Wedding I've just found out

victory

Totally_Supurb wrote: »

she's not on here at the moment as as there's hundreds of thousands of members then I don't expert her to realise who i am otherwise I wouldn't have posted it, that wasn't my intention. My intention simply was to find out other peoples point of view on my situation, not for people to take my side, simply to understand

So, while we have been advising you on this thread you have been checking on her thread to see if she has got her light on and is posting?

Tish_P

I told you how I would feel - I'd be hurt but determined to be gracious about it, if other family members were invited but not me. If it was simply not a family wedding, I'd be disappointed but not hurt.

Look, you're clearly a bit shocked by the news and are acting rashly. It might be better to delete the thread, have a cup of tea, and phone your sister when you've calmed down, to wish her joy, because that is the only generous and dignified way to behave in this situation.

onlyroz

Totally_Supurb wrote: »

how can you not believe me???? put yourself in my situation then comment!!!! I openly welcome her into my family home and treat her no differently than I would any other member. You tell me any person what wouldn't do that if they knew otherwise it was going to upset the family... I await your reply

How can I not believe that you posted deliberately so your sister would read it? Because you posted on two boards giving out loads of personal info. Duh!

victory

melancholly wrote: »

well you've posted on two boards for maximum impact/sympathy. i'm stepping away now.

Hang on wait for me............:D

onlyroz

Totally_Supurb wrote: »

i haven't checked her thread i can see she's not following this one

Not yet, at least...

Gavin83

I think your being completely unreasonable to be honest and really need to look at the bigger picture. It's her wedding and completely up to her who to invite, why should she invite you?

Sorry if that sounds harsh but I hate it when people are forced to invite people to their wedding just to keep the peace. It's her wedding, if she wants a small affair why should she have to change it to suit you?

onlyroz

Totally_Supurb wrote: »

and??? how many people on here get married thats a woman and have one child??

And who is marrying locally but hasn't invited their parents or sister, but 18 months ago went to their sister's wedding where their child was a pageboy - think that narrows it down a bit

onlyroz

Totally_Supurb wrote: »

sorry maybe i haven't explained properly. My parents don't know yet. I've actually told them. But i agree that I'm not sure how we can come back from this

This is where you said your parents didn't know about the wedding. Methinks that in your anger you're a wee bit confuzzled.

jenhug

just come out and tell her. best way.

dirtysexymonkey

Totally_Supurb wrote: »

ok i hate that too, however it's a registry office it's not a massive wedding and there are 4 people going. This isn't about the cost and the thing is we DON'T hate each other, there have been NO massive rows, just simple disagreements between us which haven't caused a massive problem, it just seems theres something underlying which isn't 'right' that all so there's no reason for her not to invite me just feel hurt that my family weren't included because we are a small family

you stalk her online to find out when shes getting married and then instead of being a normal human being and keeping your mouth shut you run and tell mummy and daddy and ruin that moment for your sister. your intention was clear - you wanted to cause trouble between her and your parents. your parents have seen through this so now you want to get a load of sympathy on here. grow up you petty vindictive little troll. its no wonder you werent invited, you sound vile.