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please read and help me.....cannot stop crying
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6 months? :eek:
I never realised that.
6 months and he's already dumped you once and then done this? Oh my goodness, I'd consider it a very lucky early wake up call.
Good luck getting your keys back.....and don't give them out to anyone else you don't know!
in fact you were telling the op all of this six months ago when she first took up with the boyfriend and found him still flirting on facebook
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in fact you were telling the op all of this six months ago when she first took up with the boyfriend and found him still flirting on facebook
wheres the link to that thread? You have mentioned this several times now and no link?"Wisdom doesn't automatically come with old age. Nothing does, except wrinkles. It's true, some wines improve with age. But only if the grapes were good in the first place." — Abigail Van Buren0 -
wheres the link to that thread? You have mentioned this several times now and no link?
Is this the same relationship? http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showthread.html?t=757615The IVF worked;DS born 2006.0 -
in fact you were telling the op all of this six months ago when she first took up with the boyfriend and found him still flirting on facebook
I was?
At least I'm consistent lol
"One day I realised that when you are lying in your grave, it's no good saying, "I was too shy, too frightened."
Because by then you've blown your chances. That's it."0 -
wheres the link to that thread? You have mentioned this several times now and no link?
Rather than demand a link, you can easily do a quick search:
http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showthread.html?t=640227"One day I realised that when you are lying in your grave, it's no good saying, "I was too shy, too frightened."
Because by then you've blown your chances. That's it."0 -
for ultimate finishing tactics kick him in the nuts.
should just about get your point across0 -
Bloody facebook :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad:
I had a similiar situation with my bf and a woman Julie - we had our row and i almsot walked (i had no proof they were, no emails/texts like that just they seem very good friends after knowing her only a few months) - anyway it drove me nuts to the point i did soemthing daft (dont want to talk about it) and he basically said he loved me, wanted noone else etc, was sorry, has never mentioned her again, and it got to the point in a phone convo he was in tears crying and said 'im sorry babe but i swear on Ben we jsut get on well, i have never and would never do anything , i love you' and i said 'well i dont know if i love you anymore' and i really didnt. (there are my posts on here too abotu him being an idiot so dont worry too much!)
but I do believe him - my theory is we have been together 6 years almost - if he wanted to cheat he has had plenty of opportunitys but i can read him like a book and vice versa.
I agree with a previous poster that the first 6 months should be stress free and all loved up - not worrying and getting upset because hes liek that with his ex. Have you spoken to her anymore since (through email) did he say anythgin else or jsut that email??
I would trust yoru gut instinct but i think you might be happier - you and yoru daughter and find someone who really loves you - 'i dont know' is a mans excuse for not having a decent enough alibi in my opinion and as for the 'i was drunk' excuse, it wouldnt wash with me. Liek someone else said when i use to drink i could barely get me phone off locked let alone dial a canadian number!Time to find me again0 -
I echo the thoughts of all those postings: Facebook and the internet social sites have a lot to ask for. SO many broken relationships.0
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Hugs to you hun.
hope your back gets better soon.
Concentrate on yourself and your DD..
A friend of mine has been 'seeing' (he sleeps with her yet introduces her as a mate) someone for 9 years, he can't keep his snake in his pants, he says he doesn't want commitment, then it was ' i see you like a sister' (yet he still wanted to sleep with her, he goes thru fazes of wanting her then goes cold turkey on her, sleeps around and then goes back to her, he thinks she doesn't know, she's now in a dilemma about what to do with the situation as they get on really well she thinks, and they have been there for each other over the years, she made it very clear to him that she didn't want to marry him as she's divorced and doesn't want to go thru that ever again, But she loves him dearly as he has been a rock for her, a few of her friends have all told her the same, get rid of him, he's just a user.
I'll show her this thread when i see her later, she could learn a few things from whats been posted here.
He doesnt deserve you hun, you are worth more than that. the right man for you is just round the corner, honest, look after yourself xxLife is about give and take, if you can't give why should you take?0
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