Can an affair ever have a happy ending?

POPPYOSCAR

gratefulforhelp wrote: »

[COLOR=purple]To be fair, the polygamous marriage set up isn't (yet) allowed for in the British collective morality.[/COLOR]



Were children involved?

Agreed.

So can it always be said that 'adultery' is wrong then. Or should it be quantified by 'unless by agreement'?

gratefulforhelp_2

OK, adultery (sex with someone other than your spouse if you are married) is always wrong, according to the British collective morality - which is founded in Christianity.

I don't know, but in a polygamous community, surely adultery can still exist - sex with someone other than one of your spouses?!

I'm making a distinction between adultery and cheating (sex behind your partner's back). They can overlap, but you can have one without the other.

purpletoenails

gratefulforhelp wrote: »

eta PTN are you glad you began the thread, or do you wish you hadn't (insulting posts aside)?

Yes I'm still glad I started the thread.

victory wrote: »

PTN still no news? When are you meeting him?

Theres a few things rumbling around due to the wobble I had on Weds night. We will probably meet week after next, if I make it til then.

victory

Probably or def? This has to find an ending;)

purpletoenails

victory wrote: »

Probably or def? This has to find an ending;)

Yes we have definitely planned to meet,and it will more than likely be the week after next rather than this coming week, which would have been better.

snowmaid

sparky1989 wrote: »

Hi i have my eye on a older lady (age isnt important) and a bit of a cougar /fox . She is playing hard to get ATM but deep down i know she likes me judging by all the letters (sometime written in red ink) I will play it cool for a little longer.Wish me luck with this cat .

Well...you keep sending me all those love poems....covered in your tears....and the red knickers were cute....just wish you weren't wearing them in that pic though....:cool:

FatVonD

purpletoenails wrote: »

Theres a few things rumbling around due to the wobble I had on Weds night.

Is there such a thing as a raising one eyebrow smilie? LIke so.. *points to self*

Lotus-eater

gratefulforhelp wrote: »

OK, adultery (sex with someone other than your spouse if you are married) is always wrong, according to the British collective morality - which is founded in Christianity.

I don't know, but in a polygamous community, surely adultery can still exist - sex with someone other than one of your spouses?!

I'm making a distinction between adultery and cheating (sex behind your partner's back). They can overlap, but you can have one without the other.

What about 3somes or moresomes? :grouphug: Or dogging, or spying on your OH from the wardrobe with their knowledge, while they are shagging someone else.


My heads starting to hurt trying to name everything Is there Fetish adultery, or kinky adultery, or pretend cheating kinky adultery?

Marisco

FatVonD wrote: »

Is there such a thing as a raising one eyebrow smilie? LIke so.. *points to self*

There you go, have that one on me

gratefulforhelp_2

Lotus-eater wrote: »

What about 3somes or moresomes? :grouphug: Or dogging, or spying on your OH from the wardrobe with their knowledge, while they are shagging someone else.

Um...it's a bit early in the day, thanks.;)


My heads starting to hurt trying to name everything Is there Fetish adultery, or kinky adultery, or pretend cheating kinky adultery?

Or 'phone sex, or sexting???