My eldest has changed his xmas list

badmumof1

listen honey if you didnt want peoples help and suggestions then dont post a thread 'seeking help' just ring the Jeremy Kyle show as this is now bordering on those lines. feel sorry for you nah not one iota as you dont seem to want to respect what people are suggesting to you.
just for the record I have a 16 yr old here with us who has just worked 2 months without pay and finally got paid yesterday after a pay roll mix up. I have been subsidising bus fares without fuss and the little darling GAVE me the cash back yesterday although i turned it down. I dont think from what you have said about your son this sort of senario will ever ever happen

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Sambucus_Nigra

victory wrote: »

Another thought, everyone knows I am an easy target now, struggling to defend myself, answering every post, along comes the oh you drive me insane, it is you, all your fault, look at yourself, then there will be the you have mental issues, you need counselling, I am glad you are not my mother ,all that type of thing because it does, this thread is so long it does, it happens all the time, along comes the time where whatever question I answer I am wrong, whatever decision I have reached I am wrong, whatever happens next I am wrong, if he comes for xmas day I deserve it to be ruined if he doesn't I deserve.... it always does it always will

To me this thread was about seeking actual real live help and for there to be some kind of solution, if I come up with one, everyone posts they don't like that one and so?

Can you show me one post where you have responded with 'I see what you mean'?

You have argued against each and every one of them!

And going back to start the argument again, will be doing exactly the same thing as you have done on here.

aliasojo

Sambucus_Nigra wrote: »

Can you show me one post where you have responded with 'I see what you mean'?

You have argued against each and every one of them!

And going back to start the argument again, will be doing exactly the same thing as you have done on here.

That's what I meant about being negative.

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aliasojo

victory wrote: »

Yes I can and loads that I agree, that is a very good point, I will do that, this is what I have decided and a whole heap more that says No don't do that do this, how could you do that? You are just goading for a row, it is all your fault and you are to blame, you have not been listening and you are mental and need counselling so yes loads and right if I do this but wrong if I do that

I'm really sorry you feel like that victory.

I hope you and son eventually get to a more settled place. x

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