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NST June 2021: Jolly simple
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Unfortunately Iost my NSD day as ds who's negative but told to self isolate, ordered a pizza from the coop - and well he got it. And then he made me dinner while I finished my writing and dealt with some drama that I am still processing. Grateful for finishing something even it's not perfect and I have burnt a lot of favours and patience with friends and colleagues! Grateful for going on a run tomorrow after 3 another day of writing. For ds testing negative and having a lot of common sense. Related to drama.Isa help to buy: 1000/3000 33%
Emergency fund: 100/1000 10%
Weight loose 8.6 kg - while having fun. 0/8.6 0%
Focus debt to clear HSBC £10/1111, 0% updated May 257 -
Aye, I'll do it, unless someone else is super eager. I wasn't sure about it but I need to get myself organised and if I can do that, organising all of you will be a doddle. I will direct operations from a reclining position on the chaise longue.
Yesterday I had one final go at the tree stump roots, then doused it in ant powder. Decided I can't really keep calling the bugs 'termites' - even thought that might be an american name where we use something else. So I looked up wood eating bugs (I promise no photos) and they are probably Hylotrupes, Anobiidae, Bark Beetles or the outsider Bronze beetles. Haven't actually seen any of them since I moved the 'trunk' bit away and the roots are hard, very hard (sore fingers from hacking and sawing). Then covered with a layer of stones and filled in all the dips. Really hoping they don't come back. Hate stopping when I've worked so long trying to get it just right but mostly right will have to do - can't delay any longer.
So put the third metre bag in place, stapled the top edge against the bottom of the wooden fence panel (hope it's straight because I didn't use the level) - bags are roughly the same depth as the concrete support panel. Used 4 x 40 l buckets of soil and one smaller one, used more top half of 2 l bottles for water reservoirs (only the top inch is visible, water comes out at root level) and added more cabbages. These were planted out earlier in the year and left to fend for themselves. Thought they had all died but the 2 trays nearest the shed had survived.
Did several trips back and forth to the outdoor tap filling reservoirs at the back of the beds, added more sticks (reclaimed trellis) to support the broad beans and keep them growing against the fence rather than flopping forward. The plants at the back will more or less look after themselves until they are harvested but watering will be more difficult as the nearer plants start to grow. It has rained overnight but it soon dries up when the sun comes out. Later on I went back and sieved stones (ended up hand picking them) and put down a stone layer on the front part of the bed but have left a gap. I had intended to stop at the 3 m and do the bit near the house next - currently a 2' width of paving in front of the house and mum has decreed it should be widened to the end of the fist panel, so have to totally clear about 4' x 4' of bed with up to a foot of soil.
Now thinking I might just carry straight on, transplant the roses into pots (mum doesn't know about that) and continue to set it up all the same (6 or 7 metres of recycled fabric bags against the side fence with 3 raised beds 8' long (2.40m) and 2' wide in a row in front. more stones to fill in and then pots arranged in that corner. I'm hoping it will be a lot easier than the parts I've done because the soil has been well cultivated. But that is next week's problem (or maybe next month).
Rained more last night and it has been a 'wet' day - path finally got wet but has since dried. I have been outside for 2 hours, mainly sweeping bits of the shed and stacking things in there - framework for new polytunnel, framework for mini 6' x 4' greenhouse (only stayed up a weekend, some bits broke and it was used as plant support for the rest of the summer, bits from the broken swing seat, rotary washing line and various other poles that might be useful, + sewing machine, fan and more plastic bottles. Emptied out the compost from the cabbages that died and binned the containers (green mouldy on the inside). Filled one bin bag, started another (3 things not being used/ no longer needed including sunshade from swing seat).
Inside I've been through mum's pills, stock checked all the bathroom (soap, toothpaste, etc), baby wipes (to wipe between her toes), tissues, kitchen roll, nappy sacks, cotton wool etc (all vaguely medical), stocked the kitchen cupboard with tins (only 3 of each), rearranged the top of one of my wardrobes (moved out washing tablets last week), stock checked fresh, fridge and freezer contents in the kitchen (still need to do mine) and continued to gather rubbish and put like with like in my room, cooked sausage and mash for lunch and sandwiches for tea (I had the last of the Sunday's beef, mum had something different). May start to spend next month's money as mum has asked me to add all bran 'if you're putting in an order'. I suggested she tell me when she opens the last packet, not when she's finished it, wasn't going to do an order until the middle of next week but now have a growing list and one to revisit next month (will give me some idea how quickly mum uses things).
Grateful for getting things done - not a lot but doing something is always better than doing nothing or sitting moaning about how there is 'so much to do', space to grow (not a huge space but more than I'm used to - my garden is 18-19 feet by about 15, it slants but I did grow quite lot when I was younger. This is mum's yard that I'm working on - back fence is 4 panels wide, sides are 5 - 6 as far as the house. The outside fence still has the remnants of the curving driveway and when it was enclosed it is straight at the back them widens when it reaches the 'driveway'. At the side of the house the pathway is 7' wide and then there is a 4 panel addition - think large bay window shape, 2 flat panels at the back and a diagonal one either side). Grateful for my puzzle book, reading books and a good drama series.
I'm a firm believer in using every inch, keeping the ground covered to exclude the weeds and growing quick crops in between those with a longer growing season. I have plans for expansion - I'd have a lean to greenhouse the full width of the back of the house and stacked crates in front of the outside fence - vertical gardening. Last year I did quite well with strawberries and lettuce in yet more plastic bottle plant pots, stapled across the supports for the fence panels.My mission in life is not only to survive,but to thrive and to do so with some Passion, some Compassion, some Humour and some Style.NST SEP No 1 No Debt No mortgage4 -
NSD 14.
Did some more surveys in the am before DS got up. It’ll be interesting to see for how much longer they flow in.
Took DS and mum to a park after setting her up with a Gtree account and showing her how to use it. She’s looking to clear out.
At the park DS ran about while mum and I chatted. She’s been feeling low for some time. Her DH died suddenly a few years ago and she’s lonely. Covid has only made it worse. No amounts of me, DS, other family, or friends will fill the void left by her DH.
Grateful for some dry weather, living near good parks and green spaces, and time to chat with my mum.
NST 🐢 & MF before 40 🤸6 -
I averted a deliver00 last night. I am now officially on annual leave and I am about to go out for a walk, sun is shining.
Yesterdays gratitudes:
- NSD
- Birds singing
- pitting my work laptop away for 9 whole days3-month emergency fund (Cash ISA & PBs): £4744/ £6,000
Stocks and shares ISA: £1497
Additional pension contributions £0
Overpayment on mortgage: £0
Big Renno..£06 -
Today will be NSD 13, I have everything I need in the house to feed people. Made a massive fruit salad, half of which has been decimated by my army of locusts, and they seemed perfectly happy with the choice of 3 breads, salad, pickles, and things to make sandwiches with. So instead of making them a 'proper meal' I have cut up and roasted a whole load of root veg and peppers and red onions and they are roasting in the oven for a couple of easy quick lunches during the week.I was having a proper rummage in the pantry and have discovered I have 4.5 kilos of couscous. DH makes a pudding out of it, so it will get used up eventually, but really we should start eating it for normal meals, so that is on the menu next week. Also found a lot of dried chickpeas, and dried broad beans, so falafel will appear in my future. The shopping bill next month should be tiny if I base it around what I already have.Any suggestions on what to do with fine semolina gratefully received.I want to buy myself a second hand dutch bike, because then I can pack a lunch into my shopping basket, and head off down the canal paths in 3 different directions with the kids over the summer hols - practically a free day trip out + exercise - well, apart from the £60 odd for the bike. Plus we could bike to school/work together in the morning next term when it is dry.
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Afternoon turtles!
Had an annoying day. My flight to Iceland got cancelled (with 10 days notice) so I've had to apply for a refund and then try to find another flight, of course they're now twice the price... I did check with my insurer if they'd cover me to cancel as I've had so much hassle with this trip, along with the rise in cases, but as there are still flights available they won't cover anything. Have had to book another night's hotel and now factor in another day's food as well. I'm sure I'll enjoy it when I'm there but it's not very MSE! Just need to remind myself that this is probably the only way Covid has directly impacted me so I shouldn't complain, but it sure is frustrating.
Other than that, I've stocked up on a few necessities for the rabbits and generally done lots of cleaning and tidying.6 -
NSD#11
Sending hugs to all that need them. Things will get better x
Happy holidays @DrCarrie. I broke up for the school summer holidays yesterday too, I'm so looking forward to it. A colleague had her last day yesterday, so the two of us & another friend spent the evening at her pub in her garden. Lots of laughs, but I felt very ill this morning!!
Stayed the night at mum's, she's at work today, so I finished my book, then as a surprise I've put up two roller blinds that she's had for a few years & tidied her spare room.
Grateful that the holidays are finally here, good friends, that I'm now feeling better again & also that I've done something to help Mum. Oh nearly forgot, I'll be off shortly to collect the 4" drip cake that I won in May - yum!Use it up, wear it out
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Today was grocery delivery day and I also bought car wash, so I’m still on NSD 14.Stayed off the surveys, otherwise I’d not have done any jobs around the house or the garden, including weeding and sweeping my elderly neighbours’ front garden, and getting another listing on my own Gtree. Mum’s delighted to have interest in her first listing which will hopefully be collected tomorrow.Grateful for quality time with OH and DS, the three of us working together to tidy up the gardens (DS enjoys picking up all the moss balls from the stones 😁), and OH making homemade pizza for tonight’s dinner.NST 🐢 & MF before 40 🤸5
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Today I am grateful for a builder friend coming round and showing dh how to make sure the new flashing is fully flush on the roof and how to get the moss off our own roof, for getting some skipping in while dd danced, for a neighbour dropping round a crowbar and claw hammer for me to try to dismantle my freebie pallet, for finding myself some trousers to cut down into shorts in the ch shop, for dd finding a skateboard she likes.
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evening turtles, hope everyone is ok
Happy days to those on their hols now. I did a stretch class on Fb this morning, caught up on my PT job and tried to finish my qualification - one small bit left to do that i have to resubmit after it got sent back
DD1's bestie and i met DD1 and her boyfr and we had a lovely walk then went for a coffee, i was thinking of staying home and doing chores but i soon thought better and went outCalled at arseda on the way home and now making veg lasagne to take when we visit DD2 tomorrow.
Gratitudes - getting help from colleague with my qual from our virtual fortnightly support group; bedding dried on the line; seeing DD1 happy and smiley
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