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  • paulineb_2
    paulineb_2 Posts: 6,489 Forumite
    Some people say horrible things in the heat of the moment. We have no idea just how much pressure she's been under. Doesn't mean she's unstable.
  • I never wanted this. I never asked for this.

    I just wanted to be a family. Does that make me a bad guy?
  • victory
    victory Posts: 16,188 Forumite
    I never wanted this. I never asked for this.

    I just wanted to be a family. Does that make me a bad guy?

    Calm. Calm. Calm. Don't take the calls, talk to your mate. Stop.
    misspiggy wrote: »
    I'm sure you're an angel in disguise Victory :)
  • victory wrote: »
    Calm. Calm. Calm. Don't take the calls, talk to your mate. Stop.

    I'm in a moment of clarity. I'm a good person, I have problems I will deal with. I will be happy again.

    She's hardly a catch. 3 kids by 3 different dads.2 clearly knew when to get out
  • She doesn't know what she's missing out on.
  • cbrown372
    cbrown372 Posts: 1,513 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper
    cbrown372 wrote: »
    If it was your ex asking for advice, I'd tell her to run and run as far away from you as possible. You are stalking her, leave her alone.

    Were people loosing interest in your other thread that you felt you needed to start a new one and embellish your story?
    She doesn't know what she's missing out on.

    Oh I think she does and my post on the first page still stands.

    Now I think you are stringing all the good people on here along.
    Its not that we have more patience as we grow older, its just that we're too tired to care about all the pointless drama ;)
  • She's hardly a catch. 3 kids by 3 different dads.2 clearly knew when to get out

    Wow :/

    She's better off without you!
  • Nope not at all. I deserve some !!!! but not what she's said to me today
  • Wow :/

    She's better off without you!

    Why is that harsh but it's ok for her to tell me to kill myself?
  • BrassicWoman
    BrassicWoman Posts: 3,218 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Mortgage-free Glee!
    Why is that harsh but it's ok for her to tell me to kill myself?


    I think you're reacting as badly as she is. I suspect you may look back on these posts in a week and regret them.

    How about stepping away from the internet for the rest of the week? And going for some walks, cleaning the house, anything to keep you occupied.
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