Can an affair ever have a happy ending?

peachyprice

Aberdeenangarse wrote: »

The OP asked a question, they didn't ask to know your life History.

Very apt username

Pollycat

pixiedean
maybe you would like to start your own thread about your experience?

This one sometimes goes off-topic and as it was started by someone who is in totally the opposite situation to you, it may be stressful at the moment for you to read about women who are/have been having affairs with married men.

I'm sure you'll get much more support if you post on a thread about women being cheated on rather than the other way round.

Do you have the support of family and friends?

Have you seen your GP?

Lotus-eater

Pollycat wrote: »

This one sometimes goes off-topic

rotffl


sometimes...............

gratefulforhelp_2

nickyhutch wrote: »

I trust mine :-) It's easy. I love him, I know he loves me. Simple difference was he didn't love his wife.

Course not:rotfl:

nickyhutch wrote: »

Sorry, but that is just your opinion. I think there are grey areas, and that argument has been done to death on this thread already. If ony we were all so perfect, life would be oh-so-happy.

V and P wasn't claiming to be perfect, simply stating an alternative moral stance to yours.

Aberdeenangarse wrote: »

The OP asked a question, they didn't ask to know your life History.

How very very rude.

candygirl

Aberdeenangarse wrote: »

The OP asked a question, they didn't ask to know your life History.

They didn't ask you to butt in and be a rude, obnoxious **** either:D:D;)

Pollycat

Pollycat wrote: »

pixiedean
maybe you would like to start your own thread about your experience?

This one sometimes goes off-topic and as it was started by someone who is in totally the opposite situation to you, it may be stressful at the moment for you to read about women who are/have been having affairs with married men.

I'm sure you'll get much more support if you post on a thread about women being cheated on rather than the other way round.

I suggested this after reading a really sad thread recently started by someone who posted once on this thread.

This lady said how upset the threads about affairs were making her feel.

It's all well and good to tell her not to read them but I think it's probably some sort of compulsion, like picking at a scab.

nickyhutch

gratefulforhelp wrote: »

Course not:rotfl:

Oh, I'm sorry, I forgot you know much more about me, my OH and his ex-wife.


V and P wasn't claiming to be perfect, simply stating an alternative moral stance to yours.

I didn't say he was.


How very very rude.

I know you're not over keen on me, but there's really no need to ridicule with little rolling smilies. Whether he loved her or not he cheated on her and left her. If he cheats on me, I'll take it as an indication that he doesn't love me, so I wont want him anyway.

Lotus-eater

Pollycat wrote: »

It's all well and good to tell her not to read them but I think it's probably some sort of compulsion, like picking at a scab.

That's why I keep coming back to this thread, despite telling myself to stay away

I'm a weak weak man :rotfl:

Besides, it's often so funny here and I do like a laugh. It's also interesting of course, will she, won't she. It's worse than those bloody 80's Nescafe gold blend adverts

lostinrates

Lotus-eater wrote: »

I thought that it was LW, little woman.
Or EI, er indoors.

:rotfl:

or SWMBO, or SWMO

OH still works for me and sounds nicer

I like little woman. Dh calls me that sometimes. I don't find it offensive in the least, and I don't think he means it offrensively either. But then he also calls me ...and the animals:o ''Smally'' as a term of endearment and collectively we are ''the Smallies''. Which is pretty funny, as most of his family are under 5 feet tall:rotfl::rotfl:

balletshoes

Taadaa wrote: »

I'm not sure you have ever been in bodice-ripping-overthrows-everything-makes-your-face-ache-from-smiling love if you think that. The heart has it's reasons, and logic and control doesn't come into it.[/QUOTE]

clearly thats not the case, otherwise everyone would be jumping into bed with whoever they wanted to rip the bodice off, regardless of whether they were married/in a relationship or not.

every decision we make as an adult is a balance between heart and head.