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I've got a date tonight, going to her place, but I'm quite nervous. Advice?

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  • kingslayer wrote: »
    one other thing that has been running through my head is, i noticed she had breast implants. Now, i know this may sound trivial, but taking that into consideration, as well as what she said regarding her health, i.e. she has regular tests, maybe she works as an escort when she gets a chance?

    I just wondered what you all thought about this?

    Did she ask you for payment after you stayed over the other night?
  • kingslayer
    kingslayer Posts: 602 Forumite
    I think i need to take a break from thinking about all this and just chill the hell out. Thinking about all this is driving me mad. She hasn't replied to my text yet and that was last night I sent it!

    sorry, guys, i will leave you alone now. I need to get concentrate on other things. Talking about this here is causing me to think about everything and type it out on here, which isn't a good thing.
  • kingslayer
    kingslayer Posts: 602 Forumite
    Did she ask you for payment after you stayed over the other night?

    No lol. I just keep wondering why she has breast implants, unless she has a sugar daddy on the side or something, or maybe she cheated on her husband, that's why he left her. I don't know, maybe she isn't interested in anything serious with me after all, but to keep thinking about it isn't helping, unless i get a reply from her so i can talk to her about it all.
  • StuC75
    StuC75 Posts: 2,065 Forumite
    You are soo wrong and have way too much time to think.. It cannot be healthy..

    If she was an escort why would she take the time to meet you (as an unknown) at her own place for a 'Freebie' without the mention of any kind of protection being used.

    Also as an escort would expect her self confidence would be a lot higher..

    When would you think that she would fit this in?

    Sensible people do have health screening before new partners - or if an Ex had cheated on her - so she felt the need to check he hadn't passed anything on... it doesn't mean that shes 'working'..

    The implants could be down to health reasons? breast cancer? or to help with confidence if wasn't comfortable with what already head - re her shyness \ low self confidence & worth - feeling that you should be complementing her to make her feel better..

    for now its probably better that youre not speaking to her as you would most likely say something massively insulting!!..
    kingslayer wrote: »
    one other thing that has been running through my head is, i noticed she had breast implants. Now, i know this may sound trivial, but taking that into consideration, as well as what she said regarding her health, i.e. she has regular tests, maybe she works as an escort when she gets a chance? Now, i know this is going to sound really wacky and out there, but it's these little things that make me wonder about her.

    Is that too out there? I really am thinking too much about this, but why would she have breast implants? Correct me if i'm wrong, but there aren't many in day to day life that have breast implants, as they are too expensive, right?

    I just wondered what you all thought about this?
  • kingslayer
    kingslayer Posts: 602 Forumite
    arbrighton wrote: »
    Erm I think that you're wildly speculating and frankly if I were the person you are currently talking about behind their back and found out, I would be incredibly insulted and ABSOLUTELY furious

    I know, i'm starting to sound very judgemental and I'm not meaning to. I just keep going over things in my head, which is ridiculous and i need to stop it and give my mind a rest.

    My god, why do relationships and dating have to be so confusing sometimes. Why can nothing be straight forward, well, at least for me anyway. :wall::wall:
  • Goldiegirl
    Goldiegirl Posts: 8,806 Forumite
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    Why does she have breast implants?

    I imagine it's because she wanted them.

    To think that she's an escort because she has them is the most ludicrous thing I've read on a thread that is mostly ludicrous.
    Early retired - 18th December 2014
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  • tomtontom
    tomtontom Posts: 7,929 Forumite
    kingslayer wrote: »
    No lol. I just keep wondering why she has breast implants, unless she has a sugar daddy on the side or something, or maybe she cheated on her husband, that's why he left her. I don't know, maybe she isn't interested in anything serious with me after all, but to keep thinking about it isn't helping, unless i get a reply from her so i can talk to her about it all.

    Perhaps because she wanted larger breasts, or had reconstructive surgery? I've never known a man be cynical about implants!
  • tea_lover
    tea_lover Posts: 8,261 Forumite
    kingslayer wrote: »
    one other thing that has been running through my head is, i noticed she had breast implants. Now, i know this may sound trivial, but taking that into consideration, as well as what she said regarding her health, i.e. she has regular tests, maybe she works as an escort when she gets a chance? Now, i know this is going to sound really wacky and out there, but it's these little things that make me wonder about her.

    Is that too out there? I really am thinking too much about this, but why would she have breast implants? Correct me if i'm wrong, but the average woman wouldn't be able to afford breast implants, as they are too expensive, right?

    I just wondered what you all thought about this?

    :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:you, my friend, are hilarious :rotfl:
  • Caroline_a
    Caroline_a Posts: 4,071 Forumite
    I'm calling troll. This is just ridiculous.
  • tomtontom
    tomtontom Posts: 7,929 Forumite
    Caroline_a wrote: »
    I'm calling troll. This is just ridiculous.

    I'm waiting for the posts from kingslayer's knock off, or kingslayer's STD? ;)
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