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Want to change Deeds
Hi there everybody I I have a question I need to ask which I am not sure of. I bought a house with my father in 2006 on a interest only mortgage now my dad is 65 and I am 28 years the department of work and pension pay around about £220 a month towards the mortgage for my dad and also we only pay half of the council tax.…
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divorce & mortgages
I am currently going though a divorce and have been paying the mortgage for 2.5 years with no help from my hopefully soon to be ex. I would like to know if he is entitled to 50/50 of the equity even though I have had to keep up with re-payments if i should sell. Also in this current climate is it worth asking for a loan on…
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Relationship question
what is the meaning of a perfect relationship ?? what is the main thing which keep two people remain in touch with each other for forever?? THANK YOU
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please somebody helpme
i am married with 4 children my husband is no longer on the scene and will not be around to see the kids or to pay towards anything....this happened yesterday and i dont know what to do... i dont work as he was the earner, we have mortgage of £1000 a month ( there is no give in the morgage as we are in arrears and have to…
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Owning House with Brother
I own a house with my brother as he bought my ex out when he left me three years ago. At the time, this seemed like the best thing to do as I didn’t want to sell up and end up renting etc. The house is worth approximately £265,000 and we have a mortgage of £120,000 on it. We are heavily overpaying in order to have the…
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Emotional abuse - any advice?
Hi everyone, Regular poster but posting under an alias to protect my family member. My cousin has been in a relationship with a horrible man for several years. They have three children together. For a long time, our family and even his family have told her to get rid of him because he is no good. He would often speak to…
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Care needs for mum
Not sure if this is where this post should go but i wanted help to get more care for my mum. She is not very mobile which is because of a medical condition and age and i do what i can to help as do my daughters but we need to find ways of getting more outside help. If anyone knows were i should begin could they post and…
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Want my reconstruction off
Some of you may have read my previous posts about breast cancer, treatment & recovery. I've been back at work full time since September now and it's been 18 months since I had the diagnosis following a mammogram. Anyway, when I had my masectomy, I had a reconstruction at the same time. It's healed well but I'm not happy. I…
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Libido
My libido is diminishing. Orgasms are hard to reach & not intense when I do. I'm 40, female, no outside issues, happy etc. Dont want to go to GP at mo as hoping will pass?? Others experiences welcome.
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My wife's gone mad! (And now I know why!)
EDIT: Post 70 gives the explanation for why my darling wife has been a bit prickly lately. Okay, maybe that is slightly overstating things but I'm beginning to think she's been loitering around here and picking up some bad habits from the thrifty among you. Now that she's mostly all better she seems to have turned into a…
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The Great Hunt: New Tax Year's Resolutions
The Great Hunt: New tax year's resolutions It's the first week of the new tax year, so what are you doing with your money to mark it? Are you going to start saving into a new ISA, making a budget and sticking to it, or reclaiming what's owed to you? Click "reply" below to share your tips. If you haven’t already, join the…
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Did anyone else have so much trouble deciding what they wanted to do in life?
Not sure best place to post this - so feel free to move it if not but as it's a personal question and you guys give great advice I would just like to get a bit of a rant out. I have a bit of a problem of not being able to stick at anything - I've started ICS A levels, I've started 6th forum,BTEC Business, I started an…
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You may as well put it in the garden....
Did anyone see the comedian a while ago talking about the dishwasher, it went along the line of why does the other half put dishes on the kitchen surface above the dishwasher? You may as well put them in the garden as they won't wash themselves there either! I live in one of these homes, anyone else lol? Is it that they…
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New Relationship advice
I tend to spend a lot of time on here reading and offering advice only when I have something useful to add, and it occurred to me I could ask about my relationship which I'm finding quite confusing. I'm great at giving advice but I think I'm too close to this to see the way ahead. So we have similar interests and its sooo…
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Hen party help
Hi, my sister is getting married in September and has asked me to organise her hen parties. The first is almost sorted, the standard raucous drunken night with friends and strippers. It's the second I'm struggling with. She wants a nice family friendly tea/dinner type thing with all the girls in the family, aged from about…
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The other step parent / partner and presents from kids
Following on from reading the ex and kids birthdays thread. My situation , divorced and remarried, ex husband remarried, 3 kids together in our marriage. When it's his wife's birthday, Xmas etc, would you expect me to sort out the presents to her from the kids ? Or would you expect my ex husband to arrange a present to her…
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Need Advice please
My husband and I are currently divorcing. If i voluntarily leave the marital home and go into private renting, will i be able to get help with my housing benefit and council tax. I am currently receiving ESA Income related, DLA and CTC. My ex husband will be staying in the marital home with his son as he is under 18. I…
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Present dilemna for exes children
I've removed this post. Ty for everyones kindness and advice.
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Wayn
My OH got a email tonight from a random girl saying she wanted to meet up with people who had similar interests, we looked at the site it came from and it was wayn, the email had his full name so I told him to try logging in and there was a profile with his name, date if birth age and location (no photos) There were also…
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Louis Theroux LA Stories End of Life
Did anyone watch it? Very upsetting but fantastic film making.