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  • caroleann
    caroleann Posts: 212 Forumite
    PENNYWISE wrote: »
    i've set computer to recognise me so i don't have to sign in everytime i visit & don't have any probs with reply being timed out. tho i know not everyone can do this if they're not only ones to use computer

    copying text is a good way to get round problem tho. or some people write reply in word and then copy & paste into MSE reply box
    Hi Penny,
    I'm so mad, I've spent ages replying to your PM ( Thank you soooo much) and was logged out and lost it all,:mad: I donk know how to cut and paste so I'll have to do it all over again and it will probably happen again, If anyone who looks after this site is listening, PLEASE HELP, It must have happened 6 times at least to me now.
    Caroleann
  • caroleann
    caroleann Posts: 212 Forumite
    Errata wrote: »
    Don't you dare feel bad about yourself ! Get angry !
    Hi Errata,

    I am angry, its driving me crazy, could kill him for giving me the silent treatment, my interview is at 2.30pm tomorrow and I want to look and feel my best, he is not helping that to happen at all.
    How can you love someone and hate them at the same time???!!!:mad:

    Caroleann
  • PENNYWISE_3
    PENNYWISE_3 Posts: 224 Forumite
    caroleann wrote: »
    Hi Penny,
    I'm so mad, I've spent ages replying to your PM ( Thank you soooo much) and was logged out and lost it all,:mad: I donk know how to cut and paste so I'll have to do it all over again and it will probably happen again, If anyone who looks after this site is listening, PLEASE HELP, It must have happened 6 times at least to me now.
    Caroleann

    I just highlight the text i want to make sure i don't lose, press ctrl + c or right click & 'copy'
    ta-dah, it should then be safe.
    if it times u out you can get text by opening new reply box & right click & 'paste' then ur copied text should reappear
    hope it helps & i haven't confused u more! :rotfl:
    Who says I have to be normal? :p
  • PENNYWISE_3
    PENNYWISE_3 Posts: 224 Forumite
    caroleann wrote: »
    Hi Errata,

    I am angry, its driving me crazy, could kill him for giving me the silent treatment, my interview is at 2.30pm tomorrow and I want to look and feel my best, he is not helping that to happen at all.
    How can you love someone and hate them at the same time???!!!:mad:

    Caroleann

    I would be mad & hurt too & would def be having some kind of strop! :rotfl:

    Leave him to it, maybe he needs some time to think but it's def no excuse for treating u like that, u deserve more respect. oooh, if only i could take my own advice :D

    u concentrate on this job and your interview, you can worry about him another day. Turn any anger you have into superconfidence!

    x
    Who says I have to be normal? :p
  • Errata
    Errata Posts: 38,230 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    caroleann wrote: »
    Hi Errata,

    I am angry, its driving me crazy, could kill him for giving me the silent treatment,
    He deserves to be brained with a flat iron !

    my interview is at 2.30pm tomorrow and I want to look and feel my best, he is not helping that to happen at all.

    You will do brilliantly. Repeat after me - you will do brilliantly.

    How can you love someone and hate them at the same time???!!!:mad:
    Easy, women can multitask.

    Caroleann

    Chin up pet, if the worst has happened things can only get better.
    .................:)....I'm smiling because I have no idea what's going on ...:)
  • PENNYWISE_3
    PENNYWISE_3 Posts: 224 Forumite
    He deserves to be brained with a flat iron !
    I like ur style :p
    Who says I have to be normal? :p
  • caroleann
    caroleann Posts: 212 Forumite
    :D OMG, that was funny, think I laughed for the first time today!!!!!!

    Thank you so much for your support over the last few days, I went to see my grown up daughter when I finished work today, she's a very level headed,
    sensible woman of almost 26, and it was as if the tables had turned, she said 'Mam, its time to get rid, how would you feel if someone was doing this to me?, he doesn't deserve you, he's a liar and you dont trust him' GOBSMACKED, every word the truth, so why am I doing this? need to be loved? lack of confidence? dont want to be lonely? have argued it all out in my head and that little voice is getting stronger every hour I dont hear from him,wish I could slip him a truth drug and get to the bottom of his story, if I dump him I'll probably never find out what happens with him and wifey and that will kill me, I was tempted to drive through to his house on Saturday night to see if his car was there or if it was at wifeys 5 mins away, had a glass of red and and silently seethed instead.
    Watch this space, women are wiley and there are ways of finding out things.....
    Caroleannxxx
  • caroleann
    caroleann Posts: 212 Forumite
    PENNYWISE wrote: »
    He deserves to be brained with a flat iron !
    I like ur style :p
    Me too :D:D:D:D :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:
  • Errata
    Errata Posts: 38,230 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    'Mam, its time to get rid, how would you feel if someone was doing this to me?, he doesn't deserve you, he's a liar and you dont trust him'

    Out of the mouths of babes ! Bless her, she sounds terrific.
    .................:)....I'm smiling because I have no idea what's going on ...:)
  • Errata
    Errata Posts: 38,230 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    every hour I dont hear from him,wish I could slip him a truth drug and get to the bottom of his story, if I dump him I'll probably never find out what happens with him and wifey and that will kill me, I was tempted to drive through to his house on Saturday night to see if his car was there or if it was at wifeys 5 mins away

    :naughty::naughty::naughty:

    You'll find out - might not be today or tomorrow but you'll find out in the end. Of course as time goes by you may become less and less interested.
    .................:)....I'm smiling because I have no idea what's going on ...:)
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