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Paying off No 27 - Back again and £34K in the red!
Hello I am back again... :) It's been awhile since I have been here so for those of you who were around then, I have paid debt down and built back up and I am trying (again) to face the music. To those of you who are new I am a Single mum of 2 who works full time and lives miles beyond her means. :s I should have cared way…
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Juggling mum/work life, whilst looking after my future self, both financially & healthily
Hiiiii, So I thought it was time I started a new diary as my old one got a bit complicated. A little about me. I’m a mum in my 40’s, my husband works away a lot, I work full time, and I have 2 children a tween and a teen. Along with 2 noisy cats. The last few months have been hard financially, and my work is teetering on…
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Redemption - The journey of a recovering gambling addict.
Ok. Here goes. This is my journal on my journey to redemption. First post is to outline my current situation. Salary- £75k + Married Two Children Personal Debts Bank Loan 1 CAR - £20433 - £352 4.3% Debt Consolidation Loan £10,344 £153 5.2% MBMA - £4300 - 0% 14 months NatWest £3000 - 0% 12 months I have told my wife…
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Baby Steps to a brighter future
I'm one of those boomerang DFW. Was on here previously having cleared 10k of debt post marriage breakdown, divorce and moving on. Was debt free for a couple of years and due to some pretty rough set of circumstances find myself back here with an even bigger debt. This debt is not from being frivalous, far from it. Life has…
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Debt Free at 63... What next?... [Equity release on mortgage free house 2025]
Hi, I need some sage advice from our fantastic hive-mind :) I am considering equity release on mortgage free house in the next couple of years. Sadly my son died a couple of years ago so I now have no family I want to leave my inheritance to. * I am single, 63 (still work teaching 3/7 days and reach pension age at 66) * I…
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Fresh Start At Fox Towers.
(shiny new diary and the title makes me feel like I am in an Enid Blyton book) For those of you who are new, and those who are not, quick life re-cap: Household consists of me, Mr Fox, and Mini Fox. Regular visitors are the 4 stepkids, 2 of which are now adults. I work full time and Mr Fox is currently SAHD'ing to Mini…
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Here's to the Fools Who Dream
I will be 60 on March 2nd 2026 and I am an old fool who is dreaming that the best is yet to come! I loved the film La La Land, always felt this song was about me ....... The Fools Who Dream (Abridged Version) "She captured a feeling A sky with no ceiling, the sunset inside a frame .... A bit of madness is key To give us…
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Spent 4 years pretending it's all OK
Bewildered, confused, terrified that will lose everything we have worked so hard to build up. Over 70 K unsecured debt and 28K owed to family. Have been self employed for 10 years but business gradually gone down hill in recession. partner went back t o work, on good salary 47K but not enough, plus some money still coming…
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My new debt free diary :)
Hi everyone! This isn’t my first debt free diary but I hope it’s my last :blush: I’m making this diary so that I am accountable to myself and I plan to update it as often as possible. I am 38 and have been in debt since I was 20 and bought my first car. Not massive amounts but enough to affect my monthly income. I have 7…
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7 years lack of control ... 18 months to regain it
I’m not going to go into too much detail but I’m £14k in debt after 7 years of no control , living for the moment. I’m getting married in 18 months and H2B has zero idea of my financial situation and I refuse to get married with this hanging over my head. In the last week I secured a new 0% BT card for 22 months and had an…
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A Lifetime of Debt - F, 40s, autistic, parent, professional
Hi, I'm starting a diary, as I always have a lot of thoughts, but I'll try not to disclose myself, as I really am a librarian and I'll want to talk about being autistic, which narrows down who I am already, although I should be safe! Between me and my husband we are in about 9k of unsecured debt, I owe just under 7k to…
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Still Vegan, mis-diagnosed Bipolar (actually ADHD) and Debt-free since 2020
So many years since my last post on this forum. I have been through so many transformations and leveled up my financial knowledge several times but I hit a sort of wall in my progress and decided to compare how I'm doing now in my so-called "struggle" with how I was doing back when I was in hard-core get-out-of-debt mode.…
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I shouldn't feel skint ...
But I do. I am very
ashamed to post this, but despite having a decent income I find myself having
to really watch my spending for the last week or two before every payday. I
also have stubborn credit card debt, accrued when I was younger and skinter,
that I should have shifted but haven't. I've recently had to borrow money…
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Barclaycard statement date calculator
Barclaycard don't make it very easy for you to find when your next statement is due. The logic, is that it's always the {N'th} WORKING DAY of the month. Giving them 20 statement runs a month. It would be helpful if you could find this data on your previous statement. Some maths later!! Here's a useful table for everyone WD…
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Opos Limited scam?
I just received an email from this bunch, checked online and they seemed to be a legitimate debt collection agency. I clicked the link to go to ‘my account’ online to be asked personal details including date of birth and contact details to verify I was the correct person. As this seems like a scam I called instead, only to…
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Sorting my life out (again)
Blimey, it's been about 5 years since I've used this forum and my life has completely changed. 2020 = married, 1 DS, full-time job, debt-free, £9k savings 2025 = divorced, 1 DS, 1 DD, full-time carer for my DD who is disabled, £7k debt, £0 savings Luckily my debts are relatively small and 0% interest... apart from the car…
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I've really got to sort it out
Oooooomph. Where do I start? I just struggle with impulsive spending and keep spending without sticking to the budget and get debt accumulated on my credit cards. It is nothing out there either, just toys for my son, but mostly expensive food and snacks and takeaways. A little bit of clothes shopping here and there (but…
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Getting out of debt poppy style
Time to organise my life and get out of debt. Currently single and in debt to the tune of around £21000, had my wake up call this morning when i got to work and my card was declined for a coffee :( had to borrow the money off a work collegue. Tomorrow i will raid my piggy bank and buy a flask and start making tea and…
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2024... Debt no more🤘
Hi all, here I go to ridding myself of debt for the final time. I don't want to work forever and would like some good savings before I reduce my working hours. I'm not getting any younger and suffer with various ailments so instead of borrowing I need to pay off what I owe and save instead. Previous borrowing was always…
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My debt free diet
I am writing this while i am work so i have things clear and i know why i need to do this i work in a toxic atmosphere and toxic workplace with a director who is always on my back about the most mundane things. It is getting me down and the only way i can see out of this is to become debt free and then i will have more…
