Can an affair ever have a happy ending?

Wickedkitten

Taadaa wrote: »

I'm not sure you have ever been in bodice-ripping-overthrows-everything-makes-your-face-ache-from-smiling love if you think that. The heart has it's reasons, and logic and control doesn't come into it.

Sounds more like lust than love to be honest.

victory

j19842 wrote: »

I wish I could find someone to have an affair with

Ridiculous..................................................

raddyantic

j19842 wrote: »

I wish I could find someone to have an affair with

Haha ditto! :rotfl:

So no girlfriend for me ...no affair for me...hmmm I was thinking as a last resort of 'taking up' dogging - but alas I don't have a car anymore - damn!!!!

j19842

victory wrote: »

Ridiculous..................................................

Excitement and forbidden fruit is quite a normal attraction, and 99% of people who are high and mighty and say they'd never do it, are quite turned on by the thought.

Please however, note the smiley at the end of my post. Even if having affairs is wrong, We are allowed to have a sense of humour....

j19842

raddyantic wrote: »

Haha ditto! :rotfl:

So no girlfriend for me ...no affair for me...hmmm I was thinking as a last resort of 'taking up' dogging - but alas I don't have a car anymore - damn!!!!

If you get really desperate - go bisexual. I'm half tempted (joking), as most of the interest I get is from guys, haha

gratefulforhelp_2

raddyantic wrote: »

hmmm I was thinking as a last resort of 'taking up' dogging - but alas I don't have a car anymore - damn!!!!

Can't you borrow one?

candygirl

gratefulforhelp wrote: »

Can't you borrow one?

He's not borrowing my car [STRIKE]dog[/STRIKE]:D;)

nickyhutch

raddyantic wrote: »

Haha ditto! :rotfl:

So no girlfriend for me ...no affair for me...hmmm I was thinking as a last resort of 'taking up' dogging - but alas I don't have a car anymore - damn!!!!

Have you got a dog, though? Just take it along, I'm sure they'd be happy for another joiner-in.

Lotus-eater

nickyhutch wrote: »

Not as often, but just as exciting, and with him now, so much better. I guess we wont when we're pushing 70, but you never know.

ETA - and different stuff, too. When you're single, like I was, staying in isn't all that exciting. Very different with a partner.

Come on then, we're all dying to know what this exciting stuff is

Lotus-eater

j19842 wrote: »

Excitement and forbidden fruit is quite a normal attraction, and 99% of people who are high and mighty and say they'd never do it, are quite turned on by the thought.

I think we all have fantasies, but there is a difference between thinking about it and doing it.

I get turned on thinking about some things I would never do in real life, because I know that the reality and the repercussions is/are not very good.