What would you contribute?

victory

mummyroysof3 wrote: »

I'm pretty sure my wedding reception was a simpler affair lol

So was mine down registry office, sign done:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

victory

michelle2008 wrote: »

The more I hear the louder I am screaming don't pay anything. What a little madam.

Which I'm thinking will be OH reaction then it's telling GF, oh I do get the best jobs, going to have to play this one clever because she can easily twist it to I asked your mum and she said no etc

mummyroysof3

For our 10th anniversary we are going for a Chinese...no fancy dress or table decorations. I woul tell her you can't afford it and leave it at that. She wants the party she can pay for it

bylromarha

As she's been with your son a while, do you know her parents well enough to ring them and see if they know anymore than you do about it?

victory

pawsies wrote: »

Ask her if she's planning to propose or if she's pregnant?

If it's done by text you won't see her reaction, and she can't whinge to your son cos it's a surprise anyway

I've taken the cowards way out and rang another of sons friends who is a girl, we get on fabulously, same wave length asked her she said its not something she would do, things have got carried away, wait for it to pass, when I said I was being asked for money she said @&&))££ and @£!)?,.; and 6&65&)'hm:rotfl:::rotfl: oh and also ' not all of it surely?':eek::eek:

Gillyx

I'm very confused about the party. Tbh I wouldn't contribute anything as it's not really celebrating anything (a birth/engagement/birthday/wedding/anniversary) How odd.

victory

bylromarha wrote: »

As she's been with your son a while, do you know her parents well enough to ring them and see if they know anymore than you do about it?

No passing nod a smile no more than that

victory

Gillyx wrote: »

I'm very confused about the party. Tbh I wouldn't contribute anything as it's not really celebrating anything (a birth/engagement/birthday/wedding/anniversary) How odd.

It's celebrating life, love, departing friendship, a soon to be birthday, even writing it down makes me laugh:rotfl: that's youngsters for you

victory

mummyroysof3 wrote: »

For our 10th anniversary we are going for a Chinese...no fancy dress or table decorations. I woul tell her you can't afford it and leave it at that. She wants the party she can pay for it

I'll wait see what OH says:D

Gillyx

victory wrote: »

It's celebrating life, love, departing friendship, a soon to be birthday, even writing it down makes me laugh:rotfl: that's youngsters for you

I was a youngster not that long ago (or I still like to think I am ) If it were me I'd like to do a nice romantic meal and drinks with my OH... I feel I'm maybe a bit low key now