Can an affair ever have a happy ending?

POPPYOSCAR

Tut Tut Victory....

Do you not know that even just thinking about it is tantamount to cheating!!!!!!!!!!

euronorris

victory wrote: »

Oh at last someone who agrees with me:j:j:j I have this 'debate' with my girl friends and they do not see it like that, they say they are married to their OH and they 'belong together' they are 'one' they are 'united' I agree to an extent as without my OH I would be lost but even so he is independent of me, has his own idea, needs, hopes and dreams and is a person in his own right, as the both of us we are together but he is def not a possesion:D

I also agree.

Although OH does try to claim that certain body parts of mine are 'his'! :rotfl::rotfl:He is always corrected of course, he is simply allowed use of them! :rotfl::rotfl:

victory

POPPYOSCAR wrote: »

Tut Tut Victory....

Do you not know that even just thinking about it is tantamount to cheating!!!!!!!!!!

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl: uhm I so wish;) or even that guy off spandau ballet those blue eyes, can't even think of his name now?

victory

http://t0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcQ1RSXqawRywRItrTF5DzEyneEPqbbfioQCKupttyTWYJ_apYd5Hw Martin Kemp:D

POPPYOSCAR

euronorris wrote: »

I also agree.

Although OH does try to claim that certain body parts of mine are 'his'! :rotfl::rotfl:He is always corrected of course, he is simply allowed use of them! :rotfl::rotfl:

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

Same here!!

victory

euronorris wrote: »

I also agree.

Although OH does try to claim that certain body parts of mine are 'his'! :rotfl::rotfl:He is always corrected of course, he is simply allowed use of them! :rotfl::rotfl:

According to my OH all of the body parts are to his disposable 24/7 it says it in the marriage contract apparently:rotfl::rotfl:

lostinrates

re belonging....I guess thinking about it I do feel that dh and I belong to each other...but still ourselves. Mybe we own the free hold but have granted each other a leasehold?

And I'm holding to that. One of the things I've posted to dh is an exercise video....I'd like my other backside a bit perkier when it comes back. Sadly, this isn't recipricated....he sent me a small box of chocolates which are calling to me, even though I put them on top of the cupboard where I keep goodies for christmas.

neverdespairgirl

POPPYOSCAR wrote: »

I don't think anyone 'belongs' to anyone.

I love my OH with all my heart and have done for over 25 years but he does not 'belong' to me, he is not a possession.He is a person in his own right as am I.

I agree with you. I think it applies to children, too. Isaac is not "mine", I've been given him for a while to nuture. But I still call him "my son" as otherwise it would be a bit complicated (-:

Lotus-eater

victory wrote: »

According to my OH all of the body parts are to his disposable 24/7 it says it in the marriage contract apparently:rotfl::rotfl:

Obviously having just gone through a ceremony, I checked the contract fully and I can tell you...... that this is indeed the case.

My OH belongs to me and I don't care what anyone thinks so there

POPPYOSCAR

neverdespairgirl wrote: »

I agree with you. I think it applies to children, too. Isaac is not "mine", I've been given him for a while to nuture. But I still call him "my son" as otherwise it would be a bit complicated (-:

Very much so.

I also say that I want my children to love me for the person I am and not just because I am 'their mother' and happen to be the woman that gave birth to them.