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Can an affair ever have a happy ending?

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  • nickyhutch
    nickyhutch Posts: 7,596 Forumite
    Lotus-eater wrote: »
    It was sex, but she's keeping quiet after dangling the carrot of interest :D

    Hey, I was making tea!
    ******** Never be a spectator of unfairness or stupidity *******
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  • poet123
    poet123 Posts: 24,099 Forumite
    I take it you mean sex as a social activity!!
  • nickyhutch
    nickyhutch Posts: 7,596 Forumite
    poet123 wrote: »
    I take it you mean sex as a social activity!!

    Er, no? I mean the sex is good, and we have a fab social life too.
    ******** Never be a spectator of unfairness or stupidity *******
    "Always be calm and polite, and have the materials to make a bomb"
  • POPPYOSCAR
    POPPYOSCAR Posts: 14,902 Forumite
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    Wickedkitten wrote: »
    Sounds more like lust than love to be honest.

    Can you not be lustful as well as love each other? We are both, 25 years and 2 children later.
  • Lotus-eater
    Lotus-eater Posts: 10,789 Forumite
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    nickyhutch wrote: »
    I don't think it has its place on this thread :D

    Nothing nasty, nothing special, I promise.
    Pm me then, at least my interest will be sorted out :rotfl:
    Freedom is not worth having if it does not include the freedom to make mistakes.
  • Wickedkitten
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    POPPYOSCAR wrote: »
    Can you not be lustful as well as love each other? We are both, 25 years and 2 children later.

    Of course you can feel both, but I'm willing to bet money that in your relationship love came after lust.
    It's not easy having a good time. Even smiling makes my face ache.
  • POPPYOSCAR
    POPPYOSCAR Posts: 14,902 Forumite
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    edited 5 October 2011 at 8:12PM
    poet123 wrote: »
    I thought she was meaning sex in her answer,;) but that wasn't what I thought she was referring to when I asked the question. I thought she was meaning social activities, and my thinking was it is so much easier to be spontaneous when you don't have a home and children to look after. Now I am confused.

    Was it sex, or social activities?


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  • POPPYOSCAR
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    Wickedkitten wrote: »
    Of course you can feel both, but I'm willing to bet money that in your relationship love came after lust.

    Now you are making me work hard thinking back all those years!!

    Actually, I think if anything, we became more lustful as our love grew stronger and more intense.
  • candygirl
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    victory wrote: »
    So do I we all do, I joke with OH about antonio banderas and he jokes about kylie minogue, all harmless fun:D

    mmmmmmmmm and me Sean Bean:p:p:p:p:p:p
    "You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf"

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  • POPPYOSCAR
    POPPYOSCAR Posts: 14,902 Forumite
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    I don't actually fancy anyone other than my OH.

    I think Johnny Depp is a great actor and is good looking but I don't have any fantasies about being with him etc.

    I said to my daughter about a young singer being attractive and sexy, as I could imagine all the young girls fancying him, and she called me a pervert!!
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