Help Me Win Back The Love of my Life

victory

lufcgirl wrote: »

Am I the only one that cringed reading all of these gestures?

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No:D........

tea_lover

My advice would be to leave the poor girl alone.

Anselm

victory wrote: »

never ever getting back together taylor swift this one

Why is it so damn catchy?! I'm embarrassed.

victory

Anselm wrote: »

Why is it so damn catchy?! I'm embarrassed.

That's the selling point:rotfl::rotfl:millions of dollars later::rotfl:

Anselm

victory wrote: »

That's the selling point:rotfl::rotfl:millions of dollars later::rotfl:

I don't even have a girlfriend, but I can safely say - we're never getting back together! :rotfl:

I need to listen to something else to cleanse the mind now, thanks Victory

DUTR

Captain_Charisma wrote: »

I need your help!! Firstly, a little background information...

I posted this on another forum before Christmas:

My girlfriend of a few years finished with me last week, cut a long story i had began to take her for granted and never really made any effort with her family. This has killed me. Anyway, I have made promises and shown her how much she means to me with various gestures but she says although she still loves me she can't take a chance on me letting her down again. I need something other than a gesture to show her I love her, so I've thought of the following but don't know whether it's a good idea.
(snip)

Thoughts? Anything else I could do?

Irrespective of what anybody types, you have to face that there is probably nothing you can do :eek:
Whatever will be will be, not everyone is for everybody.
Hopefully for you, your ex may have a change of heart with time and space given.

victory

Anselm wrote: »

I don't even have a girlfriend, but I can safely say - we're never getting back together! :rotfl:

I need to listen to something else to cleanse the mind now, thanks Victory

This song will get on your nerves

Anselm

victory wrote: »

This song will get on your nerves

Well let's hope OP doesn't put it in his card

victory

Anselm wrote: »

Well let's hope OP doesn't put it in his card

:rotfl::rotfl: it goes on for 9 minutes imagine:rotfl: or it could bring some. Laughter to the proceedings:rotfl:

SandC

I was of a similar age when I ended a relationship with the ex who sounds like you. I had tried to end it six months previously but he persuaded me things would get better. His first gesture was to suggest a weekend away. 'It's a good start' thought I.

Who ended up organising the weekend away, paying for more than half of it and driving there? Me.

Mutual acquaintances told him to make more effort, when he refused to accompany me to work functions cos he couldn't be bothered. He borrowed money from me and never repaid it, he had me driving everywhere while his car sat in the drive. He would turn up for a night out with no money on him, he would expect me to still buy rounds when I was on soft drinks and he was on pints, I had a bash in my car, a colleague asked would he be getting me some flowers - 'no, she's fine' he said. Etc. etc. etc.

Tell you what, he was crushed when I ended it. Cos he loved me soooo much you see. :rotfl: I shed some tears for what could have been but then, breathed a big sigh of relief.

By the time I walked away the relationship had been over in my head for months.