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Might be pregnant, should I tell him or wait?

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  • FatVonD
    FatVonD Posts: 5,315 Forumite
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    susieq87 wrote: »
    who cares if i am pregnant?

    He might care. he may have no wish to father a child at this point in his life with you or ever.

    I live in fear of my son meeting someone like you.

    So, in answer to your original question, yes, you should tell him so he knows to be better protected in the future.
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  • Top_Girl
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    In fairness, if a man doesn't understand or trust the rhythm method/natural contraception, he should be finding out about it before he has sex with someone who uses it and objecting and abstaining if he doesn't believe in it.

    Contraception is a two way street and from what she's said (and I'm taking it at face value, the same as the rest of you), she's been honest with him about her beliefs...
  • jc808
    jc808 Posts: 1,756 Forumite
    susieq87 wrote: »
    a few weeks ago (two days before the alton towers trip to those who recall) my bf and i had coitus....

    thanks for clearing that up
  • FatVonD wrote: »
    He might care. he may have no wish to father a child at this point in his life with you or ever.

    I live in fear of my son meeting someone like you.

    So, in answer to your original question, yes, you should tell him so he knows to be better protected in the future.

    He's capable of taking his own precautions too I'm sure.
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