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Looking for a quick and cheap divorce!
Just wondering if anyone can offer some advice and if you read my previous topics then you will see that my wife and I seperated and thanks for all the previous advice that I received regarding moving out etc etc What I am looking for now is help with regards to getting a divorce. The situation is quite simple, we have no…
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Ideas for free/cheap nights in/out
Hi Guys me and my boyfriend are only 20 and are doing are best to study and save as much as poss and we do like to go out although we don't drink and neither does anyone in our circle of friends really so im looking for cheap/free ideas Thanks!!
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Help with baby girls names
We are expecting identical twin girls next January. We do have one name that we love but are finding it very hard to think of another one. The name we have chosen is Gracie. This may change though if we cant come up with one that sounds good for baby no 2. Any help much appreciated.
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Ex-partner and difficult times
Hi everyone, I hope some people might have some useful bits they can share with me. So here goes: Five years ago I started dating someone I had met via a dating website. They told me they had been sexually assaulted in a previous relationship though in the early days I walked in on her talking to this ex 'abuser' on the…
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Snakes?
Not sure if this is the right place to post this, but I wonder what people think of having 3 seven foot common boas with a 2 year old?
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A question for mothers of adult children please
How much involvement do you expect to have in your adult children's lives? Reason I ask is that my mum and I have had a bit of a tiff and when I asked her today if we're friends she said she doesn't know. She basically said something about me not eating a good diet and it being bad for the baby (I'm pregnant) which got my…
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Just having a bad day
Hello Just having bad day and need somewhere to vent - normally I can just shrugg things off - but today need a hug. This year so far has been pretty pants and I can't wait until 31/12 so I can say again "this year will be our year":D My mum died in April from Liver failure she was taken into hospital 6 weeks before - she…
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The ex, the GF and a Party
It's DD's birthday on Thursday - I've invited ex (He hasnt seen her for a year) but stressed that the current GF isnt welcome due to the arguements she caused last year but have told him that his mother (urgh) is welcome (more so ex has company - obviously havent told him this). Ex hasnt officially said anything about the…
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Help with baby name
Baby boy is due in the next few days and we still can't decide on a name. Which do you prefer? :)
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Cyprus probate?
Anyone have any experience regarding probate in Cyprus? I have been granted probate in the UK for my Cypriot born mum. On presenting to her Cyprus bank the grant for the release of money held in her account they have requested a Cyprus grant. I now have to apply to have the UK grant resealed by Cyprus courts (I am sole…
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Sister Problem, need to get it sorted, any advice?
I have a older sister who has moved back in with mum & dad temporary, we have had a massive argument a few months back and i want to sort it out. It happened because my partner sent out a save the date card for our wedding to my parents house and not one directly to my sister, she then saw my parents open it and assumed it…
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O/T: if you have children with free school meals do you also cook a hot dinner?
Hi all Unsure if this goes here but I just wanted to know your opinions on this I have 4 children...3 of whom are in full time school and the youngest who is in till 12.30 on a tues/thurs The 3 in full time get free school meals (always hot) Would you also cook a hot dinner for after school or just do sandwiches etc?…
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Did anyone bleed heavy in 2nd trimester and have a healthy baby?
Apologies if TMI I am not asking for medical advice just someone to tell me"hey i went through this and was fine" to give me some hope. I am 17+7 pregnant with a frozen ivf baby, Sunday last week I had a slight blood stained discharge, went to East surrey antenatal ward in a panic, they checked babys heart beat and cervix…
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really need to ask for help about vile neighbour
Hello :-) I'm hoping this is the right section to post in, and will try to summarise. Sincere apologies if I can't summarise as much as I wish I could. The neighbour above, for 2 years, litters my garden, is determined that my garden is communal despite the council making it clear it's mine, hangs washing right over my…
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divorce help please
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divorce help please
Following on from my earlier post regarding the costs of getting divorce, can anyone give me some advice on how to actually go about it. I know I need to make a solicitors appt but what I mean is: We have chldren and debt, how I plan on selling the house and paying of the debt leaving us with about £40,000 left over. Now I…
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No Carbs
My OH went to the Drs recently and was told that he had a fatty liver and the start of problems. He was told he had to cut out his carbs. He went into a bit of a panic and tried to cut out all carbs but that meant he could hardly eat anything (we know the main ones but root veg, a lot of fruit, gravy and sauces etc). He…
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My Dad's Headstone
my dad was buried 20 years ago in the local graveyard he had a beautiful headstone and we were very happy with it, the other day my mum got a letter from the council saying that my dad's headstone and all the others in the graveyard needed re erecting for safety reasons and that they had 30 days to comply, My mum phoned…
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Writing a will (solicitor) what should I think about?
We're making joint wills on Wednesday with a local firm of solicitors, they will do them FOC if we make a £95 donation to the local hospice so thought why not. We're married, no children, and have a house together. Having never written a will before I'm wondering what sort of questions I'll be asked so that it can be…
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Solicitors help please
Hi I am thinking about seeking a divorce from my husband, I am not eligible for legal aid, but don't have ready cash either. I will be selling the house so will have some money at the end. Do I have to pay as I go along or can the bill be settled at the end like it does when you sell a house? Thanks B
