Advice please - relationship & friends.

DJS1988

dandelionclock30 wrote: »

Its like something off Jeremy Kyle is all this. I think its a wind up, what person would still be friends with someone who called them a CXXX?
I dont know anyone at all who would put up with all this.
Theres something not right, it too far fetched and silly.

Perhaps you could go and troll somewhere else, your posts are extremely boring,

DJS1988

Pyxis wrote: »

I hope you will feel up to letting us know the outcome. A lot of posters on this thread really feel for you, and hope it will all end well. The biggest loser will be GF, as she will lose you as a good friend.

Good luck!

Thank you. Everyone's (well, almost everyones!) input has been really helpful as it's good to hear outside opinions.

Now to just get through tomorrow without dunking a drink over her head...:D (I'm joking, dead calm me!).

Kayalana99

dandelionclock30 wrote: »

. I think its a wind up, what person would still be friends with someone who called them a CXXX?

DC you're making a bit of a fool of yourself now....people have arguments and you're living in a bubble if you believe that it's not possible to be friends with someone because they called you a 'bad word' in the heat of an argument.

I would think this thread has gone into way to much detail for a wind up as well, and I would be extremely impressed if OP did have that much creativity & knack for keeping up with the lies.

With respect you're just trying to cause trouble now.

DJS1988

Kayalana99 wrote: »

I would think this thread has gone into way to much detail for a wind up as well, and I would be extremely impressed if OP did have that much creativity & knack for keeping up with the lies.

With respect you're just trying to cause trouble now.

If I did, I'd be writing a novel, not posting on a forum! :T

Kayalana99

DJS1988 wrote: »

If I did, I'd be writing a novel, not posting on a forum! :T

I almost wrote you should be writing books instead if that was the case but thought it was a bit to much. :rotfl:

purpleshoes_2

I actually would find it incredibly difficult to be in a relationship with someone who cant see that a so called friend is behaving as badly as this woman is.

I think you got your question answered about how much loyalty your bf had towards you when he made his choice last weekend.

That won't be what you want to hear, but actions speak louder than words

(and yes, Ive read the entire thread just incase its said again that I havent).

DJS1988

purpleshoes wrote: »

I actually would find it incredibly difficult to be in a relationship with someone who cant see that a so called friend is behaving as badly as this woman is.

I think you got your question answered about how much loyalty your bf had towards you when he made his choice last weekend.

That won't be what you want to hear, but actions speak louder than words

(and yes, Ive read the entire thread just incase its said again that I havent).

He DOES know she's behaved badly. He's had words in the past, and made them aware he will not be around if they continued with the behaviour, once they've been warned.

He thinks we've ALL behaved wrongly in this most recent situation.

I don't know how many times I have to explain this point. It's very frustrating when people that can't/refuse to take in simple facts keep posting the same thing over and over..

Izadora

purpleshoes wrote: »

I actually would find it incredibly difficult to be in a relationship with someone who cant see that a so called friend is behaving as badly as this woman is.

I think you got your question answered about how much loyalty your bf had towards you when he made his choice last weekend.

But that's you and how other people feel is going to be very different.

I don't think he was right in going to the party but I also don't feel that it shows a lack of loyalty to the OP and would never consider ending the relationship if my boyfriend did something similar. Yes, we'd be having a row about it but I don't think that having torn loyalties is in any way the same as showing no loyalty.

dandelionclock30

DJS1988 wrote: »

I think what IS pathetic is continuing to post here, with nothing constructive to say.

I can see you are far older than me, perhaps it would be wise to share some life experience when people are asking for advice, rather than spewing bile like you have here.

Not spewing bile at all, you just dont like it when people tell you how it is. I think your lying because in real life people just do not behave like this and put up with such daftness.Even in primary schools and prisons its a more sensible carry on and people behave better.

victory

DJS1988 wrote: »

I think what IS pathetic is continuing to post here, with nothing constructive to say.

I can see you are far older than me, perhaps it would be wise to share some life experience when people are asking for advice, rather than spewing bile like you have here.

You are loosing it again, not everyone is going to agree with you, we've been through this, you getting through it without throwing a drink over her head ( said in jest maybe) is debatable if you can't keep it together... I'm with purpleshoes there is nothing left to say