please read and help me.....cannot stop crying

HelenD_2

Hiya

Just read this thread

Sounds like you didn't trust him in the first place (hence having his password) which (and I know this is stating the obvious, sorry!) is not a good basis for a relationship!

I'm sure lots of us on here have learnt from bitter personal experience that if you don't trust your partner, you are ALWAYS on the lookout for them doing something wrong and you can't enjoy what you have together.

In some ways, it is probably a good thing that you found out that your chap does this sort of thing after only 6 months and not after years and marriage and kids later.... So there is a silver lining

Good luck matey and have an extra bar of chocolate tonight

Scarlett1

emsywoo123 wrote: »

Thank you so much for all your support this morning. I am going for a bit of a drive now, not very MSE I know, but jsut want to clear my head, and driving tends to do taht for me! Watch out for me on the roads
I will then go and see him at 2 to see what pathetic excuses he can muster.

Hi ems, feel a bit bad for saying this but please dont sleep with him does he expect you to sit around waiting for him to decide what he wants ? :rolleyes: he has been trying to woo his ex behind your back so is a dirty dog, get rid you're too good for him

floss2

It probably means he is not totally certain about his relationship with you..... and either can't work out why or hasn't got the nerve to admit it.

I think a break will be good for you, your DD and for him......use it as thinking time for what YOU want for your & DD's future, and he can do the same for what HE wants.

Then you both need to communicate - maybe by letter so you can read how he feels rather than have a chat that degenerates into a heated discussion or an argument.

It is very hard, and I really feel for you, having been there myself, but it is an ideal pause to clarify exactly how you see your & DD's lives moving on, whether with or without him.

r.mac_2

just to say that I'm thinking of you - perhaps you'll pop back in soon to let us know that you are alright?

x

emsywoo123

Popped back. I am ok.

angelfairy

emsywoo123 wrote: »

Popped back. I am ok.

glad that you are alright.

was he able to explain himself?

r.mac_2

good to hear you are ok. If you want to talk we are here for you.

I prescribe some you time with a yummy nibble of your choice and a dvd/book/playtime with dd or other fun activity.

emsywoo123

beccaoz wrote: »

glad that you are alright.

was he able to explain himself?

Nope. He says he does not remember. Says he loves me. Says he does not remember talking to her, nor does he have an real explaination.
When I was there, I went to teh loo upstairs, on the way down, through my tears, I fell down the stairs, and am now in bl00dy physical agony to accompany my head!:mad:

pinkpig08

If he was drunk then was he talking on the phone to her? I'd find it very hard to type messages if I was too drunk to know what I was doing!

Hugs to you emsy :grouphug:

jinky67

emsywoo123 wrote: »

Nope. He says he does not remember. Says he loves me. Says he does not remember talking to her, nor does he have an real explaination.
When I was there, I went to teh loo upstairs, on the way down, through my tears, I fell down the stairs, and am now in bl00dy physical agony to accompany my head!:mad:

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sorry:o
not your day is it?