mum of 2 who works full time and lives miles beyond her means. :s I should have cared way…
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Spinning a New Story
I’ve been lurking for a little while, reading and learning. After far too long of burying my hand in the sand and telling myself that I’m just not very good with money, I’ve decided that I need a new story. I can learn to do things differently. I don’t have to hide away from my bank balance. I can save for the future (one…
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Deepest Darkest Devon Debt Decisions
Hi All, Well this months debt pay down is going to be a disaster , well instead of the 1000 I try to normally pay it will be 425. It is all my own fault. The weather has been nice, I have been busy with my allotment and my side hustle has come way down the list so the available money has also gone down considerably. I am…
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Stronger, Smarter and Saving
Time to face my debt head on and I thought this would be a nice little corner of the internet to document it. I have about £10k on a 0% card and just under £5k at 5.9%, so I'll start with that smaller card. OH has about £10k across 2 cards too - they're both on 0% deals so we've set them up to pay min payments only at the…
