boyfriend says he can't upset wife!!!!

Errata

caroleann wrote: »

You did it again!!!!!!
You might not believe me but I used to have a bottom drawer, in 1977, but my God, 7 years! I'll be past it by then:rotfl:

A woman is never too old to loop the loop...........with the right man

caroleann

Errata wrote: »

Caroleann, be pleasant, friendly, warm and courteous towards his daughter. Accept any rebuffs with good grace and don't try to win her over - she'll see straight through it.

Yes, 'Win over' is the wrong term, but you know what I mean, its darn near impossible to do any of the things youv'e suggested as she wont even agree to meet me, i dont and wont, want to force the issue, I feel like the wicked step mother at the moment.:eek:

caroleann

Errata wrote: »

A woman is never too old to loop the loop...........with the right man

'Loop the loop'..........:rotfl:
xxxxx

Errata

caroleann wrote: »

Yes, 'Win over' is the wrong term, but you know what I mean, its darn near impossible to do any of the things youv'e suggested as she wont even agree to meet me, i dont and wont, want to force the issue, I feel like the wicked step mother at the moment.:eek:

Aw, don't feel like that. She will view you as her dad's girlfriend, she's had a rocky ride from both her parents in the last few years and is bound to be prickly. Put yourself in her shoes. She'll change her attitude if she feels it's right to do so, but may need a fair amount of time. We can't change other people's behaviour but we can change ours, and sometimes - just sometimes - that results in them changing theirs.
It's early days yet, don't worry about it, and give things time. Good heavens woman.............it's not something important like Sunderland losing 5-0

caroleann

Errata wrote: »

Aw, don't feel like that. She will view you as her dad's girlfriend, she's had a rocky ride from both her parents in the last few years and is bound to be prickly. Put yourself in her shoes. She'll change her attitude if she feels it's right to do so, but may need a fair amount of time. We can't change other people's behaviour but we can change ours, and sometimes - just sometimes - that results in them changing theirs.
It's early days yet, don't worry about it, and give things time. Good heavens woman.............it's not something important like Sunderland losing 5-0

Thought it was 2-0 to us,,,,,,,, Toon Army!!!!!!!!!!

caroleann

caroleann wrote: »

Thought it was 2-0 to us,,,,,,,, Toon Army!!!!!!!!!!

Sorry, your'e right, time is a great healer, I'll be here when she's re
ady/curious, luckily i have girls so have a good idea how they tick

liuhut

Oh caroleann my mouth dropped open when I saw that his ex had called you!! Bet none of us expected that one...so, so happy for you.
No advise on the daughter front i'm sorry but just wanted so say I'm thinking about you and hope it all works out.
Take care
Laura XX

caroleann

Errata wrote: »

Aw, don't feel like that. She will view you as her dad's girlfriend, she's had a rocky ride from both her parents in the last few years and is bound to be prickly. Put yourself in her shoes. She'll change her attitude if she feels it's right to do so, but may need a fair amount of time. We can't change other people's behaviour but we can change ours, and sometimes - just sometimes - that results in them changing theirs.
It's early days yet, don't worry about it, and give things time. Good heavens woman.............it's not something important like Sunderland losing 5-0

Hi Errata, Are you still there? hope I haven't upset you about the football thing:o

caroleann

liuhut wrote: »

Oh caroleann my mouth dropped open when I saw that his ex had called you!! Bet none of us expected that one...so, so happy for you.
No advise on the daughter front i'm sorry but just wanted so say I'm thinking about you and hope it all works out.
Take care
Laura XX

Thanks Laura,
Me more than anyone did'nt expect to hear from her, was shaking like a leaf!!!!
Thanks for being happy for me, I really appreciate it, as for his daughter, could be a long road ahead.
Will keep you posted on how it goes from here,
Cheers, Carole, xxxx

Errata

caroleann wrote: »

Hi Errata, Are you still there? hope I haven't upset you about the football thing:o

Not a bit - I support Ferryhill United on my mother's side :rotfl: