The Trials & Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

ElephantLovesMe

Thank you floaty time to go and rob a bank to pay for a FET. It has now turned in to what can only be described as a period so not holding out much hope at all for a BFP tomorrow, I'm prepared for BFN but isn't going to make it any easier.

Hope everyone has a lovely weekend. Xxxx

shrimpy_80

Elephant I'm so sorry to hear your news. Will be thinking of you, tomorrow especially xxx

Primmer

Elephant - so sorry to read what is happening, I know from personal experience how much it hurts if it turns out to be unsuccessful when testing tomorrow (I started bleeding a few days before). Please do still test tomorrow as there is always a tiny piece of hope and the clinic will want you too anyway. Sending hugs, and thinking of you and your dh xx

ElephantLovesMe

Thank you everyone. I will still test tomorrow as the clinic say to still test just in case it's a bleed whilst pregnant. It's a rough 24 hours for us both, but i guess we always knew it wasn't gaurenteed to work.

Thank you again for all your messages and thoughts :-) xxxxx

Floaty

Sending lots of love Elephant xx

Afm I'm so sick of having to wake up every day at 6.30 for injections. Even in weekends, it blows! Scan tomorrow to find out what's going on in there and hopefully a planned date for transfer...

ElephantLovesMe

Arghhh so I have done two tests this morning both had very very very very faint 2nd lines... I'm pretty much going with it being a negative result and maybe I'm just wishful thinking and wanting to see the 2nd lines. I was all prepared for it to be negative result today because I'd been bleeding etc. it's even worse that it's a Sunday & the nurses at the clinic aren't there :-/ just have to wait & ring them tomorrow I guess.

shrimpy_80

Elephant have been thinking of you today, did you manage to speak to the clinic? x

Hope your scan goes ok today Floaty.

ElephantLovesMe

Yes spoke to the clinic yesterday and they have put me down on the system as a positive as it isn't possible to get a false positive however faint. But she did say that it's possible it did implant but not enough to continue with pregnancy or it could be that I'm one of the women who bleed while pregnant. I have to re test on Friday and let them know the reusult. Not holding out much hope of it being positive. After I'd already faced the fact it hasn't worked it just seems like nothing is straightforward. Friday seems an age away before we know for definite but me & the DH have said that we will keep thinking that it's probably going to be negative so that we have to go through all the heartbreak again after going through it over the weekend. But I think it will still be heartbreaking all over again.

Hope everything is going ok floaty and that you have your date very soon xx

Floaty

Oh Elephant, what a rollercoaster. We've all hears the stories of people who do bleed in early pg, so here's hoping you're one of them and the retest shows bfp.

Afm scan was fine and our ET date will be next Tuesday. It's perfect because we're on hols with friends this week and I'm at a hen party this weekend, so hardly the r+r I want for the 2ww! I won't be taking any time off work, just taking it a bit easy. Hopefully the endo scratch and EmbryoGlue will dot the trick this time.

Hope everyone else is good, hugs to you all xxxx

ElephantLovesMe

It certainly has been a rollercoaster for us both floaty I don't know whether I'm coming or going at the moment. And thought of Friday still seeming so far away is enough to make you want to jump off the rollercoaster just for a break. As you say fingers crossed I am one of those women who bleed during early pregnancy but we aren't getting our hopes up too much.

Excellent news about your ET date being confirmed, fingers and toes crossed for you. Enjoy your time away and the hen do :-) xxx