Might be pregnant, should I tell him or wait?

lazer

Depends - do you want to open up the discussion to the possibility of you getting pregnant if you aren't?


Do you want your bf to be there if you find out you are pregnant?


Obviously your boyfriend knows you are using the rhythm/natural method of contraception which is less reliable than other artificial methods, so he should be aware of the possibility of pregnancy.

tea_lover

If I've remembered the correct thread (apologies if not), at the time of the Alton Towers incident you'd been together for about 8 weeks. Why on earth were you having unprotected sex at that stage of a relationship?

susieq87

we have spoke about contraception and he knows that i use natural birth control - getting pregnant is not an issue, it was merely when i should tell him that i am late. we are both in our late 20s, both work, both independent from family etc that it will not be the end of the world if i were to be pregnant.
i will not use artificial contraception and that is my choice as a woman, those who do good for them - i don't.

Acc72- i just love the word "coitus"

tea_lover

susieq87 wrote: »

i will not use artificial contraception and that is my choice as a woman, those who do good for them - i don't.

Absolutely. I just hope you both had full STI checks before you made this choice, as unplanned pg isn't the only risk you're taking here.

susieq87

tea_lover wrote: »

Absolutely. I just hope you both had full STI checks before you made this choice, as unplanned pg isn't the only risk you're taking here.

yes - we both did the test for STI and HIV together prior to having sex.

CH27

susieq87 wrote: »

we have spoke about contraception and he knows that i use natural birth control - getting pregnant is not an issue, it was merely when i should tell him that i am late. we are both in our late 20s, both work, both independent from family etc that it will not be the end of the world if i were to be pregnant.
i will not use artificial contraception and that is my choice as a woman, those who do good for them - i don't.

Acc72- i just love the word "coitus"

What do you think the MAP is?

susieq87

CH27 wrote: »

What do you think the MAP is?

i'm referring to long term

tea_lover

susieq87 wrote: »

yes - we both did the test for STI and HIV together prior to having sex.

Well I hope you said thank you.

Gigervamp

You won't use artificial contraception, yet you use the MAP? What do you think that is then?

CH27

susieq87 wrote: »

i'm referring to long term

What a crackpot way of doing things.