Can an affair ever have a happy ending?

neverdespairgirl

Best of luck, PTN.

Frogletina

There are a lot of us here who will stay around to help you through this.

Let the tears come, and you don't have to explain anything to us that you don't want to share

lostinrates

PTN, despite feeling, for all concerned especially you I think this will be in the long term best, you do have my absolute sympathy.

I really hope after the hurt starts to heal you go out and find someone who can be there for you all the time and who you can have a wonderful fulfilling relationship with. I'm certain you deserve to find happiness.

Take care, take HUGE care of yourself.

Bogof_Babe

You should be very proud of yourself PTN, for doing such an incredibly difficult thing. Give yourself permission to take a little time to mourn, because I know you will need to.

Then slap on a brave face and go out there with your head held high, because the future can truly be wonderful if you let it. ((((PTN))))

victory

Frogletina wrote: »

There are a lot of us here who will stay around to help you through this.

Let the tears come, and you don't have to explain anything to us that you don't want to share

I am absolutely one of them, please do not think you are on your own, I know we are only cyber but I have felt for you, I am crying for you now, I am so sorry for you, whatever you need we can all help you through it, please take care of yourself and be strong.

PTN I am really sorry, I know your heart is breaking but we are all here for you.

lostinrates

victory wrote: »

I am absolutely one of them, please do not think you are on your own, I know we are only cyber but I have felt for you, I am crying for you now, I am so sorry for you, whatever you need we can all help you through it, please take care of yourself and be strong.

PTN I am really sorry, I know your heart is breaking but we are all here for you.

Hey, we're REAL we just communicate not face to face.;) That means we can REALLY feel for PTN and REALLY repsond to her humanly.

but...if we are not real it would be good to know. I'm having a sort of Irobot moment...what am I?;)

PTN, of course everyone is right. Your story doesn't end here, and so neither does the line of communication should you desire it.

victory

I am real and I feel real pain for PTN and will always be here for you PTN just when you can keep posting and we will support you, I have followed you all the way through there is no way I would leave now, please keep strong and one day perhaps keep us posted

Wickedkitten

lostinrates wrote: »

PTN, despite feeling, for all concerned especially you I think this will be in the long term best, you do have my absolute sympathy.

I really hope after the hurt starts to heal you go out and find someone who can be there for you all the time and who you can have a wonderful fulfilling relationship with. I'm certain you deserve to find happiness.

Take care, take HUGE care of yourself.

Indeed :T take some time to mourn, and then get glammed up and find someone who will put you as their first priority.

justmel

purpletoenails wrote: »

Not sure how much I'm going to be able to tell you but the relationship is over. Even though I instigated it, I am feeling pretty devastated and desolate at the moment.

I am so sorry for the pain that you are going through PTN and i sincerely mean that,i hope that once you have grieved for this relationship which of course will take time in itself that you will one day find the kind of happiness that you truly deserve xxx

Bubby

purpletoenails wrote: »

Not sure how much I'm going to be able to tell you but the relationship is over. Even though I instigated it, I am feeling pretty devastated and desolate at the moment.

I just wanted to say from someone on the "other side" I think that you can hold your head up high and believe that you have done the right thing and can now move on and leave this creep behind