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Don't hit me with those negative waves Moriarity
I have lurked for a long time on this forum, then joined and lurked (and lurked some more). Maybe should have gone with an Adams family reference for the title but ho hum I'm here now. I think I'm ready to start a diary even though I've had one running through my head for months as I had my light bulb moment back in…
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Daisy's Debt Free Diary [31F/Autistic]
Hi everyone! After spending some time lurking and reading other DFD's I've decided to start my own to track my journey to becoming debt-free. Right now, my total debt sits at £3,124.06, spread across two CCs: * Card 1: £826.70 (0% interest until 8th September 2025) * Card 2: £2,297.36 (0% interest until 17th January 2026)…
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F&F settlement letter offer or CCA . Not sure where to start. Thanks
Hi everyone, Thanks for reading my post. I have been reading through the forums and not 100% sure where to start. I am looking for some advice as I don't know whether I should try and negotiate F& F settlements or first to ask for my CCA, all taken out around 2011-2014. I have been paying £5 a month to each creditor for…
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Debt Free In Two Years - It's Now or Never
Hi everyone I’ve been around these forums for a long time, but have been very sporadic for a while lately. The debt is still there and hasn’t been dealt with - but I honestly feel that 2025 is the year I get debt free. My OH and I have just finished paying a large loan that we’ve been paying for AGES. Before this we had no…
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Genuinely how do you start?
Hi all, It’s been a very long time since my last post, so apologies if it’s not done right. I’m 46 with two teenagers from my previous and a 5 year old with my current partner (this will become relevant). When I was with my ex wife, life and finances was slightly different in that cash was readily accepted everywhere, so I…
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Hustling My Way To Debt Freedom
Hi everyone I'm back again, still trying to clear the debts. I won't go into a long explanation as to where I've been (no excuses - I've just been rubbish at coming on here), but I'm just so sick of being in debt, I have to get a grip on it. Got to hustle my way out of it, any way I can (legally of course!!). The plan?…
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Should intake out a loan to reduce my debt anxiety, despite paying more interest?
Hi, ive accumulated 10,700 in debt (maternity leave and my husband lost his job) - its across 4 credit cards, and a small amount of PayPal and Next. Ive been spending the last few years moving the debt between the 4 cards, to make use of 0% offers, so I've kept the interest mlvery minimal. Ive recently moved some debt to…
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Time to Face The Music
We have decided as a couple that it is time to face the music and start paying down some of our debts. We are lucky that we are both in jobs that pay ok but we have at times been living beyond our means and now it is time to start reining in the spending and making a concerted effort to cut the debt. Moving house last year…
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The Diary Of Onebrokelady Aged 60 And A Half
New Year new diary 😀 erm that's all I've got to say 😂😂
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A whole new world, for now
So, here’s the new thread I’ve been promising myself for a few months. My old one, that served me so well, is https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/4855808 A potted history of me. I’m 49, live in NI with OH, DD and dog and DS is London based. Have been in debt for a lot of my life and came here post personal debt…
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One eye on the future ..one eye on the past
New Diary think I got lost in space. Debts are slowly reducing,I sort of have a three year plan ongoing which should mean we are very comfortable in the middle of the year 2023. I'm resigned to this being my abode ...hate my house ..hate my neighbours For that time I want to be in a good place financially to move at that…
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Sashybo - Back Again
Hi all, has been a good long while this time since I've had a diary, think this is number 4 overall. My last diary can be found HERE. Current debt now under 10K. :j This is mostly made up of loans we had to take out to cover the negative equity of the flat we sold a couple of years ago. I must admit we have slipped…
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*sigh* this is still taking a while, but moving forward (slowly!)
Hope everyone is enjoying their Christmas so far :) After 4 years writing (sporadically) on my previous diary, I thought it was time for a sparkly new one. A lot of things have changed over the 4 years - I just have 1 job these days, my children are all that bit older, our house renovations are complete and our debt is…
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Evasive action! Stop the trench becoming a hole.
I need to take evasive action, and I need to hold myself accountable. I'm not going to call where I am a hole. It's still a rut. A trench. I've got savings, but they are in accounts where they earn good interest rates so I hate touching them. I've just moved house, and I've been doing a money shuffle every month, borrowing…
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Isca’s debt free diary
Hey, thanks for clicking! I’m in my mid forties, mum of 2 (15 and 11), married and work part time. We took a loan out in August 2024 to upgrade our car and for a couple of others bits and pieces. We have around £12,700 outstanding. We can make unlimited overpayments and are keen to do what we can to reduce the amount of…
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Debt free by 40
I have been binging on diaries in the last few weeks, I didn't read any books since and watched very little TV. I love all the life stories and I feel so inspired and impressed, seriously amazing people around here! A few I have been reading recently are @CRANKY40 @girlatplay @WinterWarrior @Debt_Me_Out_Of_Here @Naomim and…
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Looking To The Future With Hope
After reading @Onebrokelady thread I feel so inspired and in awe of how someone can be so positive when they’ve faced such adversity that I’ve decided to start a diary. Now, I can’t promise that I’ll keep this up, as I do have a tendency to start things full of enthusiasm and then I stumble and give up, but we shall see.…
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I'm back, still struggling along, still frugal
H everyone, It's been ages I know and the forum has changed, but my posts were getting really boring as nothing really changed very much and to be honest I was getting bored writing the same old things. Anyway I thought I'd start another thread as its coming up to winter and like most basic OAP's I'm expecting this winter…
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Seasidegal's Scrimpy Retirement Diary!
Hi there!😀 Having finally retired from work last Friday as my State Pension kicked in, I have decided to start a new diary as I begin the next stage in my life. I began my first diary on these boards in 2014 when I was 58 and in £31,000's worth of debt!😱 I realised time was fast approaching to retirement and that I needed…
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Sorting my life out (again)
Blimey, it's been about 5 years since I've used this forum and my life has completely changed. 2020 = married, 1 DS, full-time job, debt-free, £9k savings 2025 = divorced, 1 DS, 1 DD, full-time carer for my DD who is disabled, £7k debt, £0 savings Luckily my debts are relatively small and 0% interest... apart from the car…
