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I've got a date tonight, going to her place, but I'm quite nervous. Advice?

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  • Person_one
    Person_one Posts: 28,884 Forumite
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    they give it away and sleep around.

    some other random bird you find who offers it out to any Tom D!ck or Harry.

    Are you describing the woman or the OP?
  • Buzzybee90
    Buzzybee90 Posts: 1,652 Forumite
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    ecgirl07 wrote: »
    Is this a plenty of fish thing?

    Taking responsibility for your sexual health does not make you easy.


    If you are not a troll you also need to ask if she is on the pill or similar...

    No but sleeping with someone on the first date does!!
  • DUTR
    DUTR Posts: 12,958 Forumite
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    Buzzybee90 wrote: »
    No but sleeping with someone on the first date does!!

    Being 'easy' doesn't necessarily equate to a bad person though.
    It more sounds like the OP is the one being used rather than the user.
  • purpleshoes_2
    purpleshoes_2 Posts: 2,653 Forumite
    Buzzybee90 wrote: »
    No but sleeping with someone on the first date does!!

    No it doesn't. Im sure plenty of people go to bed with people quite quickly. It's preference. The mistake here was not using proper protection.
  • I haven't heard them being called that for years! :p

    The term is still about.

    Here in Wales we call it a sheeps bladder.
  • duchy
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    So she's easy for sleeping with you the first time you meet .........but what are you ?
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  • BrassicWoman
    BrassicWoman Posts: 3,218 Forumite
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    duchy wrote: »
    So she's easy for sleeping with you the first time you meet .........but what are you ?

    A misogynist with double standards?
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  • Lets_say
    Lets_say Posts: 158 Forumite
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    Sorry, what's really made me giggle is OP's original assertion that this cougar is far too busy 'housekeeping and looking after her three daughters to have time for a sh@g', but now it seems she has plenty of time to attend regular sexual health clinics.

    Who is being taken for a ride here?
  • Buzzybee90
    Buzzybee90 Posts: 1,652 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    No it doesn't. Im sure plenty of people go to bed with people quite quickly. It's preference. The mistake here was not using proper protection.

    I'm sure plenty of people do too but that doesn't mean I have to think it's ok :)
  • BucksLady
    BucksLady Posts: 567 Forumite
    OP, I seriously think you seek the advice of Jeremy Kyle.......
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