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Leaving Partner
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Registering as dad abroad
Hello, To register as dad of my child in Germany I need to acquire an international birth certificate with 'Apostille'. I have a UK (Welsh) birth certificate which I can use as a basis. What's the basic route and any cost saving measures I need to know, anyone know? Thanks in advance. Dan
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Elderly stepchild
I'll try and keep it brief. Mum 87. Step dad 80. Married 54 years. Sister 63 who has never left home has never really seen eye to eye with step dad. Told me about a year ago that step dad was hiding things around the house. She believed he was trying to drive his wife crazy so he could put her in a nursing home! She went…
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Pay daughter for doing ironing?
A friend of mine has been recently widowed and prior to this he and his wife were paying someone to do the ironing, I think it was £15 a time. Now that he is on his own there is of course less ironing to do and he suggested to his only daughter that she could do the ironing instead of paying someone to do it. She is…
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Health & Wellbeing POA
Myself and my sister have POA (finance) for Mum & Dad. Mum has dementia and her carer has asked if we have a health POA. We don't. I presume as Mum has dementia, that we would not be able to obtain one now? If she needed to go into a care home and she said no, presume we couldn't make her?
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Ex housemate at Uni and privacy question
Hi I don't really know if 1) this is the correct place to post or 2)anyone can answer. Brief background & v condensed : My 20 year old DD is at Uni (2nd yr) - when she moved into her house in September it was 4 girls in a 5 bed house. the landlady advised there was an international masters student moving in. Few weeks…
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Divorced and Children's Holidays
Hi, just looking for an insight into other peoples opinions on this. I was married to my ex wife for 17 years and have two children with her (now 16 and 18 years old). We separated and divorced 5 years ago and I'm now happily re-married. Ever since we separated I have paid what I felt was a fair child maintenance payment…
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Clean Break Order with Joint debt
I have recently finalised my divorce but now I need to sort out Clean Break Order. However me and my ex have a joint debt of £45,000 resulting from negative equity from selling house after the break-up. Since this time I am am the only one paying off some of the debt and my ex refuses to pay!!! I have requested that the…
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financial/property rights after divorce
Hi all, can anyone offer advice on the following, i realise i'm being negative. My partner and i want to get married and buy a house together, she has two young children, 9 & 10, we both currently pay mortgages on our own houses. What are my rights if we divorced, does she get to keep the house as she has young children or…
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Another Ex Partner owes me money thread
Hi all, I was hoping someone could help me. Myself and my ex partner took a credit card in my name and we have since split up, sold our house etc. The credit card paid for a lot of furniture for the house (a lot of which she has kept) and a holiday. She is now not acknowledging any communication about it since the sale of…
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Delay in Beneficiary Receiving Inheritance Fron Will
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Advice regarding school
I moved over to the West Midlands in March and my 10 year old daughter is still not at school, it’s been a nightmare trying to get her a place and my son starts in September to when he’ll be 4. I have MS and other health problems and I can’t walk far outdoors due to pain and fatigue. The only place offered to my daughter…
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It's Complicated
Hi All, I think I’m standing on the cliff of my decision around my marriage. I don’t want to sound self-centred but I am at the point now where I am almost deciding to just not go home after work. There hasn’t been anything major since the hen night fiasco but I have a big birthday coming up soon and it has me thinking. Is…
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Left me no choice!
Reported my daughter to social services and feeling dreadful. I never in a million years thought I'd be in this position, to cut a long saga short my daughter has a 21month old who she loves dearly, the problem is she's only 21 herself and not really coping, I do a fair bit of child minding so she gets to be 21! But the…
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Divorcing a missing ex, finding their address
Hi, I'm hoping someone can help. I want to divorce my ex, we've been separated and haven't spoken for six years. I don't have a last address and his family are abroad (I don't have an address for them either). I'd like to know if anyone has successfully divorced a missing person and how? Also if anyone can recommend any…
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CSA - when do I stop paying please?
Morning, Partner's son turned 20 years old on 20th June. He is in full time education. Younger child is almost 16. CSA withdraw from his wage on approx 25th of the month. Should he be receiving a letter of advice from CSA to tell him he won't be paying for son after this last payment (on June 25th), is it stopped…
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Why are modern relationships (20's / 30's) so shallow? Most people seem to bail if it is not perfect
Hello, This is a question I have been wondering about over the last few years seeing some of my friends, and some of my own relationships fall. It seems like whenever the relationship encounters some kind of trouble or a series of problems, divorce / break-ups seems to be on the cards. Of course it depends on what the…
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Don't know what to do...
Ok so I messaged this girl on match.com about 12 days ago... We messaged for a few days then gave her my number she gave me her as well (Few days later) We spoke on IMessage for a few days (She kept bugging me to FaceTime Her) asked if she wanted to meet up got told I wanna FaceTime before I see ya.. (If I Didn't reply…
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COUPLES! Do you split the bill at a restaraunt?
THIS HAS BEEN MOVED TO THE DISCUSSIONS FORUM NOW. Hi all, Hope this is the correct thread to post in. I am just interested in your thoughts, it is more a social etiquette question. I guess it isn't strictly money saving (but it could be depending on who pays the bill! :rotfl:) So, who pays the bill at the end, you or your…
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Ex Brother in Law Wont Repay Loan
Wondering if anyone here has had a similar situation or knows what might be the best solution. Just over a year ago I lent some money to my sister and then brother in law to pay off a loan they had taken out their wedding. Long story short he was cheating around and they split the week after. I have had £200 back from…
