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Employer forcing into office
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sheramber said:My DIL has been off work for 1 year with anxiety. She readily admits she knows it is irrational. But is no less real.
wannabe_a_saver. Severe anxiety is, thankfully, very treatable.
My DIL and her GP and her counsellor would be very grateful if you would share this treatment.0 -
JamoLew said:phillw said:MattMattMattUK said:
When it comes to Covid, the vulnerable have been vaccinated, many have been fully vaccinated, the infection rate is very low and those who are healthy have almost zero risk from Covid. So the risk of someone who is healthy, catching, then suffering severe effects from the virus is incredibly low, low enough that an anxiety about Covid is irrational.
Another month or two and it's another story of course.
I'd like to know what training can be done face to face that would actually meet covid safe guidelines for the work place, which couldn't be performed easier on zoom.
If the employer is either skimping on covid safeness or going to extra effort to force people into the office, then I would argue on their reasonableness. The "effectively there is no pandemic" argument is not reasonable.
They can't do the job without it and wouldn't get their qualification
We most definitely meet Covid safe guidelines
If you wish, read through my posts re my experiences first and secondhand.
to write off someones fears/worries like you have reminds me of my bullying so-called managers and their cronies and I'm glad that was years ago but as posted here they found out that not everyone can be pushed around just so they are looking good and often hardly working but spending time on making plans on how to trip up workers they don't like because of their own insecurities.
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Thrugelmir said:wannabe_a_saver said:MattMattMattUK said:cannugec5 said:I am astonished by how many people are so dismissive of a diagnosis of anxiety. Anxiety can be extremely debilitating. It is not irrational to be anxious about a real threat. If one has an existing anxiety disorder (and I’m not saying the OP has, I don’t know) a further threat will only exacerbate that.
When it comes to Covid, the vulnerable have been vaccinated, many have been fully vaccinated, the infection rate is very low and those who are healthy have almost zero risk from Covid. So the risk of someone who is healthy, catching, then suffering severe effects from the virus is incredibly low, low enough that an anxiety about Covid is irrational.0 -
sheramber said:My DIL has been off work for 1 year with anxiety. She readily admits she knows it is irrational. But is no less real.
wannabe_a_saver. Severe anxiety is, thankfully, very treatable.
My DIL and her GP and her counsellor would be very grateful if you would share this treatment.
There are lots of people who have suffered with crippling anxiety who are now living well and happily on various different medications. Some of them are very good friends of mine. It can take a while to get the meds exactly right, and of course some people will have more complex issues than others to deal with, but for most people suffering with anxiety there is very definitely a way to feel a lot better.1 -
I have severe depression and anxiety, and also until the end of March had the letter to shield.
I have however been into the office which is covid-secure once the first lockdown ended. It is safer in the office than the supermarket due to the procedures in place. We have one way system, hand sanitizer stations, signage everywhere and meeting rooms have maximum numbers of people allowed in them.
Has the OP asked their employer to see the risk assessment and maybe even visited for 10 minutes to see what the set up is?2 -
wannabe_a_saver said:Thrugelmir said:wannabe_a_saver said:MattMattMattUK said:cannugec5 said:I am astonished by how many people are so dismissive of a diagnosis of anxiety. Anxiety can be extremely debilitating. It is not irrational to be anxious about a real threat. If one has an existing anxiety disorder (and I’m not saying the OP has, I don’t know) a further threat will only exacerbate that.
When it comes to Covid, the vulnerable have been vaccinated, many have been fully vaccinated, the infection rate is very low and those who are healthy have almost zero risk from Covid. So the risk of someone who is healthy, catching, then suffering severe effects from the virus is incredibly low, low enough that an anxiety about Covid is irrational.
Severe anxiety is, thankfully, very treatable.1 -
Having a disability doesn't mean your employer has to make any adjustment you request of them.
Specifically, employers have a duty to consider reasonable adjustments in the following circumstances.
1) A practice/policy puts the disabled person at a substantial disadvantage, compared to those who are not disabled
2) A physical feature puts the disabled person at a substantial disadvantage, compared to those who are not disabled.
3) Where the disabled person would be at a substantial disadvantage (compared to non-disabled person) without an auxiliary aid, then the employer should provide the aid.
However, essentially there is no expectation or obligation for the employer to change the nature of the job - you can't apply for a job as a call centre worker and then expect to be put on clerical work because you have anxiety about speaking to people on the phone or are deaf. Reasonable adjustment would possibly be the ability to take a break after a particularly difficult call or an adapted headset (that works with a hearing aid), not changing the job itself.
If OP was the person who I remember posted on here a similar situation, I advised they should be careful about claiming their disability prevents them from attending their workplace to carry out their job as it could lead to their dismissal on medical grounds. Yes, they could be signed off sick - but this would only be a temporary measure for circumstances to change/their condition to improve. They could ask their employer to make an adjustment to allow them to work from home where possible (even part time to limit time in the office) - but whether it's reasonable would depend on the facts of the case. If it would be impractical or too disruptive to the employers operations then there's a good chance it won't be reasonable. If you can't do the job you were hired for, for medical reasons, then your employer would have justification for terminating the employment. Although of course, they should consider any reasonable alternative if available (such as reasonable adjustments or redeployment), as an alternative to dismissal.
The OP has asked a question that has a very complex answer, but they haven't given the relevant information. From their previous threads though, it appears there have been issues for more than 6 months about having to attend the workplace. So the issue seems to be more than the 3 hours training they're being asked to attend now.
You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means - Inigo Montoya, The Princess Bride7 -
Thrugelmir said:wannabe_a_saver said:Thrugelmir said:wannabe_a_saver said:MattMattMattUK said:cannugec5 said:I am astonished by how many people are so dismissive of a diagnosis of anxiety. Anxiety can be extremely debilitating. It is not irrational to be anxious about a real threat. If one has an existing anxiety disorder (and I’m not saying the OP has, I don’t know) a further threat will only exacerbate that.
When it comes to Covid, the vulnerable have been vaccinated, many have been fully vaccinated, the infection rate is very low and those who are healthy have almost zero risk from Covid. So the risk of someone who is healthy, catching, then suffering severe effects from the virus is incredibly low, low enough that an anxiety about Covid is irrational.
Severe anxiety is, thankfully, very treatable.
If it meets the criteria of a disability under the Equality Act they are legally required to make reasonable adjustments though.0 -
wannabe_a_saver said:Thrugelmir said:wannabe_a_saver said:Thrugelmir said:wannabe_a_saver said:MattMattMattUK said:cannugec5 said:I am astonished by how many people are so dismissive of a diagnosis of anxiety. Anxiety can be extremely debilitating. It is not irrational to be anxious about a real threat. If one has an existing anxiety disorder (and I’m not saying the OP has, I don’t know) a further threat will only exacerbate that.
When it comes to Covid, the vulnerable have been vaccinated, many have been fully vaccinated, the infection rate is very low and those who are healthy have almost zero risk from Covid. So the risk of someone who is healthy, catching, then suffering severe effects from the virus is incredibly low, low enough that an anxiety about Covid is irrational.
Severe anxiety is, thankfully, very treatable.
If it meets the criteria of a disability under the Equality Act they are legally required to make reasonable adjustments though.0 -
justworriedabit said:sheramber said:My DIL has been off work for 1 year with anxiety. She readily admits she knows it is irrational. But is no less real.
wannabe_a_saver. Severe anxiety is, thankfully, very treatable.
My DIL and her GP and her counsellor would be very grateful if you would share this treatment.
This thread reminds me of the bad old days when some laughed at those with fears, etc and were very dismissive as they possibly had not experience it first hand via self, close family etc.
The OP has not indicated that they are considered disabled, they’d just rather not go in to work. No-one can force them to go, but given how flimsy their reason is, and given their history, there’s a good chance that the employer will just ask them not to return.
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