Can an affair ever have a happy ending?

victory

Bubby wrote: »

I do have to laugh, I had some friends round this evening and I told them about this thread.....no end of giggles:rotfl:

I tell my OH and he just looks at me as if to say 'are you serious'?:rotfl:

purpletoenails

Bubby wrote: »

I do have to laugh, I had some friends round this evening and I told them about this thread.....no end of giggles:rotfl:

Well I'm pleased that you would find other peoples misfortune entertaining

candygirl

purpletoenails wrote: »

Well I'm pleased that you would find other peoples misfortune entertaining

Why is it a misfortune?Maybe you haven't updated us yet:D:D

victory

purpletoenails wrote: »

Well I'm pleased that you would find other peoples misfortune entertaining

That is not meant like that you know it is not, no need for provocation, it is just a saying not aimed at anyone and certainly not attacking anyone it is just some light heartenedness, we all know what the destruction of an affair can do:D

candygirl

victory wrote: »

I tell my OH and he just looks at me as if to say 'are you serious'?:rotfl:

Mine did too:D:D:D:DHe's of the mindset, like I am.If it's not right move on, then meet someone else.Don't hedge your bets:D:D

Bubby

purpletoenails wrote: »

Well I'm pleased that you would find other peoples misfortune entertaining

I don't find his wifes misfortune entertaining at all I feel extremely sorry for her and can only hope that she has some good friends who can point her in the right direction of a rottweiler solicitor who can financially punish him for what he has done. That is exactly what i woould do if she were my friend, there are always consequences for peoples actions and I would be amazed if this ended happily for any of you.

victory wrote: »

That is not meant like that you know it is not, no need for provocation, it is just a saying not aimed at anyone and certainly not attacking anyone it is just some light heartenedness, we all know what the destruction of an affair can do:D

You are right Victory I wasn't attacking anyone, the fact that people have so much defence when it comes to their actions in an affair is not really laughable but very bizarre.

purpletoenails

candygirl wrote: »

Why is it a misfortune?Maybe you haven't updated us yet:D:D

Nope nothing to update that I haven't already stated

But although there have been some very amusing and lighthearted asides on this thread, the subject matter itself I feel is no laughing matter, not for anyone that's involved.

Bubby

purpletoenails wrote: »

Nope nothing to update that I haven't already stated

But although there have been some very amusing and lighthearted asides on this thread, the subject matter itself I feel is no laughing matter, not for anyone that's involved.

Its not the subject matter that was laughable at all but some of the comments

candygirl

purpletoenails wrote: »

Nope nothing to update that I haven't already stated

But although there have been some very amusing and lighthearted asides on this thread, the subject matter itself I feel is no laughing matter, not for anyone that's involved.

I agree, but because you don't seem to be sincere in your feelings for others, I think maybe we have taken on the same frame of mind:D:D:D

Bubby

Do unto others as you would have others do unto you.