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I've got a date tonight, going to her place, but I'm quite nervous. Advice?

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  • purpleshoes_2
    purpleshoes_2 Posts: 2,653 Forumite
    kingslayer wrote: »
    I'm a testosterone filled guy who got caught in the moment.

    Well, hopefully you'll learn from this experience. If you don't, thats entirely up to you.
  • 74jax
    74jax Posts: 7,930 Forumite
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    I'm confused, so she wants a serious relationship and you don't think you do
    Or
    You want a serious relationship but she doesn't.

    I'm confused over which it is.
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  • BrassicWoman
    BrassicWoman Posts: 3,218 Forumite
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    kingslayer wrote: »
    I'm a testosterone filled guy who got caught in the moment.


    OMG I have testicles which render me incapable of thought!!!!
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  • purpleshoes_2
    purpleshoes_2 Posts: 2,653 Forumite
    OMG I have testicles which render me incapable of thought!!!!

    Thats two laugh out loud moments now.

    :rotfl:
  • emily_jackson
    emily_jackson Posts: 1,695 Forumite
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    kingslayer wrote: »
    I text her to say we should have used protection last night and does she have anything I need to worry about, to which she said of course not
    Do you really think she would tell you if she did have an std? She's hardly going to go around advertising it, and you're taking the word of someone who doesn't use condoms :rotfl:
  • samwilzrhcp
    samwilzrhcp Posts: 21 Forumite
    kingslayer wrote: »
    I'm a testosterone filled guy who got caught in the moment.

    Exactly, so stop worrying over nothing (apart from the no condom issue) and just enjoy your "fling"with this woman, do not get emotionally involved, especially if what this woman is doing is using you. This woman is much much older than you, so you need to be asking yourself if you can see yourself spending the rest of your life with this woman and having kids etc? No thought not, so if you want to "see" this woman again, chill out and enjoy yourself and WEAR PROTECTION.
  • tomtontom
    tomtontom Posts: 7,929 Forumite
    kingslayer wrote: »
    I'm a testosterone filled guy who got caught in the moment.

    An excuse used by a) teenagers and b) rapists. Grow up.
  • PeacefulWaters
    PeacefulWaters Posts: 8,495 Forumite
    Don't feed it people.
  • SailorSam
    SailorSam Posts: 22,754 Forumite
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    victory wrote: »
    Yes I agree, that would be very helpful:D

    Questions....

    1) do you tell porkies?

    2) are you a fantasist?

    3) do you know what telling the truth means?

    4) do you like telling stories?

    5) do you know what a lie is?

    6) can you tell the truth?

    7) do you know how to stick to a story?

    Etc etc:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:


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