Can an affair ever have a happy ending?

victory

How are you this evening PTN?

purpletoenails

Yes, I'm not too bad ty.

I am missing him very badly today though, despite having kept myself busy!

victory

I heard a lady on a bus the other day was saying that she is fine during the week and not so bad on a saturday because there was still people about and hustle and bustle but the day she found the hardest was a sunday because all the families were together and the street were quieter and there was less to do, chin up girl, tomorrow is another day;)

Did you hear from him today? Are you going to meet up?

purpletoenails

Yes, I have heard from him. As you know, he was thinking about paying me a visit, but luckily that didn't happen. He is wanting to meet later in the week though.

londoner1998

purpletoenails wrote: »

Yes, I have heard from him. As you know, he was thinking about paying me a visit, but luckily that didn't happen. He is wanting to meet later in the week though.

Just say no. It is much easier in the week to avoid it. Find something to do and keep yourself busy.
I know you will do what you want, but can´t you see this is not good for you? YOu've come this far, don;t throw away all the hard work.
'He wants'... and how about what YOU want?

Emmzi

PTN, I was dreading you coming back and saying you had met him. I am so glad that you didn't.

Why would you want to? What can he possibly say that isn't "Sorry, not yet, not now, not you?" That isn't going to help you feel better.

Please be strong. Just get through the next couple of months. Then it will get better.

Lotus-eater

purpletoenails wrote: »

Yes, I'm not too bad ty.

I am missing him very badly today though, despite having kept myself busy!

Well you never had him full time anyway, so that's just daft on your side. You always missed him, because he was never there.

purpletoenails wrote: »

Yes, I have heard from him. As you know, he was thinking about paying me a visit, but luckily that didn't happen. He is wanting to meet later in the week though.

He wants............... he wants!
Jesus C, you need a bloody kick up the behind. Stop being a doormat and sort yourself out.

lostinrates

victory wrote: »

I heard a lady on a bus the other day was saying that she is fine during the week and not so bad on a saturday because there was still people about and hustle and bustle but the day she found the hardest was a sunday because all the families were together and the street were quieter and there was less to do, chin up girl, tomorrow is another day;)

Did you hear from him today? Are you going to meet up?

PTn has a family at least!

peachyprice

lotus-eater wrote: »

well you never had him full time anyway, so that's just daft on your side. You always missed him, because he was never there.


He wants............... He wants!
Jesus c, you need a bloody kick up the behind. Stop being a doormat and sort yourself out.

...... :t :t.......

That's supposed to be a some clappy people. Don't know why they're 't's

lostinrates

purpletoenails wrote: »

Yes, I have heard from him. As you know, he was thinking about paying me a visit, but luckily that didn't happen. He is wanting to meet later in the week though.

did you try being as blunt as I suggested?

May I ask why you are still taking calls from him? Can you just let his calls go unanswered and his texts unreplied too?

I KNOW break ups are very hard, but again, I think you are not showing yourself any respect here. And you are still suffering the same as you were before the break up but getting NONE of the half portion of benefit you were getting. And he sounds like like a bully now.