please read and help me.....cannot stop crying

Merlot

I thought they were 2 hour delivery slots? You could phone and they will tell you the eta, then you could work around that.

Curv

I didn't realise you have a DD, emsy... it might be an idea to not see him until Monday - you might be much clearer on how you feel and what you want to do by then.

The reason he's saying he doesn't know is perhaps that he genuinely doesn't know why he's done what he's done. Or he might just be lying and panicking about having been caught out. He may want to end the relationship but not be ready to do it yet - no one know the truth but him. But one thing is clear, he wouldn't have done anything at all if he'd been happy with your relationship and truly committed to you.

emsywoo123

Merlot wrote: »

I thought they were 2 hour delivery slots? You could phone and they will tell you the eta, then you could work around that.

Not with blinking Iceland!:rolleyes:
Anyway, I have decided that enought is enough, I will never trust him again, I ahve been there, done that, got the whole bl00dy wardrobe, so I will see him at 2, be civil, return his things, and walk.

Little_Chicken

emsywoo123 wrote: »

Not with blinking Iceland!:rolleyes:
Anyway, I have decided that enought is enough, I will never trust him again, I ahve been there, done that, got the whole bl00dy wardrobe, so I will see him at 2, be civil, return his things, and walk.

I think you're right - good men don't do/say things even when they're drunk, and after a short time together you just don't need the grief.

Hoe there's some wine/chocolate in your delivery.

big hugs!!!

angelfairy

emsywoo123 wrote: »

No notes needed really, jsut a big old "why?"
i have asked, and he says he does not know. what the hell does that mean?!

Agree, with "what the hell does that mean". He must know why, he emailed/talked to her.

I thought I wonder if it was a just a drunken chat, talking about old times etc, which even though you might not like him talking to an ex, there is no harm, BUT from your original post and her email he seems to have spoken to her about YOUR relationship, that is the problem I would have, if nothing else, it isn't showing much respect for you.

Let him see how much he has hurt you and what his actions have caused.

pepsicola_2

emsywoo123 wrote: »

Not with blinking Iceland!:rolleyes:
Anyway, I have decided that enought is enough, I will never trust him again, I ahve been there, done that, got the whole bl00dy wardrobe, so I will see him at 2, be civil, return his things, and walk.

so it is the same person you posted about in Feburary, i really think you need to think about your 4 year old in all of this.

Merlot

pepsicola wrote: »

so it is the same person you posted about in Feburary, i really think you need to think about your 4 year old in all of this.

which thread are you talking about?

Curv

emsywoo123 wrote: »

Anyway, I have decided that enought is enough, I will never trust him again, I ahve been there, done that, got the whole bl00dy wardrobe, so I will see him at 2, be civil, return his things, and walk.

Wow... a woman of action!

Only you know if you'd be able to face a future with the guy and good on you for acting on your instincts... I've said it before and I'll say it again - gut feelings, instincts... they are there to keep you safe; ignore them at your peril.

Now have a quick read of your signature and do what it says...

emsywoo123

pepsicola wrote: »

so it is the same person you posted about in Feburary, i really think you need to think about your 4 year old in all of this.

Thanks, that is relly helpful, amybe you would like to call socail services and tell them how carp I am?

angelfairy

Curv wrote: »

Now have a quick read of your signature and do what it says...

I was thinking that myself :T