Do I hire a private investigator

lemonpopcorn

hi op, my ex did this sort of thing to me and three other women, my ex now lives in carlisle, however I doubt it's him as he never had any money, he just did it for the thrill of getting away with it.
Also if you used a price comparison site for the car insurance it might have saved the details, I know mine did for cars I've had previously.

moneyistooshorttomention

Now thinking "You never know.....".

I wouldn't think its him...but you do never know.....

FBaby

What was the colour of the car?

busiscoming2

What we all need/want is a few photos of him, his car and his name. Then we can all do a bit of nosing around! You never know someone here may know him/his car...

BucksLady

OP, I was wondering if he was registered with your GP's Practice?
On registering, the surgery would request details of his previous GP's Practice in order to obtain his notes. Although information of this kind is confidential, I do know that under certain circumstances, info is shared.

PeacefulWaters

Raine_E_Day wrote: »

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We're the builders who put that stand up blindfolded?

They don't seem to have been aware of where the pitch lies!

74jax

FBaby wrote: »

What was the colour of the car?

And year of reg. We can all look then.

peachyprice

Spinkz wrote: »

That round table thing is a group for men in carlisle aged 18-45 add that to him saying he's from carlisle and the stadium its a no brainer! That is the 1 truthful thing he has said :T

Round Table is all over the country.

moneyistooshorttomention

peachyprice wrote: »

Round Table is all over the country.

True that its countrywide - but I took it that poster was referring specifically to the Carlisle group.

People in that sort of group often tend to have contacts with other people in the same group elsewhere in the country - lots of networking goes on through groups like that.

bluenose1

Dear OP, feel so sorry for you.
some good suggestions on here. It would be eating me up as well, the not knowing. I remember about 30 years ago an uncle by marriage going missing under similar circumstances and never being heard from again.
He had 2 children, I often wondered how he could have done that to not only his partner but his kids.
I hope it all works out and you move on