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Libido

Ikno
Ikno Posts: 1 Newbie
in Marriage, relationships & families
My libido is diminishing. Orgasms are hard to reach & not intense when I do. I'm 40, female, no outside issues, happy etc. Dont want to go to GP at mo as hoping will pass?? Others experiences welcome.

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  • wapow
    wapow Posts: 939 Forumite
    New account.
    Seems like span.
    There are a million places that are more in tune with this kind of stuff and can provide you answers.
    A search on the interwebz might take you to these places.
    You even have web doctors.
    Give it a go.
  • claire21
    claire21 Posts: 32,747 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker I've been Money Tipped!
    http://www.annsummers.com/p/the-ultimate-o-pink-clitoral-stimulator/07cshdas1358041

    That will sort you out.
  • peachyprice
    peachyprice Posts: 22,346 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    Probably menopause.
    Accept your past without regret, handle your present with confidence and face your future without fear
  • marisco_2
    marisco_2 Posts: 4,261 Forumite
    edited 13 April 2014 at 3:54PM
    How happy are you in your relationship? Do you have any doubts or worries that may be the real reason for the loss of libido? Stress, anxiety and exhaustion can be all-consuming and have a major impact on your happiness. If you feel you’re constantly tired, stressed or anxious, you may need to make some lifestyle changes. Low libido can also be caused by an underactive thyroid. Common signs of this condition are tiredness, weight gain and feeling depressed. I would recommend speaking to your GP for advice.
    The best day of your life is the one on which you decide your life is your own, no apologies or excuses. No one to lean on, rely on or blame. The gift is yours - it is an amazing journey - and you alone are responsible for the quality of it. This is the day your life really begins.
  • [Deleted User]
    [Deleted User] Posts: 0 Newbie
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    Hi,

    do you have a partner male/female?
  • **professor~yaffle**
    **professor~yaffle** Posts: 1,579 Forumite
    could even be depression..?
  • PlymouthMaid
    PlymouthMaid Posts: 1,550 Forumite
    Seventh Anniversary Combo Breaker
    Is low libido such a problem anyway? Get a kindle.
    "'Cause it's a bittersweet symphony, this life
    Try to make ends meet
    You're a slave to money then you die"
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