I've got a date tonight, going to her place, but I'm quite nervous. Advice?

victory

SailorSam wrote: »

Oh no that's not a very good idea.
I'd have been kicked out ages ago,

For which one?:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

SailorSam

I'm told people can tell when i'm telling porkies.
'Cos i open my mouth. So i suppose it's the same when i type.

ciderwithrosie_2

Urghhh, she sounds like a right dirty trollop. She invites a stranger (even if you have been chatting, she's still never met you) young enough to be her son, to her house in the middle of nowhere and you end up having unprotected sex. You might not have been expecting it to happen, but you can bet she was. Her morals aren't great are they? I'm a mum to lads your age and I'd go mad if some mangy cougar was sniffing round them!!


Get yourself checked out, never contact her again and chalk it up as experience.

kingslayer

purpleshoes wrote: »

Would you be happier if she said she didnt ever get tested?

No, obviously not. I have no idea whether she is being truthful or not about the tests etc. The whole situation just seems a bit crazy now i think back to it. She was really vague about her ex leaving her; she has 3 daughters who may have different dads for all I know, so i'm really not sure about anything. I don't know if she's being honest when she says she wants something more serious.

The thing is, every two weeks her kids go away to their gran's and so she has the house to herself, but she's wanted to see me for a while and got upset when I didn't go a few weeks back. I am trying to figure her out, but it's tough. I maybe could have, probably should have asked some probing questions Saturday night to find out the real her and some background, as I really don't know much about her.

purpleshoes_2

kingslayer wrote: »

No, obviously not. I have no idea whether she is being truthful or not about the tests etc. The whole situation just seems a bit crazy now i think back to it. She was really vague about her ex leaving her; she has 3 daughters who may have different dads for all I know, so i'm really not sure about anything. I don't know if she's being honest when she says she wants something more serious.

The thing is, every two weeks her kids go away to their gran's and so she has the house to herself, but she's wanted to see me for a while and got upset when I didn't go a few weeks back. I am trying to figure her out, but it's tough. I maybe could have, probably should have asked some probing questions Saturday night to find out the real her and some background, as I really don't know much about her.

Well maybe if the pair of you had had a few better chats before you had sex then you wouldnt be sitting wondering now. I dont see the relevance of someone having kids by different dads. As for asking probing questions, why would you go on a date to do that? You get to know someone over time.

As other people have said on different threads you sound like you have a lot to learn about relationships.

purpleshoes_2

ciderwithrosie wrote: »

Urghhh, she sounds like a right dirty trollop. She invites a stranger (even if you have been chatting, she's still never met you) young enough to be her son, to her house in the middle of nowhere and you end up having unprotected sex. You might not have been expecting it to happen, but you can bet she was. Her morals aren't great are they? I'm a mum to lads your age and I'd go mad if some mangy cougar was sniffing round them!!


Get yourself checked out, never contact her again and chalk it up as experience.

What about the OP's morals?

He had the option to keep his pants on.

SailorSam

kingslayer wrote: »

she has 3 daughters who may have different dads for all I know,

The thing is, every two weeks her kids go away to their gran's and so she has the house to herself, but she's wanted to see me for a while and got upset when I didn't go a few weeks back.

And was this the week when the kids were at their Nans ?
Don't tell us the girls were in the next room and had to see you when they got up in the morning.

VestanPance

It must be tiring to be that stupid. I'll never understand how so many guys can claim not to want kids, but then dive straight in with no condom at the first opportunity with a woman they know absolutely nothing about.

Goldiegirl

I was wondering where the children were when all this was going on.

Let's hope it was their weekend away

Morglin

ciderwithrosie wrote: »

Urghhh, she sounds like a right dirty trollop. She invites a stranger (even if you have been chatting, she's still never met you) young enough to be her son, to her house in the middle of nowhere and you end up having unprotected sex. You might not have been expecting it to happen, but you can bet she was. Her morals aren't great are they? I'm a mum to lads your age and I'd go mad if some mangy cougar was sniffing round them!!


Get yourself checked out, never contact her again and chalk it up as experience.

Well, to be fair, a lot of young guys, when their sap starts to rise, go with an older woman to begin with, as they tend to have more experience.;)

Some older women (not me tho lol) like a young bloke to service them.

But, usually both parties have the sense to use a condom, to avoid a random dose of the clap......:wall:

I don't know what this woman is like, if she exists, but she would, no doubt, be horrified that this encounter, if true, is being plastered all over a forum.....:eek:

Lin