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please read and help me.....cannot stop crying

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  • dont think pepsicola meant that....
  • wanting2save
    wanting2save Posts: 1,975 Forumite
    dont think pepsicola meant that....

    I was just going to say that!

    I really hope everything goes ok when you meet him, i think staying calm will be a good move, also he will probably be expecting a scene so will be shocked which is always good!!

    (nice sig btw ;) )
    **Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened!‏**

    **Life is not measured by the amount of breaths we take but by the moments that take our breath away**
  • emsywoo123
    emsywoo123 Posts: 5,440 Forumite
    Pepsicola, I am sorry, that was unncecssary of me. I am aware of the impact of any relationship I have on her. I am feeling utterly worthless at the moment and I misjudged your post. Apologies again.
  • MrsTinks
    MrsTinks Posts: 15,238 Forumite
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    Good on you for making a decision - it's the one I agree with I have to say but only you could make it :)
    Be strong and does he have a key to your place? If so make sure you get it back when you see him - if you don't then call a locksmith for TODAY and get the locks changed. It's too easy to make copies of keys and you don't wanna risk him turning up...
    And remember we're here if you wanna talk about it :)
    DFW Nerd #025
    DFW no more! Officially debt free 2017 - now joining the MFW's! :)

    My DFW Diary - blah- mildly funny stuff about my journey
  • CB1979_2
    CB1979_2 Posts: 1,335 Forumite
    also change his facebook password and proper mess up his profile and comments on there ;)
  • emsywoo123
    emsywoo123 Posts: 5,440 Forumite
    CB1979 wrote: »
    also change his facebook password and proper mess up his profile and comments on there ;)

    I ahve so already changed his (and my!!) passwords! I am so sneaky!
    Well..........Icaland did indeed turn up...but brought someone elses shopping, so tehy will try again tonight. This is NOT a good day. Bl00dy fri 13th:mad:
  • emsywoo123
    emsywoo123 Posts: 5,440 Forumite
    MrsTine wrote: »
    Good on you for making a decision - it's the one I agree with I have to say but only you could make it :)
    Be strong and does he have a key to your place? If so make sure you get it back when you see him - if you don't then call a locksmith for TODAY and get the locks changed. It's too easy to make copies of keys and you don't wanna risk him turning up...
    And remember we're here if you wanna talk about it :)

    I forgot he had a key! Thankyou!!!!
  • MrsTinks
    MrsTinks Posts: 15,238 Forumite
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    emsywoo123 wrote: »
    I forgot he had a key! Thankyou!!!!

    Glad I thought of it then! :D

    Let us know how you get on won't you? Otherwise I'll only worry!:rolleyes:
    DFW Nerd #025
    DFW no more! Officially debt free 2017 - now joining the MFW's! :)

    My DFW Diary - blah- mildly funny stuff about my journey
  • emsywoo123
    emsywoo123 Posts: 5,440 Forumite
    MrsTine wrote: »
    Glad I thought of it then! :D

    Let us know how you get on won't you? Otherwise I'll only worry!:rolleyes:

    Thank you so much for all your support this morning. I am going for a bit of a drive now, not very MSE I know, but jsut want to clear my head, and driving tends to do taht for me! Watch out for me on the roads :)
    I will then go and see him at 2 to see what pathetic excuses he can muster.
  • jinky67
    jinky67 Posts: 47,812 Forumite
    emsywoo123 wrote: »
    Thank you so much for all your support this morning. I am going for a bit of a drive now, not very MSE I know, but jsut want to clear my head, and driving tends to do taht for me! Watch out for me on the roads :)
    I will then go and see him at 2 to see what pathetic excuses he can muster.
    remember to stay calm:D
    good luck
    :heartpulsOnce a Flylady, always a Flylady:heartpuls
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