Can an affair ever have a happy ending?

Pollycat

euronorris wrote: »

It doesn't help any of us to understand each other. So sometimes it's best for us to take a step back and/or walk away to calm down a bit.

Tea and biscuits anyone?

NO!

But I will have a coffee and chocolate muffin with you. :rotfl:

euronorris

Pollycat wrote: »

NO!

But I will have a coffee and chocolate muffin with you. :rotfl:

Actually, I can do that too, I just need to pop downstairs to the coffeecart.

BRB!

FatVonD

nickyhutch wrote: »

You might, one day, understand the very simple concept of everyone not being the same. Some people don't have the issues with overlapping relationships that you very obviously do. Some people do, some people don't. Simple concept.

Supposing the OP's blokey's wife is one of those that does have an issue with overlapping relationships, doesn't she have the right to decide for herself whether she still wants to be part of the triangle?

Pollycat

euronorris wrote: »

Actually, I can do that too, I just need to pop downstairs to the coffeecart.

BRB!

Wonderful! :coffee:

Maybe later, when the sun is over the yardarm, we can all have a friendly :beer:.

Bogof_Babe

Maybe a distinction needs to be made between couples whose marriage is sufficiently on the rocks for them both to be aware of it, and those where one partner just fancies a fling, and the other one has no reason to think there is anything wrong.

The tricky bit for the OP is working out which sort she's dealing with.

gratefulforhelp_2

wageslave wrote: »

I committed aldutery twice and yet it is not the sex I remember. I remember his hand resting on mine, rubbing my fingers. I remember him hugging me tight.

Hope it wasn't my DH:eek:

nickyhutch wrote: »

Right. I could only continue discussing this with you by being as rude and nasty as you, and I'm not going to stoop to that, so I wont be responding any further to you.

Didn't come across as rude to me.

nickyhutch wrote: »

Well in that case, we would all have that happy end, wouldn't we?

Not the children.

And for overlapping relationships, read adulterous relationships. Adulterer is not an insult, it is a fact if a person has committed adultery, then they are an adulterer.

[Deleted User]

Bogof_Babe wrote: »

Maybe a distinction needs to be made between couples whose marriage is sufficiently on the rocks for them both to be aware of it, and those where one partner just fancies a fling, and the other one has no reason to think there is anything wrong.

The tricky bit for the OP is working out which sort she's dealing with.

Having once been in a situation where I started off as a friend with a man.., we were both in very bad relationships reportedly. Things became way too involved.., lots of heart ache that took me years to recover from.., but out of it I realised.., however bad a relationship reportedly is.., don't be taken in.., if its still current.., there's a reason its still current. I'm not going to make any excuses for myself.., thank god the relationship didn't get physical but I'd never ever go near a man in 'need' of any kind again.

Former_MSE_Andrea

Hi guys

A couple of wee reminders...

We don't want swearing on our forum. Please don't do it. You can say the same thing without it.

Please also be friendly and treat others as you'd like to be treated.

Finally, if you're going to report posts you need to then stop replying on the thread. Getting involved then just reporting if an argument's not going your way doesn't help you or us.

Thank you!

gratefulforhelp_2

MSE_Andrea wrote: »

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Finally, if you're going to report posts you need to then stop replying on the thread. Getting involved then just reporting if an argument's not going your way doesn't help you or us.

Absolutely.

a1969baby

MSE_Andrea wrote: »

Hi guys

A couple of wee reminders...

We don't want swearing on our forum. Please don't do it. You can say the same thing without it.

Please also be friendly and treat others as you'd like to be treated.

Finally, if you're going to report posts you need to then stop replying on the thread. Getting involved then just reporting if an argument's not going your way doesn't help you or us.

Thank you!

Haven't really been able to post properly for a couple of days (due to my boss keep inconveniently being around at work lol) but I had noticed that some posters were becoming increasingly spiteful in their posts and making unnecessarily personal comments. Hopefully now people will be more considerate and thoughtful of how they express their opinions