please read and help me.....cannot stop crying

emsywoo123

Merlot wrote: »

Emsywood, ditch him, you deserve much better, he will do this again in another drunken state, maybe next time it wouldn't be his ex but someone in a club etc, and in real life. Drink is no excuse for what he did.

You have a Daughter to think about, its time to move on.

Sorry if thats not what you wanted to read but its my honest opinion.

Merlot.x.

I am not someone who asks for opinions and then blasts them back.:D All inout appreciated!

MrsTinks

SO did you get the key back?

emsywoo123

MrsTine wrote: »

SO did you get the key back?

Oh Lordy MrsTine I forgot, sorry. I did fall down the stairs.

mrcow

Hi, sorry coming in late.

Have just been reading this thread and the other one you created four months ago. My view is that this guy doesn't make you happy.

You can do better than this, and if you don't agree, then you need to work on your confidence - because you can do better than this!

Drunk or not, the guy is a player and will not be faithful to you. You had you doubts anyway.....now that someone has drawn a great big 12' neon sign for you........will you accept that your doubts were completely founded?

This guy is a time waster. He is not marriage/future/family material. He is a big fat waste of your time & life is too short to wait for someone to break your heart for the umpteenth time.

Get rid and do better for you and your family.

emsywoo123

Well, my DD has had her best friend over for play and tea this afternoon, and the school are having a "camp night" tonight (not what I orginally assumed the correct meaning of camp! ) so I am taking them both to meet his parents and relax. DD and I are not camping (not really our thing!) but will do the social bit, great for both of us!!

sandy2_2

If your best friend came to you with this story about her boyfriend...what would your reaction be and what would you advise her...... I think you know the answer really

Ricketts

emsywoo123 wrote: »

The question for me, is , is the mistake too great? And I just don't know. I am completely on teh fence. Well no, I am more leaning towards yes it was.

It depends what you mean by a mistake. To me a mistake is getting a speeling wrong, turning right when I meant to go left because the map was upside down or picking up baked beans instead of tinned tomatoes because I wasn't paying attention. A mistake is not ringing your ex in Canada and telling her you love her.

Drunk or not, he was calculated in approaching her. Six months into a relationship is too early to screw it all up - it should still be at the honeymoon stage (with you, not an ex, by the way). Get rid. If you carry on with this your daughter is going to pick up the wrong signals about men and relationships. Do you want her doing the same thing? Wouldn't that just break your heart?

Sorry - I'm being harsh. Ditch him and leave him where he doesn't want to be. On his own.

pinkshoes

I think your boyfriend is still in love with his ex.

You can't be with someone who is in love with someone else.

Drunk or not, the truth comes out when you're drunk, so he obviously said it and meant it.

I'd call it a day with him. You've only been dating 6 months, and the first 6 months should be all romance, not stuff like this. Perhaps it just wasn't meant to be??

mrcow

6 months? :eek:
I never realised that.

6 months and he's already dumped you once and then done this? Oh my goodness, I'd consider it a very lucky early wake up call.

Good luck getting your keys back.....and don't give them out to anyone else you don't know!

Solwaykid

Stumbled across this thread and it has a lot of resonance for me at the moment..Facebook has a lot to answer for! Emsywoo, you've been given a lot of very sound advice here (and I've taken some of it on board too) You're being deceived. I hope you get through this with the outcome that's best for you. I'll be thinking of you.