I've got a date tonight, going to her place, but I'm quite nervous. Advice?

picklekin

kingslayer wrote: »

It may come across as paranoia, but those are theories in my head that i felt could be true. maybe i am paranoid and insecure, but that's mostly to do with not having been seriously interested in someone for years.

She has been the first person in a long time that i've actually been interested in wanting to get to know, so i think this is why i am like i am. I don't know if i've upset her, but yeah i probably came across in a bad way after texting her asking if she was free of sti's. at the time i thought nothing of it, but it may have well angered her if untrue. like i said before, i have a tendency to over think things too much and it isn't healthy.

You say you like her, but I'm not getting that from your posts. You talk about her like an object (and treat her like one) and think she might be in some way deceiving you... She doesn't say much on the phone so your not really getting much there...Do you just "like" the fact she's easy?

adouglasmhor

kingslayer wrote: »

Okay, but I'm not a troll. The only reason she could be upset with me is because I asked her about STI's in a fairly blunt way, and considering how emotional she seems, then maybe she took it totally the wrong way.

Or your performance or equipment was not up to scratch.

VestanPance

This morning Kingslayer arrived at the office to find the secretary had caught her suspender belt on the office printer. With a suggestive smile she pleaded with him to assist her in her time of great need. He wandered over slowly confused as to what the problem may be!

His hands slowly slid up her stocking clad thigh and he fumbled as he released the suspender belt from that infernal machine. She was in awe of his youthful manliness, her freedom granted she grasped him and begged for him to take her now. They tore at each others clothes and made mad passionate love on the office floor.

They quickly made themselves decent before anyone else would arrive and the secretary made herself a coffee and sat at her desk. Kingslayer spent the next 24hr wondering why coffee! What did it mean?

suze200

PMSL VestanPance

krustylouise

:rotfl:VestanPance.........

tea_lover

50 shades of troll

kingslayer

picklekin wrote: »

You say you like her, but I'm not getting that from your posts. You talk about her like an object (and treat her like one) and think she might be in some way deceiving you... She doesn't say much on the phone so your not really getting much there...Do you just "like" the fact she's easy?

The reason being i was upset/angry about the situation. if you chat to someone for that amount of time and they tell you they're looking for something meaningful and you're on the same page; they don't give any idea that they are after anything less, then you have sex with them and don't hear from them, it will make you upset.

it isn't like we've been speaking to each other for one night and then jumped into bed together; we had known each other for a few months now, talking every day. it is totally different if you both know the deal and agree it's a one night stand, but the whole reason we got talking was (or so i thought) that we would meet up and get to know each other.

The reason i accepted that we could meet at her house is because i thought it would be a lot easier with my social anxiety than going into the city centre which is 30 mins away from her place. Whether she is/was easy or not, i don't know, but i never got that impression from her at all.

people on here will dismiss it as nothing, but to me, someone who hasn't dated in a few years, suffered previously from mental health issues, then finally meeting someone who i thought was a genuine person looking for serious friendship etc, it's a real kick in the gut.

i want to know what is going on, though. I think i'll give it another day and call her tomorrow. if she doesn't respond then i will know for sure the deal, but it would be confidence knock if she didn't want to know me any more. In all honesty, i would rather be shot down/rejected by a woman than a situation like this.

kingslayer

tea_lover wrote: »

50 shades of troll

seriously, just stop that now!

itsanne

I've just read all the way from the start.

Best entertainment in ages

thorsoak

adouglasmhor wrote: »

Or your performance or equipment was not up to scratch.

My thoughts exactly! Maybe she doesn't appreciate the wham, bam thank you ma'am technique!