Can an affair ever have a happy ending?

victory

They both dress up full length dress, tux and go off to the opera:rotfl:

nickyhutch

Lotus-eater wrote: »

Come on then, we're all dying to know what this exciting stuff is

I'm sure you're not. It looked more exciting to him because his wasn't - my life was more of a thrill to him than the one he had - the grass looked greener, I suppose. He's still here, so I guess it still is. I'm very different to his ex-wife, too, which helps.

victory

Lotus-eater wrote: »

I think we all have fantasies, but there is a difference between thinking about it and doing it.

I get turned on thinking about some things I would never do in real life, because I know that the reality and the repercussions is/are not very good.

So do I we all do, I joke with OH about antonio banderas and he jokes about kylie minogue, all harmless fun:D

nickyhutch

victory wrote: »

They both dress up full length dress, tux and go off to the opera:rotfl:

Not really my scene, but if it's what gives you your kicks......

Lotus-eater

nickyhutch wrote: »

Not really my scene, but if it's what gives you your kicks......

I'm pretty sure I know what your scene is, but I'd like to hear it from you

poet123

Lotus-eater wrote: »

Come on then, we're all dying to know what this exciting stuff is

I thought she was meaning sex in her answer,;) but that wasn't what I thought she was referring to when I asked the question. I thought she was meaning social activities, and my thinking was it is so much easier to be spontaneous when you don't have a home and children to look after. Now I am confused.

Was it sex, or social activities?

essexgirly

pixiedean wrote: »

How could you live with yourself Purpletoes if you were the cause of so much unhappiness to another woman. My husband did that to me and i'm a strong, independent woman, but at the time all i could think of was i have nobody now and i can't carry on and took a huge huge overdose and very nearly succeeded in killing myself, was in hospital and very ill - nearly died. Could you live with yourself if you caused another human to feel like that?

I'm not undermining your feelings, but surely your husband played a bigger part in all this, you really cant solely blame the other woman all the time. Your husband committed to you.

I hope you have got back to your normal self and started to rebuild your life. No man is worth that

nickyhutch

Lotus-eater wrote: »

I'm pretty sure I know what your scene is, but I'd like to hear it from you

I don't think it has its place on this thread

Nothing nasty, nothing special, I promise.

Lotus-eater

poet123 wrote: »

I thought she was meaning sex in her answer,;) but that wasn't what I thought she was referring to when I asked the question. I thought she was meaning social activities, and my thinking was it is so much easier to be spontaneous when you don't have a home and children to look after. Now I am confused.

Was it sex, or social activities?

It was sex, but she's keeping quiet after dangling the carrot of interest

nickyhutch

poet123 wrote: »

I thought she was meaning sex in her answer,;) but that wasn't what I thought she was referring to when I asked the question. I thought she was meaning social activities, and my thinking was it is so much easier to be spontaneous when you don't have a home and children to look after. Now I am confused.

Was it sex, or social activities?

Well seeing as that's what most relationships are based around (along with trust, affection, love, caring and the like), then of course that's what he wanted to be a part of. He loved (loves) me and wanted to be part of my life.

I think you're trying to make the point that it wasn't perhaps me he fell for, rather my life. You're wrong, though.