I've got a date tonight, going to her place, but I'm quite nervous. Advice?

Morglin

elsien wrote: »

She's so shy she opens the door in a skimpy nightie to a bloke she's never met before? The mind boggles as to what she'll get up to when she manages to overcome her shyness.

She will probably run down the street, stark bollock naked, shouting "come and get me, Big Boy" to blokes that had only popped out a loaf or a pint of milk.....:eek::eek:

It will be psychological carnage in Southend On Sea.......:eek:

Kiss me Quick hats and cockles will have nothing on all this...:eek:

Lin

victory

kingslayer wrote: »

seriously, just stop that now!

Do you have anything else to add to the story?

FBaby

Kingslayer, I did the dating site for years and so did a number of my single friends. I can assure you that none of them ever agreed to meeting a man for the first time, even after months of talking on the phone at their house. Firstly because it is dangerous to invite a man you've never met before to your place when you're alone. Second because it does openly gives the message that they expect sex, which none of my friends who were looking for a long term relationship ever considered on the first date.

The minute she suggested you going to hers, the message was clear. I even think a number of posters stated this to you when you didn't go the last time.

So either you are very naive, in which case, take this as a lesson, or accept that if you are invited to a woman's house on the first date, there is a very good chance it is because she is after one thing, and one thing only.

kingslayer

FBaby wrote: »

Kingslayer, I did the dating site for years and so did a number of my single friends. I can assure you that none of them ever agreed to meeting a man for the first time, even after months of talking on the phone at their house. Firstly because it is dangerous to invite a man you've never met before to your place when you're alone. Second because it does openly gives the message that they expect sex, which none of my friends who were looking for a long term relationship ever considered on the first date.

The minute she suggested you going to hers, the message was clear. I even think a number of posters stated this to you when you didn't go the last time.

So either you are very naive, in which case, take this as a lesson, or accept that if you are invited to a woman's house on the first date, there is a very good chance it is because she is after one thing, and one thing only.

Ok, but I'm seriously not trolling. I don't want people on here thinking i am as i do like coming on here and getting advice. One last thing, and I promise I'm not going to talk about this again as it's giving me headache. I was going to give her one last call tomorrow morning, but do you think I should? I kind of just wanted to find out once and for all whether she does want to see me, just so I can draw a line under it all for good.

kingslayer

thorsoak wrote: »

My thoughts exactly! Maybe she doesn't appreciate the wham, bam thank you ma'am technique!

No, I actually didn't do that at all, but I just wasn't entirely in the mood for sex, so my performance suffered. Anyway, I'm going to shut up as this gives people more ammunition to take the p*ss out of me.

Billie-S

tea_lover wrote: »

50 shades of troll

:rotfl::T Hilarious!

And 'kingslayer' despite your words above here ^^^ (post 266; ) I don't think you have any intention of shutting up. You are getting far too much attention. Attention you don't get in real life maybe? Am I right?

pinkladyof66

skimpy nightie at the door !!! now come on

How many woman even wear skimpy nighties nowadays I am honestly convinced now this is a wind up... too far fetched to be true in any way shape or form..

Stephb1986_2

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-2669057/Casual-sex-IS-good-self-esteem-youre-physically-strong-narcissistic-male.html

Indie_Kid

Morglin wrote: »

She will probably run down the street, stark bollock naked, shouting "come and get me, Big Boy" to blokes that had only popped out a loaf or a pint of milk.....:eek::eek:

It will be psychological carnage in Southend On Sea.......:eek:

Kiss me Quick hats and cockles will have nothing on all this...:eek:

Lin

Thanks for that image!

Lily-Rose_3

Stephb1986 wrote: »

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-2669057/Casual-sex-IS-good-self-esteem-youre-physically-strong-narcissistic-male.html

Interesting. However, none of what the OP is saying is true. He is inventing it all. As someone said above, he is posting all this for attention; attention he is not getting in real life. He is loving every moment of it on here, and that is why he keeps adding little bits, to keep the attention going.

It's all rubbish; everything he is posting.